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Salam all

I know this question has probably been asked several times but I still need some suggestions since I am struggling with this

What would be a good way to find a religious spouse?

A little about my background: I belong to the IndoPak subcontinent. I am living in a region in the middle east where shia population is scarce. I have a very small circle of people I know and hence I am unlikely to find someone. I’ve been using several websites like muzmatch and shia match since a long time but all my efforts have been in vain. Also, a lot of men on these websites seem dodgy so I am really paranoid. My parents aren’t looking for me so I am on my own. 

Are there any private match makers who could help me out? I am open to relocating in the west or settling down here itself. I am not sure if sharing contact details of those matchmakers is allowed here but maybe you could send me private message in my inbox. 

Any help would be appreciated.

TIA

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4 hours ago, arch said:

Salam all

I know this question has probably been asked several times but I still need some suggestions since I am struggling with this

What would be a good way to find a religious spouse?

A little about my background: I belong to the IndoPak subcontinent. I am living in a region in the middle east where shia population is scarce. I have a very small circle of people I know and hence I am unlikely to find someone. I’ve been using several websites like muzmatch and shia match since a long time but all my efforts have been in vain. Also, a lot of men on these websites seem dodgy so I am really paranoid. My parents aren’t looking for me so I am on my own. 

Are there any private match makers who could help me out? I am open to relocating in the west or settling down here itself. I am not sure if sharing contact details of those matchmakers is allowed here but maybe you could send me private message in my inbox. 

Any help would be appreciated.

TIA

I agree there are many dodgy men out there. Do not take any chances on social media.

I think when seeking a partner one should consider 3 factors (1) personality (2) deen (3) looks. Each of these factors should amount to 30%. This is what i was told by a sister who knows about this. 

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13 hours ago, arch said:

Salam all

I know this question has probably been asked several times but I still need some suggestions since I am struggling with this

What would be a good way to find a religious spouse?

A little about my background: I belong to the IndoPak subcontinent. I am living in a region in the middle east where shia population is scarce. I have a very small circle of people I know and hence I am unlikely to find someone. I’ve been using several websites like muzmatch and shia match since a long time but all my efforts have been in vain. Also, a lot of men on these websites seem dodgy so I am really paranoid. My parents aren’t looking for me so I am on my own. 

Are there any private match makers who could help me out? I am open to relocating in the west or settling down here itself. I am not sure if sharing contact details of those matchmakers is allowed here but maybe you could send me private message in my inbox. 

Any help would be appreciated.

TIA

Parents nowadays are having this sickness of making their offspring suffer the pangs of marriage.!! Really disgusting :(

Firstly, why your parents are not looking for someone for you? 

Secondly, even if you found someone, would your parents allow your marriage (permission of a Wali is necessary sister) ?

 

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7 hours ago, Waseem162 said:

Parents nowadays are having this sickness of making their offspring suffer the pangs of marriage.!! Really disgusting :(

Firstly, why your parents are not looking for someone for you? 

Secondly, even if you found someone, would your parents allow your marriage (permission of a Wali is necessary sister) ?

 

My parents are looking for my older sister and they really want her to get married before me. I’ve already told them that I am looking for myself and they are ok with it. I do realise that I would need the permission of my father so hence I would introduce whoever I find suitable to my family.

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7 hours ago, arch said:

My parents are looking for my older sister and they really want her to get married before me. I’ve already told them that I am looking for myself and they are ok with it. I do realise that I would need the permission of my father so hence I would introduce whoever I find suitable to my family.

Contacting Shia marriage agencies would be the best option as of now (provided you are a female, for males its relatively easier to find a girl).

But be very stringent in reviewing your potential spouse and never try to rush into a marriage.

If you use facebook, there are tonnes of pages of Indo-Pak Shia marriage agencies. You can use them to reach them.

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