Question - One thing I would change in myself, if I get a second chance

[Hussaini1912]

One thing I would change in myself, if I get a second chance to live?

Edited August 11, 2021 by Hameedeh
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[MJ1015]

I would learn to keep my mouth shut. Ability to keep silent is one great virtue I would love to have. 

[Natsu]

4 hours ago, MJ1015 said:

I would learn to keep my mouth shut. Ability to keep silent is one great virtue I would love to have. 

Nah trust me its bad,i dont want to be silent but iam always silent because I cannot commuicate well with other people which is a huge problem for me

[MJ1015]

I didn't mean simple talking about daily activities. I don't mind doing such ordinary communication. I meant the expression of your deeper thoughts and feelings. I often give in to the temptation or weakness to express them and then I regret furiously. Complaining is other thing, which always leaves a really bad taste in my mouth if I do it. I constantly train myself not to complain and still I slip. 

[notme]

On 11/20/2018 at 8:39 AM, Hussaini1912 said:

One thing I would change in myself, if I get a second chance to live?

Live and cherish every moment. Time is the one thing that nobody has a wealth of, because nobody knows how much we have. Time should never be wasted, "killed", or "passed". Each moment is a moment closer to death. 

This does not mean we shouldn't relax, enjoy our recreation. It simply means we should be mindful of every second we spend, and what we choose to spend it on. 

[Ralvi]

Not to be such a pushover and a deadbeat

[Ruqaya101]

On 11/20/2018 at 9:39 PM, Hussaini1912 said:

One thing I would change in myself, if I get a second chance to live?

Not to be so naive, and be a little harsh, im way too kind, and people used it to their advantage. But, I wouldn't change anything else, not even the negatives because it makes us who we are and no one is perfect and no one is meant to be.

[Hameedeh]

Every new day is a new opportunity to do better and be a better person. If we do the best we can today and keep striving toward our future goals, then that is the best we can do. Allah knows our shortcomings (that can make us feel bad about ourselves) but He also knows our obstacles (that prevent things from happening). 

[Asghar Ali Karbalai]

I would spend more time in loving Mohammad(saww) o aal(asws) e Mohammad(saww).

[Ron_Burgundy]

On 11/20/2018 at 8:39 AM, Hussaini1912 said:

One thing I would change in myself, if I get a second chance to live?

I wish I could become a momin. 

[dragonxx]

speak to my parents differently when i was growing up