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Assalamu alaykum.

I thinked I'm doing wrong...

What if your mother make witchcraft and your father go to prostitute?I want know.Have I/Can I say something to them?

And if my father never take care of me and he treat me lik

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Assalamu alaykum.

I thinked I'm doing wrong...

What if your mother make witchcraft and your father go to prostitute?I want know.Have I/Can I say something to them?

And if my father never take care of me and he treat me like a child...giving to me buiscuits or things like it...or liying to me if I say I need something and he do not have another family or other children or another wife and he do not have economic problem at all.

My parents are not Muslim.

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2 hours ago, habib e najjaar said:

Salaam alaykum. 

Please clarify:

1. Are your parents Muslim or Non Muslim? If they are not, do they know you are Muslim?

2. Are you living with them and dependent on them financially?

3. How old are you?

 

My parents are not Muslims.

And yes they know that I'm Muslim!

I came back to live in my mother's house,cause of the sihr that she put on me.And I cannot looking for a job or a room cause of the sihr.

But all is in Allah's hand Alhamdulillah!If I'm alive is only thanks Allah!

I have 31 for the Islamic calendar.

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4 hours ago, Maryam.It said:

Assalamu alaykum.

I thinked I'm doing wrong...

What if your mother make witchcraft and your father go to prostitute?I want know.Have I/Can I say something to them?

And if my father never take care of me and he treat me lik

I mean in this situation all you can do is just give them words of wisdom; it is up to them whether they want to listen or not but you have already done you're part.

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17 minutes ago, 3wliya_maryam said:

I mean in this situation all you can do is just give them words of wisdom; it is up to them whether they want to listen or not but you have already done you're part.

Thankyou so much.Jazak Allahu Khayran!

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1 hour ago, Maryam.It said:

My parents are not Muslims.

And yes they know that I'm Muslim!

I came back to live in my mother's house,cause of the sihr that she put on me.And I cannot looking for a job or a room cause of the sihr.

But all is in Allah's hand Alhamdulillah!If I'm alive is only thanks Allah!

I have 31 for the Islamic calendar.

 وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا ۚ إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا ﴿٢٣﴾وَاخْفِضْ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَقُل رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا

 

And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], "uff," and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word.And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, "My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small." Surah Isra verse 23-24

Despite everything your parents may or may not be, you need to remember that Alhamdulillah they have raised you and gotten you to where you are now. For now, you are dependent on them financially, so focus on being a well mannered and humble child to them while you find a way to become financially and emotionally independent of them. You may not be in a position to start correcting their behavior yet, and perhaps for your safety you need to keep some of your beliefs secret. Do not get into a confrontation you cannot handle e.g calling out their alleged sihr or sinning when you are in no position to face any sanctions they may impose on you for now e.g turn you out of the house or harrass you for your religious beliefs.

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17 minutes ago, habib e najjaar said:

 وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا ۚ إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا ﴿٢٣﴾وَاخْفِضْ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَقُل رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا

 

And your Lord has decreed that you not worship except Him, and to parents, good treatment. Whether one or both of them reach old age [while] with you, say not to them [so much as], "uff," and do not repel them but speak to them a noble word.And lower to them the wing of humility out of mercy and say, "My Lord, have mercy upon them as they brought me up [when I was] small." Surah Isra verse 23-24

Despite everything your parents may or may not be, you need to remember that Alhamdulillah they have raised you and gotten you to where you are now. For now, you are dependent on them financially, so focus on being a well mannered and humble child to them while you find a way to become financially and emotionally independent of them. You may not be in a position to start correcting their behavior yet, and perhaps for your safety you need to keep some of your beliefs secret. Do not get into a confrontation you cannot handle e.g calling out their alleged sihr or sinning when you are in no position to face any sanctions they may impose on you for now e.g turn you out of the house or harrass you for your religious beliefs.

Sorry,can I know how old are you rispectively?

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Thirth,I have witchcraft on me from 2012 a part for two mounths last summer.Do you know that witchcraft is real and that a ebrew woman put witchcraft on our beloved Prophet(sallallahu alahi wa alii wa sallam) to kill him yes?

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5 minutes ago, Maryam.It said:

Sorry,can I know how old are you rispectively?

I am elderly member on ShiaChat. Senior citizen. :einstein:

 

4 minutes ago, Maryam.It said:

Second(the first was the upper question),my mother want that I kill myself.What do you think about it?

How do you know that she wants you to kill yourself? Is this something she has said or it is something you have been told by others?

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2 minutes ago, Maryam.It said:

Thirth,I have witchcraft on me from 2012 a part for two mounths last summer.Do you know that witchcraft is real and that a ebrew woman put witchcraft on our belover Prophet(sallallahu alahi wa alii wa sallam) to kill him yes?

Yes I do know that it is real enough, and can have very drastic effects on the life of a person.

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1 minute ago, habib e najjaar said:

I am elderly member on ShiaChat. Senior citizen. :einstein:

 

How do you know that she wants you to kill yourself? Is this something she has said or it is something you have been told by others?

Sorry but...what keep you from saying your age?Maybe is of help.

And be a senior member in this chat means nothing with your age...

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6 hours ago, Maryam.It said:

 

Assalamu alaykum.

I thinked I'm doing wrong...

What if your mother make witchcraft and your father go to prostitute?I want know.Have I/Can I say something to them?

And if my father never take care of me and he treat me like a child...giving to me buiscuits or things like it...or liying to me if I say I need something and he do not have another family or other children or another wife and he do not have economic problem at all.

My parents are not Muslim.

You can talk to your parents and often argue with them. Like parents have obligation to take care of their children, children have obligation to take care of their parents.

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Alaykum Al Salam dearest sister!

Sihr has no effect on a true Mu’min! Seek refuge with Allah and have faith in Him (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى), his Prophets (Peace be upon them all) and the Holy Qur'an and Ahlul Bayt.

My God what a complex situation... I hope you find ease in your life. La’netullah on parents like these, wishing your own flesh and blood death and tormenting her and on top of that practice sihr... in Sharia laws they would have been executed.

But as long as you are dependant on them to live you can’t really do anything. Read Qur'an and stay safe.

I seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Satan.

In the name of Allah, The Beneficent, The Merciful.

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10 hours ago, MohannadAlHamdani said:

Alaykum Al Salam dearest sister!

Sihr has no effect on a true Mu’min! Seek refuge with Allah and have faith in Him (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى), his Prophets (Peace be upon them all) and the Holy Qur'an and Ahlul Bayt.

My God what a complex situation... I hope you find ease in your life. La’netullah on parents like these, wishing your own flesh and blood death and tormenting her and on top of that practice sihr... in Sharia laws they would have been executed.

But as long as you are dependant on them to live you can’t really do anything. Read Qur'an and stay safe.

I seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Satan.

In the name of Allah, The Beneficent, The Merciful.

My father do not do sihr but my mother yes...

I know there is something that I'm lack in...I hope that Allah(Subhana Wa Tala) give me the strenght to be like He(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) want that I have to be...

I cannot hidden that having a Muslim(obviusly) husband would be of great help...but I cannot think about it at the moment...ane Allah knows best when is the best moment...and the most important thing and the thing I really hope Allah(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) allow me is to live Muslimah and to die Muslimah...this is the most important thing!I beg Allah(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) to allow me to live Muslimah and to die Muslimah!

May Allah protect us cause without Allah(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) we are nothing!

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1 hour ago, Maryam.It said:

My father do not do sihr but my mother yes...

I know there is something that I'm lack in...I hope that Allah(Subhana Wa Tala) give me the strenght to be like He(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) want that I have to be...

I cannot hidden that having a Muslim(obviusly) husband would be of great help...but I cannot think about it at the moment...ane Allah knows best when is the best moment...and the most important thing and the thing I really hope Allah(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) allow me is to live Muslimah and to die Muslimah...this is the most important thing!I beg Allah(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) to allow me to live Muslimah and to die Muslimah!

May Allah protect us cause without Allah(سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) we are nothing!

ما شاء الله!

What a pure heart, may Allah (سُبْحَانَهُ وَ تَعَالَى) guide you and keep you safe.

Does your father treat you good?

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