What qualities should a husband must have ?

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3 minutes ago, starlight said:

Wait!!! So 5'9" is not short ?? (Joking) 

Maybe they do know genetics and might also have faced discrimination for being short so they are hoping that by marrying a tall man their kids will be taller than they were and won't have to face the discrimination that they did,  makes any sense to you?

BINGO.

You've hit the nail right on the door there.

I am almost certain you aren't that much of a genius to that thought that up right now, this is something that must have taken like time. You're very intelligent, but i would be impressed if you figured that out like over the post. Maybe you heard that from other women.

 

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4 minutes ago, notme said:

@uponthesunnah I don't know how you meet these women you describe, but it's not working. If you want to meet decent, humble, and intelligent women, you need to do something completely different. Maybe fire your matchmaker and get a new one. I get the impression from your posts that you're a decent and intelligent fellow. Throw in career plans and hard work and you'll have ladies seeking you out - as long as you aren't wasting your time on these shallow girls who you seem to think represent half of humanity.

It's not strictly from my own experience, it's also from brothers i know. The thing is, many of these women aren't really that shallow, they are just decent women biologically programmed to want certain things and they are in their 20's. They'll start to get their heads sorted in their 30's, but the issue is, so many men are unaware of these things.

I actually am writing this not even on behalf of myself strictly, because while i feel okay about the physical side of things, i just can't stand inequality and injustice, whether it favours me or not.

Having said that, that was a very kind and touching post

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8 minutes ago, Sindbad05 said:

Infallible were mature by intellect but young by body. Prophet Esa a.s was the first example and Imam Muhammad Taqi a.s and Imam Mehdi a.s were another example.

At the age of infancy human are ignorant like animals and require shepherds in the shape of Parents.

In the age of puberty, one problem adds further and requires a lock because they could do many mistakes without their parents being aware as they get intellect but have immature intellect.

Only when people reaches to a mature age by so many heart breaks, maturity works. And many are such that their maturity does not come into play even after many heart breaks.

May Allah protect all. Maturity is gift and realization is the first step.  

Tbh, now i know why surah Yusuf [as] was the best of stories.

Women, wanting to practise infedelity and / shallow-behaviour verses a chaste, godfearing man who recognised the transient reality of animalistic desire and outward beauty.

The best of humanity verses the worst.

So understated.

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3 minutes ago, uponthesunnah said:

BINGO.

You've hit the nail right on the door there.

I am almost certain you aren't that much of a genius to that thought that up right now, this is something that must have taken like time. You're very intelligent, but i would be impressed if you figured that out like over the post. Maybe you heard that from other women.

 

You underestimate me.  I normally don't discuss these things with women.

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Just now, starlight said:

You underestimate me.  I normally don't discuss these things with women.

You are a lecturer in medical school, maybe i did underestimate you.

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48 minutes ago, uponthesunnah said:

Tbh, now i know why surah Yusuf [as] was the best of stories.

Women, wanting to practise infedelity and / shallow-behaviour verses a chaste, godfearing man who recognised the transient reality of animalistic desire and outward beauty.

The best of humanity verses the worst.

So understated.

Why do not you read about Surah Maryam ? To know how the best of women.

[Struggling_onn]

@uponthesunnah, brother for shallow women that you described there are equally shallow men out there to match them... 

In Quran Allah says, Good men are for good women and bad men are for bad women. 

there's no need to sweat about shallow women... They get the right treatment from these equally shallow men out there... Trust me !! and they perfectly suit each other. 

it's just Good men should be aware of these materialistic shallow women but more importantly good women needs to be aware of shallow men so they don't get hurt. 

Just improve your iman and things that matters near God rather than shallow people. Majority of the people going to hell anyway so we better make sure we aren't among them.

so don't worry about the majority and their desires. This world with it's pleasure deceived many before us and is deceiving many among and will continue to deceive shallow people... 

That's why I keep on saying Become God fearing yourself... Let God take care of your soul. cleanse your soul from influence of satan and satanic useless desires and wishes. whatever God has created is beautiful... only if people knew!! 

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Classic old joke

Recently a "Husband Super Store" opened where women could go to choose a husband from among many men. It was laid out in five floors, with the men increasing in positive attributes as you ascended.
The only rule was, once you opened the door to any floor, you HAD to choose a man from that floor; if you went up a floor, You couldn't go back down except to leave the place, never to return.

A couple of girlfriends went to the shopping centre to find some husbands...

First floor:
The door had a sign saying, "These men have jobs and love kids." The women read the sign and said, "Well, that's better than not having a job or not loving kids, but I wonder what's further up?" So up they went.

Second floor:
The sign read, "These men have high paying jobs, love kids, and are extremely good looking." "Hmmm," said the ladies, "But, I wonder what's further up?"

Third floor:
This sign read, "These men have high paying jobs, are extremely good looking, love kids and help with the housework." "Wow," said the women, "Very tempting." But there was another floor, so further up they went.

Fourth floor:
This door had a sign saying "These men have high paying jobs, love kids, are extremely good looking, help with the housework and have a strong romantic streak." "Oh, mercy me," they cried, "Just think what must be awaiting us further on! So up to the fifth floor they went.

Fifth floor:
The sign on that door said, "This floor is empty and exists only to prove that women are impossible to please. The exit is to your left, we hope you fall down the stairs!"

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@shiaman14

hahahahahahahahaha, lolz