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Shah Khan

How to be a Gentleman ?

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السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
(May Peace and Mercy and Blessings of Allah Be Upon You)

My Shia Muslim Brothers and Shia Muslim Sisters in Islam. Hope you all are Living a Good Life :grin: By رَحمة (The Mercy) of Allah الحمد لله (All Praises Belongs to Allah). My Shia Muslim Brothers and Shia Muslim Sisters, as you all know in Islam we all must live a life of Honour and Dignity and Islam is the Only Religion which Gave us the Complete code of Life سبحان الله (Allah is Perfect). I would say It's really such a Blessing for us to be Blessed with Islam.

To Become a Muslim Gentleman of Honour and Dignity, We must be careful on actions we do. The way we Walk, The Way we Talk, The Way we Eat, The way we Wear Clothes, The Way we wear Shoes, The Way we Comb our Hair, The Way we dye our Hair, The Way we Take Bath, The Way we Wear Jewellery, The Way we Sleep, The Way we enter someone's home, The Way we are in a Gathering, The Way we Make Choices for ourselves (when choosing a Spouse), The Way we Marry, The Way we Give Time to Our Family and Friends, The Way we deal Ignorant People (Jaahil) in our Daily Lives, The way we Workout :pushup: :pushup2:, The Way we do Jihad etc. In all situations of Life, we truly are Blessed by the Instructions Given by Islam. I would say it's such a Blessing. Islam wants Muslim Gentlemen to be Better Sons, Better Brothers, Better Husbands and Better Fathersالحمد لله (All Praises Belongs to Allah).

I am 19 and This Rajab I will be 20 انشاء اللہ (If Allah Wills). I really wanna become the Gentleman I know Myself and Live the Life of Honour and Dignity. I Want to be Respected in Society wherever I go. I hope this thread will also be Beneficial (As Muslims we should Benefit Each Other) for All Muslim Teenagers (Brothers) and all Muslim Young Adults (Brothers) who are living their Lives with Aim and wanna Become the Gentleman they know themselves and want to live a Life of Honour and Dignity.

So I want an Islamic book on Etiquette and Manners on living Life According to the Sunnah of Master Muhammad  (Peace and Blessing be Upon Him) and According to Sunnah of Ahlul-Bayt رضي الله عنهم (Allah Is Pleased with Them) and Imams after Them رحمه الله (Allah Have Mercy Upon Them). I came across the Book of Allamah Baqir Majilisi رحمه الله (Allah Have Mercy Upon Him) Naming Tehzib-ul-Islam (Etiquette according to Islamic Laws), This Book was Great but I want more. I want A Big Islamic Book on Etiquette. I know This is ShiaChat and we should only answer in Shia Perspective but I will also Appreciate if You All will give me with some Sunni References :blush::grin:.

Everyone of Us Gonna Die Someday. Why Not live this Life According to Sunnah. :grin:

جزاك اللهُ خيرًا
(May Allah Reward you With Goodness)

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That’s right, I would love my little siblings to think like the way you do. 

But little brother what I would suggest is also work on your ego (which you probably are already lol)  

ego and akhlaq are the key to everything.

and oh.. if I can be of any help.. read the book called ‘the elixir of love’ on al-Islam.org

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Here you go Brothers. Tehzib-ul-Islam (Etiquette according to Islamic Laws) :

http://islamicblessings.com/upload/Tehzeeb ul Islam English.pdf

Credits : @TheGreenWanderer 

جزاك اللهُ خيرًا
(May Allah Reward This Brother with Goodness).

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1 hour ago, Shah Khan said:

I came across the Book of Allamah Baqir Majilisi رحمه الله (Allah Have Mercy Upon Him) Naming Tehzib-ul-Islam (Etiquette according to Islamic Laws), This Book was Great but I want more. 

Salam. This book is one of my favorites: 

Akhlaq al-A’imma, Morals & Manners of the Holy Imams  Get PDF

https://www.al-islam.org/akhlaq-al-aimma-morals-manners-holy-imams-maulana-sayyid-zafar-hasan-amrohi

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2 hours ago, Annieboo said:

That’s right, I would love my little siblings to think like the way you do. 

But little brother what I would suggest is also work on your ego (which you probably are already lol)  

ego and akhlaq are the key to everything.

and oh.. if I can be of any help.. read the book called ‘the elixir of love’ on al-Islam.org

جزاك اللهُ خيرًا (May Allah Reward you with Goodness) Sister. Thanks for Advice and Book Recommendation :grin:.

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1 hour ago, Hameedeh said:

Salam. This book is one of my favorites: 

Akhlaq al-A’imma, Morals & Manners of the Holy Imams  Get PDF

https://www.al-islam.org/akhlaq-al-aimma-morals-manners-holy-imams-maulana-sayyid-zafar-hasan-amrohi

جزاك اللهُ خيرًا (May Allah Reward you With Goodness) Sister. Thanks for Book Recommendation :grin:. Does This Book also explains The Sunnah Way on How to Deal with Ignorant People (Jaahil People) ?

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28 minutes ago, Shah Khan said:

جزاك اللهُ خيرًا (May Allah Reward you With Goodness) Sister. Thanks for Book Recommendation :grin:. Does This Book also explains The Sunnah Way on How to Deal with Ignorant People (Jaahil People) ?

Yes, the book that I posted has many examples of the patience and forbearance of the Holy Imams AS. 

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2 minutes ago, Hameedeh said:

Yes, the book that I posted has many examples of the patience and forbearance of the Holy Imams AS. 

جزاك اللهُ خيرًا (May Allah Reward you With Goodness).

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