Any tips? I am struggling to find a religious Shia girl in Toronto

[laithAlIRAQI]

Another thing you could do which i also have been advised countless times, is to get out of your comfort zone, actually scour for a potential partner and approach them if the setting seems appropriate. I have never had luck with it personally, but i know it has worked for some.

My aunt for example hooked me up with a girl last year, we talked on the phone for a while and we planned a 'date'. My point is i got out of my comfort zone and took the more modern way of getting to know a potential partner.

nothing ever came out of it though, as we werent a match.

Edited March 28 by laithAlIRAQI

[123xo]

8 hours ago, laithAlIRAQI said:

Another thing you could do which i also have been advised countless times, is to get out of your comfort zone, actually scour for a potential partner and approach them if the setting seems appropriate. I have never had luck with it personally, but i know it has worked for some.

My aunt for example hooked me up with a girl last year, we talked on the phone for a while and we planned a 'date'. My point is i got out of my comfort zone and took the more modern way of getting to know a potential partner.

nothing ever came out of it though, as we werent a match.

I don't know you, but you seem like a nice guy. However i get the vibes that you are too serious 24/7 and have anger issues. Maybe that's what affecting your love life??! try to relax maybe? 

[laithAlIRAQI]

15 hours ago, 123xo said:

I don't know you, but you seem like a nice guy. However i get the vibes that you are too serious 24/7 and have anger issues. Maybe that's what affecting your love life??! try to relax maybe? 

Been told I give off that impression a few times before, I'm just not very talkative. I don't think it's particularly true though, but sure I can get hot headed easily.

Edited March 29 by laithAlIRAQI

[John Doe120]

12 hours ago, laithAlIRAQI said:

Been told I give off that impression a few times before, I'm just not very talkative. I don't think it's particularly true though, but sure I can get hot headed easily.

Bro dont take her advice. Youre letting her with that profile pic make assumptions like that about you? She’s just trying to feed her ego. Go back home to iraq, youll find plenty of good women that want to marry. Ask family members, ask the mosque, etc.

 

my advice, dont seek westernized women. 

[John Doe120]

On 2/29/2024 at 4:10 AM, 123xo said:

Also don't restrict yourself to just one sect (i know i'm gonna get criticised from some pro shias here)

Yes you get that because you dont know the reality of these marriages. There is always a religious conflict. Again, speaking on things you have no knowledge about.

[123xo]

20 minutes ago, John Doe120 said:

Yes you get that because you dont know the reality of these marriages. There is always a religious conflict. Again, speaking on things you have no knowledge about.

Introduce yourself  ? 

[John Doe120]

2 minutes ago, 123xo said:

Introduce yourself  ? 

No thanks, humble yourself and have some haya. 

[123xo]

2 minutes ago, John Doe120 said:

No thanks, humble yourself and have some haya. 

Introduce yourself as in tell me who you are, where are you from and what are your experiences in life ? For you to sit and talk nonsense 

Don't get too excited 

Edited March 30 by 123xo

[John Doe120]

4 minutes ago, 123xo said:

Introduce yourself as in tell me who you are, where are you from and what are your experiences in life ? For you to sit and talk nonsense 

Don't get too excited 

No thanks, im not seeking western women rn.

[hawdini]

On 3/29/2024 at 2:19 PM, laithAlIRAQI said:

I don't think it's particularly true though, but sure I can get hot headed easily.

Bro us iraqis are known to be hot headed but try to be gentle with women, dont be like that john pls

 

On 3/30/2024 at 2:26 AM, John Doe120 said:

Bro dont take her advice. Youre letting her with that profile pic make assumptions like that about you? She’s just trying to feed her ego. Go back home to iraq, youll find plenty of good women that want to marry. Ask family members, ask the mosque, etc.

 

my advice, dont seek westernized women

The way youre so angry at a woman you dont know, lets me know how you will treat your wife if you can find 1 that is. You really sound like the type of guy who goes to jail for battering his wife.

Only guys with 0 braincells think western influence cant reach the middle east. Or are you the type of guy to go there to try to marry a kid from a poor village because you know you dont have the backbone to deal with someone your age. Pathetic creep, instead of hating on the women here take a look in the mirror and ask yourself why nobody wants to marry you here creature.

[John Doe120]

8 hours ago, hawdini said:

Bro us iraqis are known to be hot headed but try to be gentle with women, dont be like that john pls

 

The way youre so angry at a woman you dont know, lets me know how you will treat your wife if you can find 1 that is. You really sound like the type of guy who goes to jail for battering his wife.

Only guys with 0 braincells think western influence cant reach the middle east. Or are you the type of guy to go there to try to marry a kid from a poor village because you know you dont have the backbone to deal with someone your age. Pathetic creep, instead of hating on the women here take a look in the mirror and ask yourself why nobody wants to marry you here creature.

Lol, may Allah forgive you

[Shian e Ali]

What's with the wild assumptions from everyone in this thread? Are we having a competition on who can assume the worst about another? 

[hawdini]

6 hours ago, Shian e Ali said:

Are we having a competition on who can assume the worst about another? 

yes wanna join?