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What advice would you give your younger self

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Sisterfatima1

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5 hours ago, Sisterfatima1 said:

Salam 

I would say stop over analysing everything to my younger self 

Teaching Note:

l got this diagnostic manual survey back in the early seventies. l wrote my answers on a piece of paper, folded it up and then stuffed it in the book. About every 10 years l come across it and 'retake' the 'tests'. Then survey my answers. l can see how some things changed over time.

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Things will work out, and focus your efforts and be consistent - remember to be consistent!. One year from now you will wish you started today, and so on. Small efforts, but be consistent every single day.  Things outside of your control will also work out, and you probably didn't see that coming.

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Those blessed with intelligence, aka high IQ will do well in life or rather the chances of a meaningful life will be higher. This means that their success rate will be achieved much earlier.

Smarter females marry smarter guys, according to the dominance hierarchy.

 Intelligence can be improved through learning, but the time it takes a person of low IQ would be X compared to a person with natural high IQ.

So the notion, if you be patient and pray and God shall deliever is a big lie.

Note to younger self. Spend more time learning then praying.  Spend less time on the net debating usless low Iq'ers. :hahaha:

Have goals and attack life life a lion and destroy all. :pushup2:

Too late now. Thanks clergyman.

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Don't get married. Don't waste so much time. Study Hard, Go to a health field which has more job security e.g. Nursing or radiation, phlebotomy etc. Don't get married. Stop feeling sorry for your evil sister and stop praising her like an idiot: she will make you pay. Stop fighting with your good sister. Stop running after people who claim to bring a change or revolution and stop acting like a puppet for them. Don't get married. Don't tell about your weaknesses and your insecurities to your backstabbing friends and husband. Don't be nice to your husband. 

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On 1/31/2018 at 4:50 PM, rkazmi33 said:

Don't get married. Don't waste so much time. Study Hard, Go to a health field which has more job security e.g. Nursing or radiation, phlebotomy etc. Don't get married. Stop feeling sorry for your evil sister and stop praising her like an idiot: she will make you pay. Stop fighting with your good sister. Stop running after people who claim to bring a change or revolution and stop acting like a puppet for them. Don't get married. Don't tell about your weaknesses and your insecurities to your backstabbing friends and husband. Don't be nice to your husband. 

Marriage is Healthy! Believe it!

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3 hours ago, Gaius I. Caesar said:

Be wary of women, l was told this probably before grade school.

get the heck out of South Carolina =Move away from 'home'

and remember, you are really smart. :ranting:Never-ever tell yourself this.

You don't give yourself enough credit, Sometimes, but do not let this distract you.

you have ambition and a vision that you don't realize yet. Think through then trust in Allah-s.w.t. "and go".

 Be prepared for betrayals and heartbreak from family.  This includes any extraneous 'teachings' you have been fed.

 

2 hours ago, rkazmi33 said:

 Don't get marred.! Don't waste so much time. Study Hard, Go to a health field which has more job security e.g. Nursing or radiation, phlebotomy etc. Don't get marred.!. Stop feeling sorry for your evil sister and stop praising her like an idiot: she will make you pay. Stop fighting with your good sister. Stop running after people who claim to bring a change or revolution and stop acting like a puppet for them. Don't get marred.!. Don't tell about your weaknesses and your insecurities to your backstabbing friends and husband. Don't be nice to your husband. 

:clap:"He's learning."

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Invest in bitcoin when it was cheap enough for your broke self to afford it. 

Now i'm telling you, stop procrastinating and get into cryptocurrency before you miss that boat too. 

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One of the best being do the small things right. Rarely will anyone make one big decision that will completely turn their life around. Make the small choices right everyday, put in the work and you will be rewarded. Far too often people look for a quick fix or give up when they don’t get immediate results.

Do the small things right.

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5 hours ago, starlight said:

Dunya is temporary and so are the aches that come with it. You are braver than you believe and stronger than the people you are relying on for help. Just hang in there and life will be more beautiful than you ever imagined. 

Just what I needed. 

Love,

Sara

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6 hours ago, starlight said:

Dunya is temporary and so are the aches that come with it. You are braver than you believe and stronger than the people you are relying on for help. Just hang in there and life will be more beautiful than you ever imagined. 

Beautiful post. 

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