doing a kheera

[adell]

hi happy Eid I have just joined this page.

I'm in the middle of a relationship separation I have a 2 year old some in the middle of all this. it's been the worst one month of my life. she wants to sort stuff out but I'm to burnt by her to ever look at her again. can I do a kheera to tell me if it's the right thing to go back and talk with her and sort it out or end it all and stay clear 

thanks any help or information would be much appreciated 

[Abu_Zahra]

I suppose you could but before you do that know that divorce is highly disliked by Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) and that it is essential to try and reconciliate your differences as much as you can. 

So before doing an istikhara try and make it work. Whatever has happened, put it behind you for the sake of Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) and also for your child. 

[adell]

6 hours ago, Mahdavist said:

I suppose you could but before you do that know that divorce is highly disliked by Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) and that it is essential to try and reconciliate your differences as much as you can. 

So before doing an istikhara try and make it work. Whatever has happened, put it behind you for the sake of Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) and also for your child. 

hi and thanks for the reply. I have tried my hardest to bring her home do whatever I can to make this work. now I have given up and been very hurt she wants me back. I'm just scared I don't want to go though that again