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[ZainabAli]

As salamunalaikum people.

Bismillah hir rahma nir raheem

I am a girl of Indian origin. I live in Delhi. I am studying at Delhi University. 

I live in the hostel. 

The problem is that I had a friend from the ranks of male. We used to chat(clean chat) and just discuss our problems. 1 year ago he proposed me to be his girlfriend. I refused keeping in mind the laws of sharia. 

After 2 months he sent me an edited pic of mine. It was a vulgour pic. Then after thinking alot it was clear that he used my profile pic to get the image edited. He almost edited ten pic of mine and sent to me. He also started blackmailing me that if i dont sleep with him he will leak the pics.

I have lived in a sense of horror since then. I tried every thing i could. For one year I couldn't  sleep properly.  Yesterday in a majlis a friend of mine suggested me this site. 

All I need is someone who can edit pics perfectly so that i can force him to leave me alone or I'll sent the pics to his parents. 

Kindly help.

Jazakallah Khair.

[Hameedeh]

Salam. I'm sorry that your profile photos were stolen and altered. However, asking a member here to do the same thing is not appropriate. The facial photo can be morphed onto a vulgar photo. Members should be aware of this criminal practice. 

[Sirius_Bright]

5 minutes ago, ZainabAli said:

As salamunalaikum people.

Bismillah hir rahma nir raheem

I am a girl of Indian origin. I live in Delhi. I am studying at Delhi University. 

I live in the hostel. 

The problem is that I had a friend from the ranks of male. We used to chat(clean chat) and just discuss our problems. 1 year ago he proposed me to be his girlfriend. I refused keeping in mind the laws of sharia. 

After 2 months he sent me an edited pic of mine. It was a vulgour pic. Then after thinking alot it was clear that he used my profile pic to get the image edited. He almost edited ten pic of mine and sent to me. He also started blackmailing me that if i dont sleep with him he will leak the pics.

I have lived in a sense of horror since then. I tried every thing i could. For one year I couldn't  sleep properly.  Yesterday in a majlis a friend of mine suggested me this site. 

All I need is someone who can edit pics perfectly so that i can force him to leave me alone or I'll sent the pics to his parents. 

Kindly help.

Jazakallah Khair.

Alaikis Salaam sister, 

Go to police station right now at this moment. Police will take care of that pervert and recover and delete all that pics. Also carry all the proof and texts (if any) where he blackmailed you. What were you doing from a year.? Have you talked to your parents, brother about it?

 

[ZainabAli]

6 minutes ago, hameedeh said:

Salam. I'm sorry that your profile photos were stolen and altered. However, asking a member here to do the same thing is not appropriate. The facial photo can be morphed onto a vulgar photo. Members should be aware of this criminal practice. 

I know sister. Right now its the only thing that can save me from this hell.

[Hameedeh]

6 minutes ago, Lover of Ahlulbait (ams) said:

Alaikis Salaam sister, 

Go to police station right now at this moment. Police will take care of that pervert and recover and delete all that pics. Also carry all the proof and texts (if any) where he blackmailed you. What were you doing from a year.? Have you talked to your parents, brother about it?

^ This is the best advice. That man has committed a serious crime against you. 

[ZainabAli]

5 minutes ago, Lover of Ahlulbait (ams) said:

Alaikis Salaam sister, 

Go to police station right now at this moment. Police will take care of that pervert and recover and delete all that pics. Also carry all the proof and texts (if any) where he blackmailed you. What were you doing from a year.? Have you talked to your parents, brother about it?

 

His father is a police officer and the police station is under him if i go to the police station it will be me who'll end up in the cell.

For 1 year i have been trying to edit his image, i have been praying to Allah to save me from him, i have been trying to run away fron him.

[Sirius_Bright]

Just now, ZainabAli said:

His father is a police officer and the police station is under him if i go to the police station it will be me who'll end up in the cell.

For 1 year i have been trying to edit his image, i have been praying to Allah to save me from him, i have been trying to run away fron him.

Editing his image may cause same trouble as you said his father is a police officer. Do you have good relations with any politicians there. His father is local police officer, Inspector, sub-inspector or local havaldar.? That matters.

Meanwhile ask help from Imam e Zamana (atfs). He helps for sure.

[ZainabAli]

4 minutes ago, Lover of Ahlulbait (ams) said:

Editing his image may cause same trouble as you said his father is a police officer. Do you have good relations with any politicians there. His father is local police officer, Inspector, sub-inspector or local havaldar.? That matters.

Meanwhile ask help from Imam e Zamana (atfs). He helps for sure.

His father is an Superintendent of Police

I dont know any politicians personally. 

I belong from a reputed family hence i dont want to involve my parents. They a Najibut tarafain Syed. I am a disgrace to them. 

[Sirius_Bright]

Just now, ZainabAli said:

His father is an Superintendent of Police

I dont know any politicians personally. 

I belong from a reputed family hence i dont want to involve my parents. They a Najibut tarafain Syed. I am a disgrace to them. 

You are not disgrace to them. You didn't do any crime. That fella is jumping on his father's power and surely he needs a lesson.

You may not know any politician personally but any of your relative might have good contact with some. MLA or higher may make the case easy. Any of them in little bit of politics can help you. Think. References and recognition helps much in our country.

Editing pics is not the solution, he'll come harder at you then.

 

[Hameedeh]

There are phone numbers you can call. They help women in Delhi.

http://ncw.nic.in/frmhelpline.aspx

[Hameedeh]

You can call the Shakti Shalini - women's shelter in Delhi, and they can talk to you and help you. InshaAllah. 

[ZainabAli]

33 minutes ago, Lover of Ahlulbait (ams) said:

You are not disgrace to them. You didn't do any crime. That fella is jumping on his father's power and surely he needs a lesson.

You may not know any politician personally but any of your relative might have good contact with some. MLA or higher may make the case easy. Any of them in little bit of politics can help you. Think. References and recognition helps much in our country.

Editing pics is not the solution, he'll come harder at you then.

 

The thing is that he is afraid because of his father. His father if gets to know that his son is doing something that might spoil his reputation he will definitely punish him.

My relatives have contacts but i dont want to involve anyone. If i do it'll in turn ruin the reputation of my family. This is because here in india people think only girls do the wrong. 

If i edit his pic into a vulgour one and send it to him and threatened him of sending the pic to his father. I think he'll leave me alone.

Thanks everybody for looking forward.

[Hameedeh]

@everyone Please pray for Sister @ZainabAli. 

[ZainabAli]

32 minutes ago, hameedeh said:

There are phone numbers you can call. They help women in Delhi.

http://ncw.nic.in/frmhelpline.aspx

 

26 minutes ago, hameedeh said:

You can call the Shakti Shalini - women's shelter in Delhi, and they can talk to you and help you. InshaAllah. 

Thanks a lot sister. I'll definitely look into it.

[Sirius_Bright]

7 minutes ago, ZainabAli said:

The thing is that he is afraid because of his father. His father if gets to know that his son is doing something that might spoil his reputation he will definitely punish him.

If you think his father will punish him if he comes to know about mischief of his son then why you are holding back to report to his father. May be not an FIR you can just go and complain to his father. Or you can simply threaten that guy of complaining about him to his father. Perhaps he may leave you alone.

11 minutes ago, ZainabAli said:

My relatives have contacts but i dont want to involve anyone. If i do it'll in turn ruin the reputation of my family. This is because here in india people think only girls do the wrong. 

Its not like that sister. It is mentality of some people about women that is sadly still prevalent. But not all think like that. Additionally, we should stop thinking what society will think about me. If you don't take steps now that guy may blackmail you or force you more which is certainly not in our interests.

If they are immediate relatives, I'll say involve them. Also you should not hide this from your parents I believe.

19 minutes ago, ZainabAli said:

If i edit his pic into a vulgour one and send it to him and threatened him of sending the pic to his father. I think he'll leave me alone.

Please don't do that. You will threaten him with that pics and what if he deletes your pic and complain to his father that a girl is blackmailing him for xyz reason. Its all easy for him.

You start with women's helpline no. as posted by sister @hameedeh 

Additionally, also see this. http://dcw.delhigovt.nic.in/Helpline No..htm

Have Tawassul with Imam e Zamana (atfs). He'll make way for you.

[ZainabAli]

I respect your advices but i know him personally and i think i know the solution. The thing is that his father is a police officer and that too in India. No one can do anything to him. 

Thanks all of you for you advices.

[Guest]

Wait...... So you say he's been trying to blackmail you for a year?? Hmmmmm.. Blackmailers generally don't wait that long.

Your statement seems a bit contradictory.. On one hand you repeatedly talk about his father's influence and tell us he is afraid of his father and on the other hand you don't want to contact him either. I can't understand what's keeping you from contacting his father unless there is more to the situation.

Okay, for instance, let's say you get his pictures edited. How come you are so sure he won't go to his father to charge you with blackmail?

 

Edited October 22, 2016 by starlight

[worshiper]

Just ignore him ,pray more and more and leave it to Allah swt. Probably this is to make u realize that in case of opposite gender u have to put a full stop in the first place.

Also that, make sure  u don't go out alone. And if at all he goes any further, threaten him of the consequences that u will have nothing to loose if he tries anything.

 

May Allah helps you.

[Irfani313]

A lot depends on the religion of him too. Is he a Hindu? From the news, we know India a very racist country so you going to police may not solve it. You need to take this up to your father straight and let him resolve it. And next time stay away from social media. 

If a dog bites you, you don't bite it back. Don't play on his turf. What you could do is, from now on record every communication he makes to you, written, text, verbal etc. without telling him. You tell him to turn him in instead he bad reputes you.

As a general rules, once a man does mean things to women, the first stupidity women do is not involve their men folks. You should had involved your male family members early on.

Are you sure you are completely clean on your end too?

[ZainabAli]

31 minutes ago, Irfani313 said:

A lot depends on the religion of him too. Is he a Hindu? From the news, we know India a very racist country so you going to police may not solve it. You need to take this up to your father straight and let him resolve it. And next time stay away from social media. 

If a dog bites you, you don't bite it back. Don't play on his turf. What you could do is, from now on record every communication he makes to you, written, text, verbal etc. without telling him. You tell him to turn him in instead he bad reputes you.

As a general rules, once a man does mean things to women, the first stupidity women do is not involve their men folks. You should had involved your male family members early on.

Are you sure you are completely clean on your end too?

I'm clean and I know it alongwith my Allah.

 

[ZainabAli]

For the people here first of all thanks for your advices.

I would like you all to know that my plan is to just threaten the guy. Without proof i cant get to his father. He has just droped an envelope containing the pics in front to my hostel door. I don't know how. So i have no evidence in proving that he is on the wrong side. 

Related to the caste he is a hindu and in my country as stated earlier people just think that everything that goes wrong is because of the girl whether it be rape or even murder. 

I am really thankful to you all for those wise advices. The problem is that i can't make you understand my situation properly. 

As for the one year blackmailer waiting thing. He just thinks that i wont do anything hence whenever he is free he tries. The period between two consecutive tries can be as short as two days or as long as a month. 

He is doing it to me because once a girl blackmailed him with her. Hence i thought of the idea to do the same.

If sorry if I'm wrong. Please pray for me. 

Jazakallah khair

[HashimAbbas]

Salaam u Alaikum all,

From shias of kashmir and currently in Delhi .. Happy to help and assist . 

"By Allah's will and our prayers our shias are best at everything" 

Feel free to contact.

Wsalaam 

 

[ZainabAli]

57 minutes ago, HashimAbbas said:

Salaam u Alaikum all,

From shias of kashmir and currently in Delhi .. Happy to help and assist . 

"By Allah's will and our prayers our shias are best at everything" 

Feel free to contact.

Wsalaam 

 

Can you please edit a pic of him into a vulgour one?

[Gaius I. Caesar]

6 hours ago, ZainabAli said:

For the people here first of all thanks for your advices.

I would like you all to know that my plan is to just threaten the guy. Without proof i cant get to his father. He has just droped an envelope containing the pics in front to my hostel door. I don't know how. So i have no evidence in proving that he is on the wrong side. 

Related to the caste he is a hindu and in my country as stated earlier people just think that everything that goes wrong is because of the girl whether it be rape or even murder. 

I am really thankful to you all for those wise advices. The problem is that i can't make you understand my situation properly. 

As for the one year blackmailer waiting thing. He just thinks that i wont do anything hence whenever he is free he tries. The period between two consecutive tries can be as short as two days or as long as a month. 

He is doing it to me because once a girl blackmailed him with her. Hence i thought of the idea to do the same.

If sorry if I'm wrong. Please pray for me. 

Jazakallah khair

Absolutely not, sister.  Please rethink the plan, otherwise your life will only get harder.  Just go to the police station and show them the pictures. I don't care if his father is the Superintendent of the station and he gets punished. The guy had it coming, period. You mustn't stoop down to the level of cowards @Zainab Ali

Edited October 22, 2016 by Gaius I. Caesar

[notme]

If you are going to threaten, threaten with truth. That is the only way it will work. Truth and proof. 

If you play his game, he makes the rules. You will lose. 

[Hameedeh]

5 hours ago, ZainabAli said:

Can you please edit a pic of him into a vulgour one?

@ZainabAli This is completely unacceptable. The man has committed a crime against you and now you want to commit the same crime against him? Committing such a crime will land you in jail. Please forget that idea.

How does he know where your hostel is to deliver you some photos? If he is asking you for money, don't pay him, because he can always create more copies of the photos and ask for more money. Other charges you can bring against him are stalking you and threatening you. 

Sis, please call that women's shelter that I mentioned to you or the Womens Helpline that Lover of Ahlulbait (ams) gave you. You can make arrangements to move to a woman's shelter and the guy won't know where you are. There are women's groups who can help you. You need to let your parents know what is going on, so they can know where you are and how to help you, too. 

[Irfani313]

In that case sister, do the following:

1. You have what even Sunnis don't have these.

http://www.duas.org/enemy.htm

Just pray these after your fajr salat. See wonders happening.

2. Involve your parents ASAP. You are in danger of imminent rape and its wajib on you to protect yourself.

3. Do not do anything illegal. If you want Allah swt help on your side, you do not want to do haram acts to hurt him.

Side note: Do you wear hijab? Are you over frank with boys? What is your level of religiosity, not the majlis, how about salat, fasting, hijab etc.?