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In the Name of God بسم الله

Can you step in?

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Salam, quick question. 

If your father starts hitting your mother can you step in to stop or like pull him away? 

Is there any hadiths or anything?

Thank you!

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Your father has no right to hit anyone less your mother.

You should remind him of his duty to protect his household not harm them, and his responsibility towards them.

you shouldn't watch your father hit your mother, instead you should intervene without making matters worse.

I don't know of any hadith, but this is human ethic and morality!


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W. Salam

Maybe try to talk to the father in a polite manner while he has calmed down. 

Of course he won't listen and be reasonable. 

Guidance comes only from Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى). 

Remember to always be respectful to your father but thats it. 

Do not take any injustice from him. 

All you owe your father is respect. 

Even if you have to go against him or interviene in a critical situation just try to be as respectful as you can. 

Do not let anyone get abused by your father if you can protect them. 

Remember in Quran Pak, Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) says "Stand firmly for justice, as witnesses to Allah, even if against yourselves, or your parents, or your relatives.

Some men can be narcissistic and they simply won't listen to you or understand. They just don't have it in themselves so there is no need to argue. 

I wish you peace and happiness. 

May Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) and Ahle Bait A. S. make things easier for you or anyone else who has to witness such a situation. 

Do not stop praying to Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) to show the father straight path and become softer... Miracles do happen. 

It might take some time but never stop praying. 

W. Salam

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