harsh mother's dua

[Guest dletoben]

My mother makes a lot of dua against me and my siblings. She is pretty harsh. So she will make dua that her kids get ruined financially, sick, divorced, etc.

Whenever anything good happens she says clearly that it was because of her dua. When anything bad happens she says it was because of her dua.

She has a lot of psychological problems but is definitely sane. She had a bad upbringing and is highly dissatisfied with life but also doing OK financially.

Does Allah actually automatically accept her dua? Like if mom makes a dua "Make my daughter get a divorce" or "Make my son infertile" is it just a fact that something bad will happen? She definitely says so and so do my siblings. 

[Hameedeh]

SubhanAllah! You did not mention your father. Is he part of this problem? 

[Guest dletoben]

My father passed away Allah yarhama

[Uni Student]

1 hour ago, Guest dletoben said:

My mother makes a lot of dua against me and my siblings. She is pretty harsh. So she will make dua that her kids get ruined financially, sick, divorced, etc.

Whenever anything good happens she says clearly that it was because of her dua. When anything bad happens she says it was because of her dua.

She has a lot of psychological problems but is definitely sane. She had a bad upbringing and is highly dissatisfied with life but also doing OK financially.

Does Allah actually automatically accept her dua? Like if mom makes a dua "Make my daughter get a divorce" or "Make my son infertile" is it just a fact that something bad will happen? She definitely says so and so do my siblings. 

No, when you make dua for something haram it is never accepted 

[Hameedeh]

4 hours ago, Guest dletoben said:

My father passed away Allah yarhama

Condolences. Your mother has gone through a lot of trauma. Try to forgive her verbal abuse. Concentrate on your education and get a job or career to take care of yourself and financially help your siblings. Making dua for all of you. 

[Traveller_]

Get past it as much as you can, limit your interactions 
Sounds like your mother has been through a lot, still it is no justification for wishing her children ill 
Do not just take it, it WILL affect you negatively. Best solution is life away of her but do NOT neglect her. 
 

[Ashvazdanghe]

On 8/10/2022 at 11:01 PM, Guest dletoben said:

My mother makes a lot of dua against me and my siblings. She is pretty harsh. So she will make dua that her kids get ruined financially, sick, divorced, etc.

Whenever anything good happens she says clearly that it was because of her dua. When anything bad happens she says it was because of her dua.

She has a lot of psychological problems but is definitely sane. She had a bad upbringing and is highly dissatisfied with life but also doing OK financially.

Does Allah actually automatically accept her dua? Like if mom makes a dua "Make my daughter get a divorce" or "Make my son infertile" is it just a fact that something bad will happen? She definitely says so and so do my siblings. 

Allah accepts good dua from sane person with good persnality so therefore her bad duas are void  because Allah only accepts curse or bad dua for someone from oppressed person against tyrant & opressor .