Jump to content
In the Name of God بسم الله

Internet friendship

Rate this topic


Inaayah

Recommended Posts

  • Basic Members

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu...

I am having this doubt which always keeps me wondering if, what I am doing is haram! 

There's an anonymous app where we get to share our secrets and our thoughts without being known! We get to make new friends as well who are all strangers. We can remain anonymous if we want.

So...Sometimes I chat with guys as well, not a sexual chat but a FRIENDLY one. I don't share my pic not even by personal information. It's an informal chat with a stranger! Can anyone please tell me if this is haram or not?

It would be great if anyone could help me! 

Jazakallahu khairan

Was salam!

Link to comment
Share on other sites

13 minutes ago, Inaayah said:

Assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu...

I am having this doubt which always keeps me wondering if, what I am doing is haram! 

There's an anonymous app where we get to share our secrets and our thoughts without being known! We get to make new friends as well who are all strangers. We can remain anonymous if we want.

So...Sometimes I chat with guys as well, not a sexual chat but a FRIENDLY one. I don't share my pic not even by personal information. It's an informal chat with a stranger! Can anyone please tell me if this is haram or not?

It would be great if anyone could help me! 

Jazakallahu khairan

Was salam!

It is haram to befriend the opposite gender, joke and share banter with the opposite gender, laugh with the opposite gender, according to Sayyed Al-Sistani 

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Basic Members
1 minute ago, E.L King said:

It is haram to befriend the opposite gender, joke and share banter with the opposite gender, laugh with the opposite gender, according to Sayyed Al-Sistani 

Can you please share the reference? :)

I need to help my friend as well and for that I need some reference as proof. When I went through ayatollah sistani (ra)'s site I didn't get the clear answer. All I saw there was one shouldn't talk to opposite gender if he is not sure that he can control his nafs from indulging into haram stuffs.

Btw...jazakallahu khair for the answer! 

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Just now, Inaayah said:

Can you please share the reference? :)

I need to help my friend as well and for that I need some reference as proof. When I went through ayatollah sistani (ra)'s site I didn't get the clear answer. All I saw there was one shouldn't talk to opposite gender if he is not sure that he can control his nafs from indulging into haram stuffs.

Btw...jazakallahu khair for the answer! 

 

Link to comment
Share on other sites

  • Moderators

Being friends with the opposite gender is haram if there is fear of falling into sin. You can be friendly and personable if you treat gender on internet as a non-issue. Just be careful that you don't accidentally lead anyone on. 

But as mentioned already, nothing online is ever really private. 

 

Link to comment
Share on other sites

Join the conversation

You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.

Guest
Reply to this topic...

×   Pasted as rich text.   Paste as plain text instead

  Only 75 emoji are allowed.

×   Your link has been automatically embedded.   Display as a link instead

×   Your previous content has been restored.   Clear editor

×   You cannot paste images directly. Upload or insert images from URL.

×
×
  • Create New...