Jump to content
Guests can now reply in ALL forum topics (No registration required!) ×
Guests can now reply in ALL forum topics (No registration required!)
In the Name of God بسم الله
Sign in to follow this  
Maisam Haider

Foreign object in sexual intimacy

Rate this topic

Recommended Posts

Salam

This question is regarding using foreign object during sexual intimacy. Using any form of object for sexual gratification apart from the spouse's body is forbidden. However, using condom is allowed as it does not cause any pleasure in its self - it is not considered as a foreign object. 

However nowadays certain new condoms are designed in such a way that they have ridges in them and have special features to enhance sensitivity. 

If a person uses such condoms and it gives him even greater pleasure than he would get without the condom, would the condom then be considered as a foreign object and thus forbidden for use? 

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
1 hour ago, Maisam Haider said:

If a person uses such condoms and it gives him even greater pleasure than he would get without the condom, would the condom then be considered as a foreign object and thus forbidden for use? 

If the condom is used primarily for this "greater pleasure" and not for contraception, then one should use a normal condom. Since the condom with "ridges" and "special features" are basically an artificial stimulant... 

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

If the only way that a man can achieve erection is also a haram way, then could it mean that sometimes a man's test of sexual patience is meant to continue after marriage as well. Even though a husband and wife are allowed any form of pleasure, sometimes the only way they can do it maybe haram. In that case, should one partner perform an act which is haram for himself so as to fulfill the sexual rights of the other partner or should one protect himself from a haram act even if that means ignoring the sexual rights of the other partner...what takes preference ? 

It is not compulsory for a man to have sex after marriage but it is compulsory to avoid anything which is forbidden, so if sex after marriage itself becomes haram in certain way for the husband but not for the wife, should the husband avoid sex indefinitely for as long as he lives..... Or should he have sex once in 4 months so as to do minimum sin and at the same time fulfill the rights of the wife? 

Edited by Maisam Haider

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
7 hours ago, Maisam Haider said:

If the only way that a man can achieve erection is also a haram way, then could it mean that sometimes a man's test of sexual patience is meant to continue after marriage as well. Even though a husband and wife are allowed any form of pleasure, sometimes the only way they can do it maybe haram. In that case, should one partner perform an act which is haram for himself so as to fulfill the sexual rights of the other partner or should one protect himself from a haram act even if that means ignoring the sexual rights of the other partner...what takes preference ? 

It is not compulsory for a man to have sex after marriage but it is compulsory to avoid anything which is forbidden, so if sex after marriage itself becomes haram in certain way for the husband but not for the wife, should the husband avoid sex indefinitely for as long as he lives..... Or should he have sex once in 4 months so as to do minimum sin and at the same time fulfill the rights of the wife? 

Without getting into too much detail-

You and your wife are allowed to do anything you Both want to do without the use of external objects.

With that much open space to reach arousal/erection/etc  it's hard to see how you would have to resort to Haram? 

She can, and you can perform on one another  whatever either of you desire in order to reach arousal/erection/etc 

DM if you must.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

Sign in to follow this  

×
×
  • Create New...