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Can a male do tayammum instead of ghusl ?

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Can a male do tayammum instead of ghusl ?, if he cant do ghusl because he has an masturbation addiction, and he needs to uncover his private parts to do ghusl.

And whenever he uncovers them he gets strong urges to masturbate, and he is trying to beat this addiction, and its very very hard for him to control and he nearly always ends up masturbating.

So can he do tayammum instead of ghusl to pray salah ?

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After purifying the private parts, you can cover them with pure clothing, or something similar, and make water penetrate the clothing (i.e. by pouring water over the clothing) or you can dive into a body of water such that water reaches your entire body in one go. In fact, uncovering the private parts under such circumstances is haram since it leads to a haram act. If it does not lead to a haram act it is makruh.

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Brother why dont you just read the document i sent above and end your addiction. There is no excuse to doing this because only you choose to do it. Whenever a human takes a decision we rationally conclude whether or not it benefits us so if you dont see any benefits to it you simply wouldn't do it. It is not hard at all to stop once you stop seeing value in the act. 

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nvm i sent the document in another thread you made which was about addiction but you can go find it. Please find it and read it and then you can quit your addiction. 

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And what if a male has to shave his pubic hair because its too long, but he has a masturbation addiction and its very very hard for him to control, because he has to uncover his private parts, is it obligatory for him to shave under these circumstances ? 

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Can a male pray, if he has an masturbation addiction and its very very hard for him to control his addiction when his private parts are uncovered.

And he has had a wet dream, but can only do ghusl on his private parts because it takes a few seconds.

But not on his legs because he has to uncover his private parts to wash his legs.

And it takes too much time, but he has ejaculated semen on his legs.

And he cant cover his private parts to wash his legs, because he has nothing to cover them with.

Except his underwear but that covers the part of his legs where the ejaculated semen is.

 

Can he wash his private parts and cover them with his underwear, and let the underwear cover the part of the legs where the ejaculated semen is (not washed) 

But let the water go through the underwear to his legs to wash the ejaculated semen and his legs ?

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Brother, if you have a masturbation addiction this severe, such that you can not uncover the private parts for a very short while, then you really need to start to do something about it. If you can get married, even mutah, then it is wajib to get married. If you can not get married then it is wajib for someone like you to fast. You need to try your best to overcome it, perhaps by increasing self-discipline and strong will. If you do not overcome this addiction then how are you going to do your religious duties? If you truly believe in Allah then you will try your absolute best (and not use lack of discipline, strong will or the desire for the pleasure that comes with masturbating as an excuse) to end such an addiction.

Btw, could you also tell me which marja' you follow so that I know who to refer to in regards of fiqh?

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Ya Allah i complain about my own struggles but I did not know that some people have it this badly. :cry: Shaytan has the world in the palm of his hands with all this fitna

Brother you need serious help. How do you even urinate if you have this issue?

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OP, like brother said above, if your addiction is this bad, you really need to find ways to conquer it. As was suggested above, instead of finding ways around as if you have accepted to be the “slave of this habit,” you ought to go ahead, grab the bull by the horn, and fix this haram addiction. 

I can tell you this, marriage of any kind, or even having four wives won’t have you quit this haram habit, once you are this badly affected by it. 

Mostly only Zana is one kind of sin that marriages mostly stop. I’ve yet to see a married man quitting porn and masturbation after marriage. These are haram, illicit, filthy, and satanic acts, and they need to be stopped before marriage. Marriage won’t solve these.

Your solution is, declare to yourself that you are not the slave of your private part, be the person of strong will, and start regular workout routine. Also increase your Islamic social life, both of which are known to heal the spiritual disease you are inflicted with. 

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The case you speak of seems very bad. If the addiction is interfering with the normal activities of their life, not enabling them to live normally, then they should consider professional help. You can read more on that here: https://www.healthline.com/health/high-libido#can-it-be-too-high 

Another thing to do is to pick up the holy book and read surah yusuf daily. This advice goes to all who suffer from this addiction, as it was narrated by Imam Sadiq (عليه السلام)., that it's recitation "keeps one's heart safe from illigitmate lustful desires".
Source: https://almerja.com/en/more.php?pid=684#:~:text=Surah Yusuf&text=It is narrated that the,remove jealousy from his heart

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On 2/20/2021 at 12:23 PM, Muhammad Al-Hurr said:

If you can get married, even mutah, then it is wajib to get married.

No. Marriage doesn't solve addiction. This is a problem that would follow him into his married life and it will ruin his and his wife's marriage. This is something that has to be resolved on his own, not by getting a wife.

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