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As salamunalaikum people.

Bismillah hir rahma nir raheem

I am a girl of Indian origin. I live in Delhi. I am studying at Delhi University. 

I live in the hostel. 

The problem is that I had a friend from the ranks of male. We used to chat(clean chat) and just discuss our problems. 1 year ago he proposed me to be his girlfriend. I refused keeping in mind the laws of sharia. 

After 2 months he sent me an edited pic of mine. It was a vulgour pic. Then after thinking alot it was clear that he used my profile pic to get the image edited. He almost edited ten pic of mine and sent to me. He also started blackmailing me that if i dont sleep with him he will leak the pics.

I have lived in a sense of horror since then. I tried every thing i could. For one year I couldn't  sleep properly.  Yesterday in a majlis a friend of mine suggested me this site. 

All I need is someone who can edit pics perfectly so that i can force him to leave me alone or I'll sent the pics to his parents. 

Kindly help.

Jazakallah Khair.

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Salam. I'm sorry that your profile photos were stolen and altered. However, asking a member here to do the same thing is not appropriate. The facial photo can be morphed onto a vulgar photo. Members should be aware of this criminal practice. 

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5 minutes ago, ZainabAli said:

As salamunalaikum people.

Bismillah hir rahma nir raheem

I am a girl of Indian origin. I live in Delhi. I am studying at Delhi University. 

I live in the hostel. 

The problem is that I had a friend from the ranks of male. We used to chat(clean chat) and just discuss our problems. 1 year ago he proposed me to be his girlfriend. I refused keeping in mind the laws of sharia. 

After 2 months he sent me an edited pic of mine. It was a vulgour pic. Then after thinking alot it was clear that he used my profile pic to get the image edited. He almost edited ten pic of mine and sent to me. He also started blackmailing me that if i dont sleep with him he will leak the pics.

I have lived in a sense of horror since then. I tried every thing i could. For one year I couldn't  sleep properly.  Yesterday in a majlis a friend of mine suggested me this site. 

All I need is someone who can edit pics perfectly so that i can force him to leave me alone or I'll sent the pics to his parents. 

Kindly help.

Jazakallah Khair.

Alaikis Salaam sister, 

Go to police station right now at this moment. Police will take care of that pervert and recover and delete all that pics. Also carry all the proof and texts (if any) where he blackmailed you. What were you doing from a year.? Have you talked to your parents, brother about it?

 

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6 minutes ago, hameedeh said:

Salam. I'm sorry that your profile photos were stolen and altered. However, asking a member here to do the same thing is not appropriate. The facial photo can be morphed onto a vulgar photo. Members should be aware of this criminal practice. 

I know sister. Right now its the only thing that can save me from this hell.

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6 minutes ago, Lover of Ahlulbait (ams) said:

Alaikis Salaam sister, 

Go to police station right now at this moment. Police will take care of that pervert and recover and delete all that pics. Also carry all the proof and texts (if any) where he blackmailed you. What were you doing from a year.? Have you talked to your parents, brother about it?

^ This is the best advice. That man has committed a serious crime against you. 

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5 minutes ago, Lover of Ahlulbait (ams) said:

Alaikis Salaam sister, 

Go to police station right now at this moment. Police will take care of that pervert and recover and delete all that pics. Also carry all the proof and texts (if any) where he blackmailed you. What were you doing from a year.? Have you talked to your parents, brother about it?

 

His father is a police officer and the police station is under him if i go to the police station it will be me who'll end up in the cell.

For 1 year i have been trying to edit his image, i have been praying to Allah to save me from him, i have been trying to run away fron him.

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Just now, ZainabAli said:

His father is a police officer and the police station is under him if i go to the police station it will be me who'll end up in the cell.

For 1 year i have been trying to edit his image, i have been praying to Allah to save me from him, i have been trying to run away fron him.

Editing his image may cause same trouble as you said his father is a police officer. Do you have good relations with any politicians there. His father is local police officer, Inspector, sub-inspector or local havaldar.? That matters.

Meanwhile ask help from Imam e Zamana (atfs). He helps for sure.

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4 minutes ago, Lover of Ahlulbait (ams) said:

Editing his image may cause same trouble as you said his father is a police officer. Do you have good relations with any politicians there. His father is local police officer, Inspector, sub-inspector or local havaldar.? That matters.

Meanwhile ask help from Imam e Zamana (atfs). He helps for sure.

His father is an Superintendent of Police

I dont know any politicians personally. 

I belong from a reputed family hence i dont want to involve my parents. They a Najibut tarafain Syed. I am a disgrace to them. 

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Just now, ZainabAli said:

His father is an Superintendent of Police

I dont know any politicians personally. 

I belong from a reputed family hence i dont want to involve my parents. They a Najibut tarafain Syed. I am a disgrace to them. 

You are not disgrace to them. You didn't do any crime. That fella is jumping on his father's power and surely he needs a lesson.

You may not know any politician personally but any of your relative might have good contact with some. MLA or higher may make the case easy. Any of them in little bit of politics can help you. Think. References and recognition helps much in our country.

Editing pics is not the solution, he'll come harder at you then.

 

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You can call the Shakti Shalini - women's shelter in Delhi, and they can talk to you and help you. InshaAllah. 

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33 minutes ago, Lover of Ahlulbait (ams) said:

You are not disgrace to them. You didn't do any crime. That fella is jumping on his father's power and surely he needs a lesson.

You may not know any politician personally but any of your relative might have good contact with some. MLA or higher may make the case easy. Any of them in little bit of politics can help you. Think. References and recognition helps much in our country.

Editing pics is not the solution, he'll come harder at you then.

 

The thing is that he is afraid because of his father. His father if gets to know that his son is doing something that might spoil his reputation he will definitely punish him.

My relatives have contacts but i dont want to involve anyone. If i do it'll in turn ruin the reputation of my family. This is because here in india people think only girls do the wrong. 

If i edit his pic into a vulgour one and send it to him and threatened him of sending the pic to his father. I think he'll leave me alone.

Thanks everybody for looking forward.

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32 minutes ago, hameedeh said:

There are phone numbers you can call. They help women in Delhi.

http://ncw.nic.in/frmhelpline.aspx

 

26 minutes ago, hameedeh said:

You can call the Shakti Shalini - women's shelter in Delhi, and they can talk to you and help you. InshaAllah. 

Thanks a lot sister. I'll definitely look into it.

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7 minutes ago, ZainabAli said:

The thing is that he is afraid because of his father. His father if gets to know that his son is doing something that might spoil his reputation he will definitely punish him.

If you think his father will punish him if he comes to know about mischief of his son then why you are holding back to report to his father. May be not an FIR you can just go and complain to his father. Or you can simply threaten that guy of complaining about him to his father. Perhaps he may leave you alone.

11 minutes ago, ZainabAli said:

My relatives have contacts but i dont want to involve anyone. If i do it'll in turn ruin the reputation of my family. This is because here in india people think only girls do the wrong. 

Its not like that sister. It is mentality of some people about women that is sadly still prevalent. But not all think like that. Additionally, we should stop thinking what society will think about me. If you don't take steps now that guy may blackmail you or force you more which is certainly not in our interests.

If they are immediate relatives, I'll say involve them. Also you should not hide this from your parents I believe.

19 minutes ago, ZainabAli said:

If i edit his pic into a vulgour one and send it to him and threatened him of sending the pic to his father. I think he'll leave me alone.

Please don't do that. You will threaten him with that pics and what if he deletes your pic and complain to his father that a girl is blackmailing him for xyz reason. Its all easy for him.

You start with women's helpline no. as posted by sister @hameedeh 

Additionally, also see this. http://dcw.delhigovt.nic.in/Helpline No..htm

Have Tawassul with Imam e Zamana (atfs). He'll make way for you.

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