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AfricanShia

Marriage and Me

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Imam Ali (as) said "I will be patient until even my patience tires of my patience".

I guess it is ideal to marry a bit earlier since it saves you from very bad sins such as masturbation etc.

But not everything goes in our favour so be very patient and know that Allah is with you.

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38 minutes ago, AfricanShia said:

Im in my late teens now, going through the final stages of puberty but what annoys me the most is my urges to marry someone. Funny thing is that there is no female that I can marry. Its like im trapped in a corner. The last thing I want to do is Zina or Masturbation. 

Lolz, bro you are not alone. I am 29 years old and still not married. But I cannot think to sin bro, it is very bad. If you cannot resist your wishes now, how could you resist when Imam Zamana a.s will be among us and if someone tries to exploit your this weakness and try to exploit you what will Imam e Zamana think. So, be brave, you will get married at proper age after you find a good job. :D 

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Here is the ages of our beloved imams

as seen they married at a relatively young age. In todays sociaty one have to prioritize education and get a job before one considers marriage. But one can marry while studying and the parents maybe can support financially in the beginning. However after some my own research mutah (temporary marriage) is also an option and is permissible. Although one should prioritize as following:

1) find somone compatible to marry permanently

2) practice abstinence

3) marry temporary (mutah)

You can read more on al-islam.org and the websites of sayed Ali Sistani, Makarem Shirazi and sayed Sadiq Shirazi about permissibility of mutah and its rules.

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