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what is life like in Pakistan?


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(salam) I wanted to find out from people who are residing in Pakistan and from ones who have emigrated there from other countries. What its like living there i myself go for a holiday but am now thinking about settling out there with my hubby and kids as my husband who came to london after marrying me is now fed up with the country after just 9 years and i am considering it but i want to find out the good and bad points before we decide.

My in laws live in a village in Jhelum but i want to live in a city and so would prefer if people from the citys would give me their experiences.

What is life like, schools, crime, etc.

I would really welcome views from people who have emigrated to pakistan are u happy r u still there or did u come bak?

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Where in Pakistan? Karachi, Lahore, Islamabad etc.?

I'm from Islamabad, life over there is much different than other cities such as Lahore and Karachi. It's a more quite area, and cleaner too :P. I've never 'lived' there but I go there for visits.

I don't live in London; though I've been there many times as well, but if I were given a choice between London and Pakistan :P I would choose Pakistan.

But between Canada and Pakistan: Canada B).

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(salam) i am here in pakistan living in karachi.well every place has some gud points n some negitive points too.........well pakistan is not too much worst country,lol.

see if u r gonna live in karachi,now a days da weader is really very hot..

well u'll always get da trouble of jam traffic.....

u'll find beggars i think almost every where,lol....

u'll find dat da shopkeepers will somretimes really make u irritate coz of da bargainig case!!!

but listen here u'll find some gud points too........

like.......

like.

like...

lol

i must tell u

if u think positive u'll definitely find gud points........

like

here u can easily find shia mosques..

u can easily express ur believes like in a form of majalis,juloos n maatam..

here der is no such restrictions 4 muslims 4 any sort of religious thing..........

u can easily find general stores,medical stores,clinics,different shops,funlands,different places 4 diners n lunch,play area,parks n etc......

see how much benifits r der too.......

but da thing is dat it totally depends on u dat in how much time do u settle urself.....

i am sure u'll inshallah easily make urself settelled here wid lots of enjoyement.......

but plz always think positive n da results will automatically turn out positive....inshallah.

my prayers r wid u all..

so best of luck. :D

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^Lol, im from Islamabad but like today we were talking on the phone and there all like you know even for the poor people they dont food and hardly any water comes through the tap so everyone stores water. Other than that Pakistan has gone bad, im really not looking forward to going there, because they have so "modern" that it gets annoying. I mean my cousins are like oh you my friend has a girlfriend/boyfriend and theres alot of people who have belly button piercings and stuff like that so i get shocked and im like wat the hell? But im thinking the name is Islamic Republic of Pakistan then i dont see/hear any Islamic stuff from people who go there and what they show on TV, well TV doesnt represent the whole community and stuff but still. And then my cousin says that im a ABCD= American Born Confused Desi lool, but we'll see when i go this year inshallah.

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I've lived here almost all my life uptill now, except for the few months when I was a kid.. Life is good, despite the shortcomings, and mind you, theres not one.. life is good.. eventhough at times I do feel what type of place this is, but then, it is still good, because home is where the heart is.. :D

oh yeah, water is bad these days, not at my place alhamdulillah, light turns off at the weirdest hours at the night, and your phone can go dead while you are still on it..so there..hehe

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As ali said that if you have dollars you won't have much problem.You can get your children in any of the good schools....they'll jess have to study 'n work harder here as compared to in london as regards to getting good grades.

As far as crime is concerned...law 'n order situation has worsened over the years like cell phone snatchings,general muggins have increased...so you gotta be careful in that sense.But if yer generally careful you can move around...but unlike in eng you'll need to rely on yer own car rather than public transporatation as its not very reliable.

The health facilities aren't very good either...you'll have to have money and contacts to get some good medical attention.

Safe drinking water is also not available...you'll need to get bottled water if you want to remain free of various diseases.

And if you people, while moving here are thinking that you guys would be getting some good environment for your children as compared to eng...then thatz a serious misconception as following islam and putting good morals in your children in pak isn't as easy as people think.

The economic situation and the political situation is highly volatile despite the govt. claims.Corruption is also very common and extremely frustrating.

So unless you are one of those people who are willing to struggle it out for the sake of your country i would advise that you think really hard before coming here.

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though i dont hail from this city, yet can safely claim that karachi is matchless as far as pakistan is concerned :P

Perdesi Loog.Dase say door baith ker Pakistan ko yad kar rahay hain..

well friends every thing is better in Abroad..but not AZADARI..AZADARI IS ONLY AVAILABLE IN PAKISTAN WITH ALOT OF ULAMA,ZAKIR,MATAMI DASTAS,NOHA KHAWANS.LATE NIGHT LANGAR..NOHA KHAWANI PRACTICE..ETC...

SO friends if u want to settle in paksitan..come and live in your own Village or city where your Grand Father and Father strat there Life..

I AM PURE PAKISTANI AND AZADAR-e-HUSSAIN and i know alot of people who are missing pakistan..

SO its all depends on you guys that where u want to live.. www.pakwatan.com,www.ipaki.com etc..alot of websites available for pakistan Guide. ....Allah HAFIZ. :D

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If you like Kansas's life then Islamabad is good, and if you like New York's life then Karachi. :D

Karachi has had many problems in the past, especially transportation. But now I have heard that it is improving very fast.

If I were to live in anywhere in Pakistan then it would be the one and only Karachi.

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well, if i were to choose which city to live in, in pakistan, it would defenetly be karachi. Because first of all, i have lived there for 13 years before moving to canada lol....

Islamabad = quite, clean, alittle green city, although the summers with no wind are a killer.

Karachi = alittle bit more dust, not as much clean, sort of new york style people everywhere, and even tho the summers are hot, its still windy, and it makes days of 35+ feel like 30 lol... soo in that sense karachi for sure...

but as to other conditions... you can find schools everywhere, public and private.. they are pretty good schools, especially the one i went to which was a public one. (st. francis school). and like any other place.. it has its good/bad people. and although its an islamic country, raising a good muslim kid is not an easy job there... because before i migrated to canada i was around 12-13 years of age, and i was comming to my senses and i started noticing things which should not be in an islamic state and it really bothered me... like boyfriend/girlfriend stuff .. even boyfriend/boyfriend stuff lol.... anyways i even also started noticing where some young adults would abuse other kids.. physically, emotionally and even sexually...

so interms of moving to pakistan from london because you might think that it will be easier to live in pakistan or raise a kid because its an islamic enviornment... think again lol....

other than that.. you can find great services in karachi... lol theres mcdonalds, kfcs .... but they dont even come close to the street burgers that they sell.... lol hmm spicy.. i must admit my mouth is full of water right now lol....

but again moving from london to pakistan would have some health complications too .. because of the bad enviornment there.. and all of the diseases.... if you lived all your life there, you probably wont get those diseases because your body becomes immune to them.. but if you move, then you have more chance of becomming sick...

but still in the end... like imran said lol if you have $$ you are set lol...

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i can imagine how life can be living so far frm homeland....if ure really serious abt moving to pak,dwell in karachi it will be better for both education and job prospectives.Moreover the fast paced life u guys must be used to of,i know it wont be the same but atleast there will be a feeling of belongingness.....regardless of electricity,water and crimes issues life can turn beautiful here on the account if u want it too.....good luck wid ur endeavours...

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(salam) I wanted to find out from people who are residing in Pakistan and from ones who have emigrated there from other countries. What its like living there i myself go for a holiday but am now thinking about settling out there with my hubby and kids as my husband who came to london after marrying me is now fed up with the country after just 9 years and i am considering it but i want to find out the good and bad points before we decide.

My in laws live in a village in Jhelum but i want to live in a city and so would prefer if people from the citys would give me their experiences.

What is life like, schools, crime, etc.

I would really welcome views from people who have emigrated to pakistan are u happy r u still there or did u come bak?

(salam). It depends up u that what is ur nature, what is ur thinking, what are ur emotions. Pakistan is good place living. You can easily perform ur obligations also religious obligation here.

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Karachi is really busy, its like NY of Pakistan, the place is dirty in alot of places like NY is, but theres always something to do, whether its night cricket or jus doing somethin late or livin a nice religious life

lahore, ive never been there, i lived in karachi for 12 yaers and 2 things i loved bout karachi was, first food and second jus the poeple there were real man, everyones real there

lahore could be a sick place, but its not as busy as karachi if u like alot of activity

islamabad is really nice if u want to live a quiet life, its the cleanest of the pak big cities, but really islamabad is boring compared to karachi

karachi is not as hot as lahore, cuz theres a sea breeze in karachi, so its always nice at night and windy. in lahore theres alot of LOO, or like hot wind so ive heard

theres too much conjustion in karachi

BUT IF U RICH, u can jus live in defence, that place is like wide open, big mansions and alot of things to do

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Move to Pakistan might be difficult in the beginning but one day when you see your kids grow up to be good azadar.

Not that the opportunity is not there in the west but when it comes to azadari, pakistan rocks.

I've lived in New Jersey for all 20 years of my life and learned the best forms of azadari. We perform matamdari every thursday, and sunday in new york (al-mehdi). We perform zanjeer zani on every panjatan's shahadat. New York, near jersey, is the only north american area where Imam Ali's juloos was taken out. After every majlis and matam we send hard lanats on the three, with names, and aisha. We have all the azadari you want here in south jersey.

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I was born in Karachi and lived there for around 4 years. If I were to go back, my lungs would probably be like "**** this" and give up, the pollution was really bad when I lived there and when I visited in 1997. I can still clearly remember the traffic, the stray dogs and cats, the beggars, my schools. It isn't as bad as I'm making it out to be though, Marine Drive is a nice place.

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I've lived in New Jersey for all 20 years of my life and learned the best forms of azadari. We perform matamdari every thursday, and sunday in new york (al-mehdi). We perform zanjeer zani on every panjatan's shahadat. New York, near jersey, is the only north american area where Imam Ali's juloos was taken out. After every majlis and matam we send hard lanats on the three, with names, and aisha. We have all the azadari you want here in south jersey.

Geo azadar, Mola jaza dey...

By the way New York is not the only or the first city to have a jaloos on 21st Ramadhan, Toronto's had it for last 3 years.

You are right Aza-e-Hussain is everywhere but still no comparison with Pakistan, where you can get up in the middle of the night and if you feel like you can actually go out and for sure find a majlsi somewhere (atleast during the 2 months and 8 days) and zanjeer zani not only on shahadat but almost every day during moharram and you can actually do it even during the other months, people just go to the imambargah, walk up to an alam and do zanjeer zani.

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if u are thinking to come back becoz of ur husband plz stop u will spoil ur kids

i have seen kids who are back from london and they jus cant take the pressure

firstly of studied then of other kids around

i have seen lots of them sitting and crying in the corner of their houses.......

if ur kids are kinda street smart or u have money to provide them with cars and best schools u have much of their problems solved becoz in pakistan ppl respect and feel very honoured to be a friend of a person with money and car....rest u will feel like an allien when u are here with ppl having lots of expectations then after 5 yrs u will feel normal when ppl get to know u and ur financial situation.........

believe me u will be an allien and as u said ur inlaws are from a village in jhelum...........be ready for lots of competition and annoying english to listen to

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AoA Wr Wb

I am from the US and have been living in Pak for over 7 months now. I love it. At first it was hard to be away from my family in the US...mainly my teen age sons but as time passed it became very easy. Pakistan is my second home now. If you are new to Pak you will have to realize that there is load shedding of electric, gas and water. Life in Pakistan is a 360 degree turn from the US. Allah hafiz.....

if u are thinking to come back becoz of ur husband plz stop u will spoil ur kids

i have seen kids who are back from london and they jus cant take the pressure

firstly of studied then of other kids around

i have seen lots of them sitting and crying in the corner of their houses.......

if ur kids are kinda street smart or u have money to provide them with cars and best schools u have much of their problems solved becoz in pakistan ppl respect and feel very honoured to be a friend of a person with money and car....rest u will feel like an allien when u are here with ppl having lots of expectations then after 5 yrs u will feel normal when ppl get to know u and ur financial situation.........

believe me u will be an allien and as u said ur inlaws are from a village in jhelum...........be ready for lots of competition and annoying english to listen to

I am living in Pindi and visit villages alot....and i will only visit them....village life is not for me......COMPETITION is always around you and ENGLISH.....sometimes you have to piece together what they are saying in order to make it sound half right......alot don't even speak English.....LOL>>>>>.....pakistan pplrespect and feel very honoured to be a friend of a person with money and car....They will also help you spend your money and use your car as their own.....LOL

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