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41 minutes ago, notme said:

Yes, this condition is allowed. 

No, not without permission. If you've never been married before, you will need your father's permission for marriage, regardless of imposed conditions.

A question 

what if the girl’s parents are dead or what if they dont care about the girl at all?

i mean there are parents who just beat their children and don’t care about the consequences 

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7 hours ago, Natsu said:

A question 

what if the girl’s parents are dead or what if they dont care about the girl at all?

i mean there are parents who just beat their children and don’t care about the consequences 

That's not relevant here, however, in case someone who is reading this is a virgin orphan, I'll answer.  Her guardian should be asked for marriage permission.  If she has no guardian she can decide for herself.  

As for parents who beat their children, if she is still in their custody, they should be asked for permission.

As for parents who don't care about the consequences of mutah, the man needs to ask their permission anyway.  If they don't care, he can be pretty certain they'll give the answer he wants to hear.

However, if the parents reject a suitable suitor for un-Islamic reasons, she can ask a local trusted aalim to intervene with her parents on her behalf, or even in extreme cases, elope.  Parents are not allowed to oppress their children and need to consider what the child wants and needs, not only what the parent wants or needs.

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 It depends on your marja'. According to most contemporary maraji' (including Sistani, Khamenei, Makarem Shirazi, Sadiq Shirazi, and others) a virgin girl requires her guardian's permission to marry. While Sadiq Rohani and Ja'far Subhani  do not require a virgin girl to obtain her guardian's permission provided that she is baligha rashida. 

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