i need to help my freind(girl) doing haram

[Guest Emmmm]

I need help, I have a best friend who has gone through a lot in her life has had major surgery from a young age and is beginning to crumble, things aren't going well and shes giving up, shes loosing the want for god and feels like hes put too much for her and she feels the only way to find happiness is when she gets pleasure from a guy , not sex though. I tried to tell her all her troubles are a test and she will leave this world without them, I tell her to turn to Allah but shes obviously hurt and lost hope, she said she was perfect as a child but the had major health issues and her life went crumbling down after that through family, friends, money, education. this is heaps deeper but you cant explain 6 years in one paragraph, any advise on what I can tell her to get her back on the right track.

[LionLearner]

Remind her that if there is any happiness in this life, it is achieved through the love of Allah SWT & the Ahlulbayt (as) is she shia btw?

Also keep reminding her that Allah is the most forgiving, he will forgive even if her sins reach the sky and back! Tell her to start by praying and see how that changes her life. Those health problems and family problems are a test from Allah to see if she will remain faithful or not. Tell her about the story of karbala, tell her stories about our Imams and what they went through and that it is uncomparable to her situation. Tell her have patience and hope & in sha Allah Allah swt will open her eyes and ears. 

I will pray for your friend.

Do not give up on her!