30 years without wife

[Guest olzhasakhmetov]

Hello to all assalamu aleykum fellow Muslims

my issue is that no pretty Muslim woman loved me for all my life and my parents have not married me off to somebody - I don't know if that would happen. Even though my personal life is good - it makes me sad that I have not been married yet. [edit] I swear to God sometimes there was no protector for me besides Allah.

Edited August 29, 2025 by ShiaChat Mod
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[ILuvMuhammadSAW]

On 8/29/2025 at 12:43 AM, Guest olzhasakhmetov said:

Hello to all assalamu aleykum fellow Muslims

my issue is that no pretty Muslim woman loved me for all my life and my parents have not married me off to somebody - I don't know if that would happen. Even though my personal life is good - it makes me sad that I have not been married yet. [edit] I swear to God sometimes there was no protector for me besides Allah.

Salam

I feel you brother, and alot of us do, alot of us are unmarried even when we want to be married, and its natural to feel this sadness when we want to have a partner, especially when/if living alone, and its good youve held onto Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) as your protector 

Marriage is important, but maybe it might be because Allah knows the right time and person, even when things get hard, and if you dont get married, its absolutely okay, may allah Ease you with your struggles and sadness and Give you a righteous wife soon, aameen 

[Ashvazdanghe]

Salam somehow related thread .

 

[Meedy]

It hurts alot and i understand your pain. I'm struggling and still haven't found a way to cope. Nothing is working for me. Y_Y

[Abu Hassanain]

Salam

after reading these threads, every brother who is married, should fall into prostration and thank the Lord of the two E. and the two W.

I really pray all the young brothers are struggling or able to get married