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Mini rant - Why can men not control themselves?

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Because they are weak idiots.Their nafs and carnal desires rule over them and ... and ... a whole lot of other things I cannot say on shiachat.

Why can men not control themselves and please get their minds off of women and focus on things that will help them grow physically, mentally and emotionally? I'm honestly so sick and tired of men co c

It is well established that mothers have the greatest influence on children. Fathers are there just as an accessory, a guy who brings home money and pays the bills. The rest is all up to mothers.

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11 minutes ago, AStruggler said:

we have some excited-electron-like women nowadays who get too excited and jump to spaces that aren't originally theirs. Then, once they have to return to their spot, they release this blast of energy to the world. 

This is GOLD. 

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3 hours ago, Marbles said:

Once womankind accepts the basic principles of meninism,

.Never. . . ever . . . happen.

Why do you think man verses moll is called "the Eternal Battle" ? We are always the 'bad guys' in their feline mentality.

 

3 hours ago, AStruggler said:

It confuses me what these obviously confused women want.

Exactly.

Most of the time it so they can self-assert themselves for no practical reason.

Their basic programing is the 3 T's: Temper Tantrum Time.

Punctuated with fits of screeching like a banshee  (Hey Troops, catch the 'she' in this Nordic word?) . . .

shrills like a red fox in the street,

and screams like a barn owl (Ty. alba) in the middle of the night when you are trying to sleep.

Blame Adam -a,s, He should have asked for something better or done a trade-in.

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On 9/30/2019 at 8:17 PM, Ruqaya101 said:

 I respect that men go through a lot of times where endurance is key....

It’s hard and I’m sorry that it’s so difficult sometimes, but it shows a lot of strength...

Men go through a lot of hardship with their urges...

  @AStruggler

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Are men supposed to go through a lot of hardship in controlling their urges? Does Islam want that unmarried men should suffer great difficulties in staying chaste or should they be able to achieve this target quite easily?

Islam is meant to be easy and Allah does not test anyone with a burden greater than he can carry. If someone is unmarried and is going through very difficult struggle to avoid sins, he inshaAllah will be rewarded by Allah, but is that struggle desirable per se? Ofcourse Allah wants the unmarried to maintain chastity but does Allah want the men to suffer and go through extreme hardships and mental and physical torture to achieve this goal of pre-marital chastity? The ideal situation would be where the unmarried person neither commits any sexual sins, nor even thinks about haram sexual thoughts - have a completely unfulfilled sexual desire - but despite all this, he faces no difficulty or hardship at all. The aim for the unmarried would be to become such that despite having a  natural sexual desire, they neither commit any sexual sin nor do they get slightest bit frustrated, irritated or troubled by the unfulfilled desire. The way to achieve that would be to "kill" the desire by practising pre-marital Islamic celibacy (fasting). If the desire is killed, obliterated, wiped out by fasting to the point that no sexual urge frustrates the unmarried, that would be a great achievement. In fact, when an unmarried man avoids sinning, Allah can bless him by giving him a sort of pleasure which he alone will feel in his heart.

So I think that the best and most ideal situation and the ultimate goal for the unmarried should be complete sexual abstinence with absolutely no frustration or difficulty in remaining chaste -  rather the unmarried should have a feeling of divine pleasure and serenity and comfort in their hearts bestowed upon them by Allah's limitless mercy. 

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50 minutes ago, Blueline said:

and we begin to think as humans first rather than as males first.

Maybe . . . but 'she' doesn't. When you retire you'll have to suffered with your 'Naggatha' 24/7 until Allah -(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى). shows mercy on your pain and suffering and causes you to die.

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2 hours ago, Blueline said:

When men get older, our passions calm down and we begin to think as humans first rather than as males first. Please just be patient with us in the meantime.:)

If that were true the world wouldn't be so messed up. Sadly the world is dominated by older men who cannot think like humans.

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6 minutes ago, hasanhh said:

l guess the gurls finally gave up and went back to their housework. No post in 14 hours.

:D

Sorry, did you say something? I couldn't hear you over the vacuum cleaner.

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4 minutes ago, notme said:

Sorry, did you say something? I couldn't hear you over the vacuum cleaner.

Now youz ain't foolin' me.

It is/was before 1300hrs and you were finishing lunch while reading over ShiaChat.

Plus, if the vacuum cleaner is running you either have one of your kids doing it or you forgot where the switch is.

Read what l mean guys ?  Another example of frivolous feline flippancy. 

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19 hours ago, hasanhh said:

Can l send your hubby a congrats?

W.o.men  

You can live without them.

don’t have one, lucky for me. I'm a strong independent woman, no need for menism in my life, men are only meant to hinder us queens.

17 hours ago, Blueline said:

When men get older, our passions calm down and we begin to think as humans first rather than as males first. Please just be patient with us in the meantime.:)

Smartest thing I've read ever. Thank you brother 

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2 hours ago, 2Timeless said:

When men get older, our passions calm down and we begin to think as humans first rather than as males first. Please just be patient with us in the meantime.

beware of sweet talkers as such, those who agree with women are generally the ones that women end up whining about later in life. Women cannot have real men, because real men have particular tastes and they generally get bored of women quickly. Also women can never please real men.

women will whine about everything, including happiness.

If one does not attend to a female she will whine, if he does attend, she will whine. She will whine because she is not getting what she wants from him. Therefore she is a selfish. I wonder which thinker wrote this, can a female love more then two?, will she love the child or the husband more?. in fact she would have to chose one over the other or she would fall into disarray.

I have a bit list. But my low testosterone tells me I better use my time wisely then play the games of a female.

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If ever there is need of a lawyer to speak for all men of the world, to save us from the persecution of the Feminazi in the future, I will vouch for brother Hasanhh to take the position.

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2 hours ago, Darth Vader said:

I will vouch for brother

"l would remind you, that Extremism in the Defense of Liberty, lS NO VlCE ! And let me remind you also that moderation in the pursuit of justice is no virtue."

From a speech by one of my favorite Liberals/Libertines.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/politics/daily/may98/goldwaterspeech.htm 

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