I got banned from shia matrimonials on facebook!!!

[Lion of Shia]

Im sick of this everytime i geton shia chatrooms or discussions i get banned or kicked off! im not doing any thing wrong!!! I was on shia match matriomonials online chat room and asked any girls for mutah, they gave me a angry face icon,then i when on to ask were there any girls for nikah, no one responded and i was banned again!!! then i was banned from another one,They all seemed indo-paki or south asian, Do Shias hate me, im i not accepted? Am i a horrible shia?

[Guest Brushstroke]

1 hour ago, Lion of Shia said:

Im sick of this everytime i geton shia chatrooms or discussions i get banned or kicked off! im not doing any thing wrong!!! I was on shia match matriomonials online chat room and asked any girls for mutah, they gave me a angry face icon,then i when on to ask were there any girls for nikah, no one responded and i was banned again!!! then i was banned from another one,They all seemed indo-paki or south asian, Do Shias hate me, im i not accepted? Am i a horrible shia?

Please take caution when visiting such social media websites like FaceBook and other websites. You never know what beliefs people actually hold online that would translate well into real life where they are completely different from their online persona. Such people Catfish other people for trolling and getting you into trouble with the government. All in all, I never use social media and marriage meeting websites to get married.

Go to your local Shia Mosque and discuss your issue with an Aalim (Shia Mawlaana) so he could figure this case out for you.

[Guest Brushstroke]

If you still insist on using online to find your significant other as a Shia Muslim, then you can create your account in https://www.shiamatch.com/ which is a Shia Match Making website with the intent of Marriage in mind. Not so sure if they advocate for Mutah there.

[Uni Student]

18 hours ago, Lion of Shia said:

asked any girls for mutah, they gave me a angry face icon

Brother is bad taste, you are lucky that this interaction was online and not in person else you might have been left with a handprint on your face lol

[AbdusSibtayn]

On 4/9/2023 at 2:28 AM, Lion of Shia said:

I was on shia match matriomonials online chat room and asked any girls for mutah, they gave me a angry face icon,

Vro!!!!! 

[Haji 2003]

On 4/8/2023 at 9:58 PM, Lion of Shia said:

I was on shia match matriomonials online chat room and asked any girls for mutah,

In my opinion it would be easy to mistakenly believe what you were doing was trolling them.

[Uni Student]

23 hours ago, Haji 2003 said:

In my opinion it would be easy to mistakenly believe what you were doing was trolling them.

Or insulting their honor. Reminds me of the movie scene from Taxi Driver

[Haji 2003]

5 minutes ago, Uni Student said:

Or insulting their honor. Reminds me of the movie scene from Taxi Driver

Yes, as the OP wrote it out, the question could easily come from e.g. a Sunni person who does not understand the concept and is making fun of it.

I get the impression young men focus on women their age for mutah, with the obvious problems. On the other hand if young men were to approach older (likely divorced/widowed) women would they not have a better chance of success? They'd also not have the attendant issues around getting permission from the father.

[AbdusSibtayn]

On 4/12/2023 at 5:56 PM, Haji 2003 said:

On the other hand if young men were to approach older (likely divorced/widowed) women would they not have a better chance of success? They'd also not have the attendant issues around getting permission from the father.

Actually this is how it was supposed to be. 

[Gaius I. Caesar]

On 4/8/2023 at 4:58 PM, Lion of Shia said:

Im sick of this everytime i geton shia chatrooms or discussions i get banned or kicked off! im not doing any thing wrong!!! I was on shia match matriomonials online chat room and asked any girls for mutah, they gave me a angry face icon,then i when on to ask were there any girls for nikah, no one responded and i was banned again!!! then i was banned from another one,They all seemed indo-paki or south asian, Do Shias hate me, im i not accepted? Am i a horrible shia?

No, they are horrible and cliquey, a symptom of the Hindu wash in Indo-Pak/South Asian communities.  I have all but given up on Muslim matrimonial sites, since nobody is interested in doing nikah with me but I'm sure this isn't the only matrimonial place for Shias on Facebook, so keep looking. Have you gotten a car and moved out of Milwaukee yet?

[Gaius I. Caesar]

5 hours ago, AbdusSibtayn said:

Actually this is how it was supposed to be. 

I guess it's just me but I would be wary of marrying a divorced, older woman until I know the story of why she was divorced.

[Quran313]

If you looking for marriage, these type of gatherings might help to networking and knowing others who know the potential cases.

 

[AbdusSibtayn]

6 hours ago, Gaius I. Caesar said:

I guess it's just me but I would be wary of marrying a divorced, older woman until I know the story of why she was divorced.

Husn al-dhann. 

[Lion of Shia]

On 7/16/2023 at 3:57 PM, Gaius I. Caesar said:

No, they are horrible and cliquey, a symptom of the Hindu wash in Indo-Pak/South Asian communities.  I have all but given up on Muslim matrimonial sites, since nobody is interested in doing nikah with me but I'm sure this isn't the only matrimonial place for Shias on Facebook, so keep looking. Have you gotten a car and moved out of Milwaukee yet?

,not quite yet,working on a job i recently got my certificate in Project Management which took me 2 months and my applications and resumes are being reviewed

[hayder01]

I'm literally laughing with tears 

[Eddie Mecca]

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[wolverine]

On 7/17/2023 at 9:34 PM, Lion of Shia said:

,not quite yet,working on a job i recently got my certificate in Project Management which took me 2 months and my applications and resumes are being reviewed

You don't want to marry and bring her to live with all your relatives. You need a job and get your own place, unless the woman you marry already has her own place.