Shia is my only hope!!!What does it mean to be turned on by everyone even fellow Shia!!!!!

[Lion of Shia]

Bro/Sis,

What does it mean when you get turned on by women and your out of luck and none respect you or like you, And other sects give you the shaft, i was told i was not Sunni because im mentally ill and insane and im not salafi because i apostated(as they claim) and they all support me being ended and my reputation is ruined and no one and no muslim will help me, and i was mocked by non muslims even in front of brothers and sisters!!!!!!! Im a done for? will i be cursed, is it a chance i can make paridise in shia islam, They said i wont marry and get girls so can i strive for hoories?

[feefee_xx]

On 11/9/2020 at 7:53 AM, Lion of Shia said:

Bro/Sis,

What does it mean when you get turned on by women and your out of luck and none respect you or like you, And other sects give you the shaft, i was told i was not Sunni because im mentally ill and insane and im not salafi because i apostated(as they claim) and they all support me being ended and my reputation is ruined and no one and no muslim will help me, and i was mocked by non muslims even in front of brothers and sisters!!!!!!! Im a done for? will i be cursed, is it a chance i can make paridise in shia islam, They said i wont marry and get girls so can i strive for hoories?

I don't know if you're being sarcastic or not. Please explain yourself in clear points so we can give a helpful response.

[F.M]

3 hours ago, YoungSkiekh313 said:

Even shaytan had a hard time understanding this one. 

please keep such comments for yourself.. it think this brother had alot of emotion at once while writing that post.. 

On 11/9/2020 at 8:53 AM, Lion of Shia said:

Bro/Sis,

What does it mean when you get turned on by women and your out of luck and none respect you or like you, And other sects give you the shaft, i was told i was not Sunni because im mentally ill and insane and im not salafi because i apostated(as they claim) and they all support me being ended and my reputation is ruined and no one and no muslim will help me, and i was mocked by non muslims even in front of brothers and sisters!!!!!!! Im a done for? will i be cursed, is it a chance i can make paridise in shia islam, They said i wont marry and get girls so can i strive for hoories?

dear brother, 

there is nothing wrong with getting dumped, in fact it happens constantly. a broken heart is one of the most painfull experience you wil get in youre lifetime and there is nothing wrong with it!  dont be scared to stay single or dont find youre real match! Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) is watching over everything and you should never lose hope! i dont exactly understand what youre problem is, but i am willing to help you! i feel sorry for youre emotion outburst, everything comes into its place with trusting Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) 

(feeling down is absolutely normal, every human being gets his ups and downs in life.. all the true believers will experience hard time in life thats a promised thing.. allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) tests his beloved servants because he wants the best reward for them)

shia islam is an sect that welcomes everyone with open arms, its absolutely forbidden by us to see other as a loser or something like that! its absolutely normal for a human being to commit sins and falling into mistakes...shiism teaches us also that there is always hope even if you are the worst human who ever walked on this world from begin till end, Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) is the most mercifull, forgiving.. 

ofcourse there will always be rotten apples between the good ones. and that is also the case for religion there are way to many people calling themselves religous while infact arent (not even close to it)  

i hope i did help you, if it turns out that i didnt understood youre question and gave the wrong question than please forgive me, i am willing to help you and you can always lose your story to me.

may Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) bless you endlessly and put his mercy and hope upon you.

[Lion of Shia]

6 hours ago, feefee_xx said:

I don't know if you're being sarcastic or not. Please explain yourself in clear points so we can give a helpful response.

Im not!, well in simple terms, i dint mean everything like that, i ment, my world is crashing down and no one is helping me, and im being ridiculed and slandered by non muslims and even some muslims! Some said im not shia or muslim others mock me about not having girlfreinds or women at all!!!and im constantly being mocked about it and some women are being mean and disrepectful toward me!! Thats what i ment in simple terms.

[feefee_xx]

On 11/10/2020 at 4:57 PM, Lion of Shia said:

Im not!, well in simple terms, i dint mean everything like that, i ment, my world is crashing down and no one is helping me, and im being ridiculed and slandered by non muslims and even some muslims! Some said im not shia or muslim others mock me about not having girlfreinds or women at all!!!and im constantly being mocked about it and some women are being mean and disrepectful toward me!! Thats what i ment in simple terms.

Salam Brother,

I am sorry you are going through a difficult time. We all have these outburst when we feel nothing we are doing is right, so its al normal 

Allah is the most Merciful, and he would never leave you empty handed if you turn to him. Whatever that happened in your live that didn't work out, it was for the best. And Allah has something else (something greater) planned for your future. 

Allah never expected us to be perfect, that is why we are not infallible. Never stop asking Allah for forgiveness because he never stops forgiving, no matter how big or small your mistakes are. Allah loves when we make dua to him. I also recommend listening to Dua Kumayl. 

Are you Sunni that converted to Shia, or the other way around? what community or country/city do you live in? are there other Shia's or Shia mosques? it seems that where you live has a lot of negativity and Shia-Phobia. 

Either way, it is best that you don't surround yourself with the people that are attacking you. If you cant avoid them, then it is healthier for now that you don't bring up the topic of Shi'sm. Or refuse to engage with these people in these brawls if al they lead to is attacks.

Also learn to develop thick skin because as a Shia it is very difficult. We have historically been a heavily prosecuted sect, and even today we are suffering from masses of propaganda spread about our sect, so keep in mind that people have been brainwashed by the false information about us. 

How old are you if you don't mind saying? why are they pressuring you about marriage, what is the basis for their attacks on you? Its a bit weird that these women cant stop shoving their nose in other people's businesses! its very disrespectful and it only shows their bad character. I can advice you to ignore them, although it is easier said than done. Also, why would they want you to get a 'girlfriend' if you live in a Muslims society around Sunnis/Salafies, Surely they are against haram relationships?

[Lion of Shia]

56 minutes ago, feefee_xx said:

Salam Brother,

I am sorry you are going through a difficult time. We all have these outburst when we feel nothing we are doing is right, so its al normal 

Allah is the most Merciful, and he would never leave you empty handed if you turn to him. Whatever that happened in your live that didn't work out, it was for the best. And Allah has something else (something greater) planned for your future. 

Allah never expected us to be perfect, that is why we are not infallible. Never stop asking Allah for forgiveness because he never stops forgiving, no matter how big or small your mistakes are. Allah loves when we make dua to him. I also recommend listening to Dua Kumayl. 

Are you Sunni that converted to Shia, or the other way around? what community or country/city do you live in? are there other Shia's or Shia mosques? it seems that where you live has a lot of negativity and Shia-Phobia. 

Either way, it is best that you don't surround yourself with the people that are attacking you. If you cant avoid them, then it is healthier for now that you don't bring up the topic of Shi'sm. Or refuse to engage with these people in these brawls if al they lead to is attacks.

Also learn to develop thick skin because as a Shia it is very difficult. We have historically been a heavily prosecuted sect, and even today we are suffering from masses of propaganda spread about our sect, so keep in mind that people have been brainwashed by the false information about us. 

How old are you if you don't mind saying? why are they pressuring you about marriage, what is the basis for their attacks on you? Its a bit weird that these women cant stop shoving their nose in other people's businesses! its very disrespectful and it only shows their bad character. I can advice you to ignore them, although it is easier said than done. Also, why would they want you to get a 'girlfriend' if you live in a Muslims society around Sunnis/Salafies, Surely they are against haram relationships?

 

i live in the US and im a convert from Salafi, there is only 2 shia centers, your right, they never mind there buisness when it comes to me and they are constantly taunting me about not having women and even saying i cant get them even married!!! They keep mistreating me and being rude, i did nothing, im just trying to follow my deen and do it in peace, but unfoutuanatly eveytime i do, this happens.

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On 11/9/2020 at 1:23 PM, Lion of Shia said:

Bro/Sis,

What does it mean when you get turned on by women and your out of luck and none respect you or like you, And other sects give you the shaft, i was told i was not Sunni because im mentally ill and insane and im not salafi because i apostated(as they claim) and they all support me being ended and my reputation is ruined and no one and no muslim will help me, and i was mocked by non muslims even in front of brothers and sisters!!!!!!! Im a done for? will i be cursed, is it a chance i can make paridise in shia islam, They said i wont marry and get girls so can i strive for hoories?

Salaam Brother, 

I have heard such things from many reverts to Shiism. Do understand that good and bad people are all around and majority is bad. Apart from that Shiism is a really great ideology and provides an accurate perspective for Islam. Moreover, an important thing is that their is a cure to every problem you have over here. 

As far as I understood your case, I recommend you to seek refuge of Allah. Seek the proximity, rehm and love of Allah. Try to explore the religion of Islam. I'm from India and have been through a lot of such problems. If you want any help or just want to talk you can ping me. 

See, no one is closer to you then Allah and no one is easily available for you than Allah.

1. Do Dua, Munajaat* (very crucial) and try to think deeply on the blessings of Allah. Allah is great. Greater than any possible imagination. 

Talk to Allah like you are talking to someone closest to you:

Quote

 

'Yaa Imaada Man Laa Imaada Laa' 

'O Support of the one, who has no support'

 

2. Do charity and sadaqah as it will give you inner happiness

3. Help the poor around you through efforts also.

4. Be regular in prayers

5. Talk to your friends (if you want to you can talk to me also) 

 

I pray and Allah will certainly be your helper 

[Ansar Shiat Ali]

10 hours ago, Lion of Shia said:

i live in the US and im a convert from Salafi, there is only 2 shia centers, your right, they never mind there buisness when it comes to me and they are constantly taunting me about not having women and even saying i cant get them even married!!! They keep mistreating me and being rude, i did nothing, im just trying to follow my deen and do it in peace, but unfoutuanatly eveytime i do, this happens.

Salam Brother, I understand what you are going through. It’s okay brother, no one can question your Imaan because that is between you and Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى). Also, if you do want to get married, 1st get advice from your parents, see what they can do.

And if you feel down, do Salawat, it always makes me feel better.