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In the Name of God بسم الله

Speaking to my dad about marriage

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Salam everyone, 

last month I gave my dads a heads up that I wanted a family to come speak to him about marriage.

the person I want to marry just came back from the arbaeen in Iraq and now we want to speak to my dad. One problem, I’m iraqi and he’s lebanese.. my dad will not allow it, it’s uncomfortable about marrying a different nationality.

does anyone know any tips to convince him abit? I’m planning to say something like I’m not going to lose my culture just because he’s lebanese.. we’re going to teach eachother our languages, both our first language is English anyway. He has a beautiful character, he’s into his deem as much as he possibly can, he’s respectful.

i just wish I knew what the key things is to convince him that it’s okay.

any opinion will do, thank you in advance. Please pray for me

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Irrespective of any efforts that you lay down, if he is not meant for you, you would not get him. So think from both sides. Seek help through patience and prayers.

And make an attempt as there is no harm in attempting, having said that do not hurt your parents by any which way.

Approach the Imam(asws) of your time in your heart.

Patience and prayers are your main key.

(Talking with lots of experience).

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