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Did you ever find love again ( divorced people)

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Sisterfatima1

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Some do and some don’t, some don’t wanna ever love again and actually go by it there is one shiachat member that is single and also older. Then there ones the going through the mourning period after that then they will find someone that’s compatible with them and love again. 

Right now your just going through the mourning period which will eventually go away and as for men there plenty of that want to start a family I don’t get why your worried about that not much men are childfree, you just need find someone’s that’s compatible with you and has similar or same goals in life as you  do. 

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On 9/9/2018 at 7:32 AM, notme said:

Yes, but after several missteps and many years. 

Don't let loneliness cloud your judgement. 

Don't accept less than acceptable. 

"Prince Charming" is an illusion, better to find Prince Tolerable. 

If you have children, always put them first. Never put a suitor first. (A spouse is a different matter.) 

Actually, if you have pets, even put their needs and wants ahead of any suitor. 

If you meet someone and you really like them but want to ignore one or two red flags, don't! Those red flags are very important. 

If you meet someone who seems like a person you could be friends and live with and share your life with, take your time, but don't be afraid to love them. (In only a halal way.) 

A broken heart is ok sometimes. It's better than a hard heart. 

Be able to be alone. Enjoy your own company and do things you like to do. 

Salam alakum

the problem here is that the sisters try to expect the same as they have done the first marriage... and obviously brothers mainly get well in economical situation after a while and get even much younger new girl from offshore because of their economical status.

So there are other provisions that should be taken under consideration and never do haste for the new prince charm. That may be a mirage.

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Of course finding love again is possible. I know you said you are happy from parting ways with your ex; however, have you cleared yourself from all the past anger, sadness, fear, and regret in order to fully love again?  Once you have cleared these, you can set your intention of finding a husband, and put in some effort such as building a good  marriage profile, getting support from a mosque, or even going to a match maker, and then you will be ready to fully receive a new life partner- and he can enter into your life in a way you would've never expected!

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3 hours ago, Miss Wonderful said:

however, have you cleared yourself from all the past anger, sadness, fear, and regret in order to fully love again?  Once you have cleared these,

The only thing "cleared" was my bank account.

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1 hour ago, Akbar673 said:

How long has it been since you divorced ?

How long were you married ?

Not long enough.

Too damn long.

 

Errrrr, l read your post but not to the addressee part.  Sorry :sorry:

But that is my answer to such questions.

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15 minutes ago, Islandsandmirrors said:

Salam Sis, 

I understand how you are feeling since finding love was nearly impossible for me. I always felt disconnected and I felt like I couldn’t find a man who wanted similar things and someone who understood and appreciated me. I gave-up entirely on relationships, marriage, children, because I couldn’t find what I was looking for. 

But then, after years of waiting and trying to find someone suitable, my husband found me. :) And let me tell you that all those years of being misunderstood, lonely, unappreciated was worth the wait, and the pain melted away. People are still commenting that I look happier and healthier than even a year ago. 

The right person is waiting for you, Fatima. Someone somewhere is praying and making dua to God for you because you’re exactly what he’s looking for. :) 

What an adorable comment! :) May you guys live forever in bliss InshaAllah! ♡♡♡

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1 minute ago, Carlzone said:

What an adorable comment! :) May you guys live forever in bliss InshaAllah! ♡♡♡

Aww thank you so much!! :D :love: <3 <3 I appreciate it!

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17 hours ago, hasanhh said:

The only thing "cleared" was my bank account.

There are good women out there. Stay positive and believe you’ll find her. 

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9 minutes ago, hasanhh said:

No, they are just his 'good students'.  :grin:

I just think you “respectfully disagree” @Carlzone now because you’re trolling. :D 

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2 minutes ago, hasanhh said:

You came to her defense because she asked for help. Correct?

What?

no, I just notice you “respectfully disagree” with anything she says, haha. And the way you two communicate is too funny!

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@hasanhh and @Carlzone

You two seem like a good match and have chemistry. I ship you guys. 

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Just now, Islandsandmirrors said:

What?

no, I just notice you “respectfully disagree” with anything she says, haha. And the way you two communicate is too funny!

The disagrees/partly-agrees are legitimate. She nearly never asks "why?".

Besides, l was kinda hoping she's fun-to-fight-with.

Your married, so you understand the fun-fights.

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salam,

No, not quite, was never married but was in love...That was a lie.

then fell in love with a higher purpose alhamdulillah.

& i miss a being, a lady.

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5 minutes ago, hasanhh said:

So she can dump my body over-the-side-at-sea?

It means: I think you guys should be together. :D 

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8 minutes ago, hasanhh said:

The disagrees/partly-agrees are legitimate. She nearly never asks "why?".

Besides, l was kinda hoping she's fun-to-fight-with.

Your married, so you understand the fun-fights.

It do understand the fun-fights! They are the best fights! 

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Just now, Carlzone said:

He could be my grandfather, sis! :hahaha:

I think he’s early 30s if I recall correctly? Hahaha 

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10 minutes ago, hasanhh said:

The disagrees/partly-agrees are legitimate. She nearly never asks "why?".

Besides, l was kinda hoping she's fun-to-fight-with.

Your married, so you understand the fun-fights.

@Islandsandmirrors

I'd make him regret the second he was born! :hahaha: *evil* :hahaha:

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Just now, hasanhh said:

You mean dump both our bodies so Shiachat can be at peace?

No, I mean, you two should be together, as in halal dating. You two would seem like a really good match and seem happy with the fun-fights. It’s hard to find that in others. 

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