I am Losing myself

[Aadilharoon]

My Family are not shia they will not come with me to paradise,I'm afraid of being stuck with a bunch of strangers for all eternity,Also why do we need all those flipping virgin women crowding the place up why can't we be content with just the one wife maybe two wives

Edited August 4 by ShiaChat Mod
title clarification

[notme]

I believe you have misunderstood the idea of Paradise.  

[313_Waiter]

7 hours ago, notme said:

I believe you have misunderstood the idea of Paradise.  

Do you see it as metaphor?

[notme]

2 hours ago, 313_Waiter said:

Do you see it as metaphor?

No. I see it as a place with no reason to be unhappy. You will not be lonely, and you can be in the company of your spouse if you want and they want. 

[Ashvazdanghe]

On 8/1/2024 at 7:20 AM, Aadilharoon said:

My Family are not shia they will not come with me to paradise,

Salam they may come with you in Paradise if they have no enmity with Ahlulbayt (عليه السلام) based on their good deeds & your intercession for them inshaAllah.

On 8/1/2024 at 7:20 AM, Aadilharoon said:

'm afraid of being stuck with a bunch of strangers for all eternity

There is nothing as being alone or being among a bunch of stranger which all people of Paradise are familiar & friend of each other .

On 8/1/2024 at 7:20 AM, Aadilharoon said:

,Also why do we need all those flipping virgin women crowding the place up why can't we be content with just the one wife maybe two wives

You can have your desired combination of companions likewise being with  one wife maybe two wives which everything will be formed based on your satisfaction . 

[Abu Hadi]

It says in the Quran regarding Paradise 'They will have therein what they want / wish for'

If u don't want virgins (whatever number) and only want one or two wives then that is what you will have. Each person is in their own version of Paradise which they share with other people, whoever they want to share it with. 

 

 

[Borntowitnesstruth]

On 8/1/2024 at 8:50 AM, Aadilharoon said:

My Family are not shia they will not come with me to paradise,I'm afraid of being stuck with a bunch of strangers for all eternity,Also why do we need all those flipping virgin women crowding the place up why can't we be content with just the one wife maybe two wives

Paradise is the name of place where all your rightful wishes will be accepted. Some ahadith say that those children who will be awarded Jannah would not enter into paradise unless they are joined with their parents. Some ahadith say that those parents who will be in higher level of heavens wish for if they were joined with their children and they will be joined with them. So, expect goodness from Allah (عزّ وجلّ) brother. 

[Abu Nur]

7 hours ago, Borntowitnesstruth said:

Paradise is the name of place where all your rightful wishes will be accepted. Some ahadith say that those children who will be awarded Jannah would not enter into paradise unless they are joined with their parents. Some ahadith say that those parents who will be in higher level of heavens wish for if they were joined with their children and they will be joined with them. So, expect goodness from Allah (عزّ وجلّ) brother. 

When it comes to Hell Fire, the Qur'anic verses are clear and narrations can not contradict the verses.

Edited August 17 by Abu Nur

[Borntowitnesstruth]

10 hours ago, Abu Nur said:

When it comes to Hell Fire, the Qur'anic verses are clear and narrations can not contradict the verses.

True brother, I did not mention any narration contradicting Quran. What I said is what Prophet (PBUHHP) said that regarding innocent human beings who are confused by propaganda will not be straightforwardly sent into hell rather they will be judged by Allah (عزّ وجلّ) and then they will awarded heaven or hell.