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How do you cure the inclination of being tardy and late constantly ?

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I've got a serious issue. I'm late to prayers , I'm late to work and lost jobs and ruined my current life being late . I'm constantly late . I can't do anything on time . What is the solution ? I become late to prayers always . 

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Imam Ali (عليه السلام) said..."The best action is that you force yourself to do it".

The first thing we have to do is to discipline the self (our own nafs).  Make sure we adopt good habits.

Train the self to pray on time is a good method because prayer is for Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى).

Whether we like it or not, we have to discipline ourselves by force.  Our higher level of inner self have to force the lower level self (nafs) to comply and change toward better.

We need to ask Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) to give us that strength to change.  By making ourselves closer to Ahlulbayt, will also provide the mean to make that changes.

Wallahualam 

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You need to learn how to manage your time, attend a time management workshop or do one online, time is very fast no doubt but you can get on top of it if you use it wisely. 

In terms of your prayers, you have to do them whether late or early they are a wajib so why delay them? You get less reward as time passes and perhaps your misfortunes are the reason for the delayed praying. Learn to do wudhu 10 minutes before the prayer, anticipate the prayer, don't wait for it and let it run past you and then do it 2 hours later. Try to make gradual adjustments, and minimize other things in your life that are unnecessary.

May Allah عز وجل guide you. الله يوفقك لكل خير 

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Person with no intrinsic time awareness here.  Clocks.  Clocks everywhere you look.  I'm serious.  

And some alarms too, but not too many or you'll train yourself to ignore them.  

 

Also, if you can talk with your doctor about adhd diagnosis, and if you don't mind being medicated, I hear those modern adhd meds help a lot with executive function.  It might be worth looking in to.  

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On 6/28/2022 at 7:20 AM, Guest Guest said:

I've got a serious issue. I'm late to prayers , I'm late to work and lost jobs and ruined my current life being late . I'm constantly late . I can't do anything on time . What is the solution ? I become late to prayers always . 

Salam inshaAllah it will be helpful

 

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