My friends are liars

[PakistaniGirl1994]

Salaam, I have close Muslim friends who I know online for 2 years, It's a group of people, this group of people publicly deny their South asian heritage and ancestry even when there is proof that they are not who they say they are. One is a male who is Hyderabadi (SouthIndian full blooded) and claims he's an Arab and Persian, he started insulting my religion when I confronted him even when i was respectful, I am no longer friends with this guy, The other person is a Female, She is Pakistani Punjabi and pretends to be Lebanese, I confronted this Women as well and she began insulting me personally, so I am no longer her friend, These 2 people have been insulting my family and talking about me when i am not present, There is something in the Quran about this, "Who deny their fathers linage is cursed by GOD (Allah)" and something about backbting/gossiping, please help me with this

[zainabamy]

Ws,

Honestly don't bother yourself with people like there, there are loads of other people who are worth your friendship. And try not to let their mean words get you down, every time someone backbites you, Allah (swt) gives you their good deeds

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[Danish14]

3 hours ago, PakistaniGirl1994 said:

Salaam, I have close Muslim friends who I know online for 2 years, It's a group of people, this group of people publicly deny their South asian heritage and ancestry even when there is proof that they are not who they say they are. One is a male who is Hyderabadi (SouthIndian full blooded) and claims he's an Arab and Persian, he started insulting my religion when I confronted him even when i was respectful, I am no longer friends with this guy, The other person is a Female, She is Pakistani Punjabi and pretends to be Lebanese, I confronted this Women as well and she began insulting me personally, so I am no longer her friend, These 2 people have been insulting my family and talking about me when i am not present, There is something in the Quran about this, "Who deny their fathers linage is cursed by GOD (Allah)" and something about backbting/gossiping, please help me with this

You are young person and young ones have very tender heart that accepts goodness very fast and also get hurt immensely by slight disloyalty or falsehood.  The people you are talking to may be used to it what they are doing. I suggest you that if you should part away from people about whom you are not sure because it's better not to have suspicion and worries. Doubts and worries are little words but they will affect you so much so depart from them without complains. Complains don't effect those who don't have regard for you. Don't think about what others do, what they are or why they are doing? Just leave and don't ever discuss you personal life on net.

[sidnaq]

2 hours ago, Danish14 said:

You are young person and young ones have very tender heart that accepts goodness very fast and also get hurt immensely by slight disloyalty or falsehood.  The people you are talking to may be used to it what they are doing. I suggest you that if you should part away from people about whom you are not sure because it's better not to have suspicion and worries. Doubts and worries are little words but they will affect you so much so depart from them without complains. Complains don't effect those who don't have regard for you. Don't think about what others do, what they are or why they are doing? Just leave and don't ever discuss you personal life on net.

 

danish this is awesome

[Nataly]

well, I guess they're just people that don't worth your time, it's obvious that they're not your friends, because a friend doesn't do that.

The hindu guy, (obviously he's from india) wants to treat you bad just because, remember that there hadn't been a good relationship between Pakistan and India 

The lebanese girl, well, historically there hadn't been a good relationship between arabs and asian people like pakistani or irani people (however there are arab people that love you so much (love pakistani and iranian people), believe me).

There could be two reasons:

1.  They want to make other people hate Iranian-Pakistani people by supplanting them and being mean with people thus others will have a bad impression of pakistani-iranian people; or they're just mean.

2.  they neither like you nor want to be your friends and it's an indirect way to tell you stay away from me instead of telling you "hey, I don't want to be your friend".

Israel has been categorized as one of the most racist countries in the world, do you guess why? it's because pure jews are mean with half arab half jew people. In my university I had the chance to meet a jew who was half muslim race half jew, (I'm neither from Israel nor was born there and I'm not jewish neither by religion nor by race)) and he said he didn't feel muslim at all, but completely jew.

 

Personally I think that the idea of mixture races in order to force them to get along or to end a fight, has been a complete failure and that's completely obvious nowadays.

My piece of advice to you is: stay away from these kind of people, for me they could be really dangerous.

In general if they behave in that way with you, it's because it's not convenient for you to be her friend, there is something in them for which you shouldn't treat them, nor try so much to make a friendship with. It has happened to me several times, I'd like to tell you some examples with my own life but if I do that this post will be really long.

For example I look like a woman from middle east, despite I was born in latinamerica and neither my parents nor my grandparents were muslim (there were arab and iranian communities in this country for some centuries, then maybe I have an ancester) I used to be catholic and, as there was something that made me to seek God since I was a child, I used to treat christians, and believe me, that without being muslim, and without have read the quran a single time, I always felt that christians were mean, and when I had the opportunity to know Islam (another long story I don't plan to tell here), I realized of that verse that say that christians are mean, and that muslims should avoid be-friending christians, now I know that it's a waste of time losing time with christians (besides, the bible tell them that they should be true friends of christians only, as Quran do it with muslims).

If they don't want to be your friends, I'm almost 100% sure that is because they are not convinient for you for some reason that is not clear to you currently, at this moment of your life. I agree with danish in almost everything except with the fact that you shouldn't seek for reasons or who are they people who behave in that way with you, I don't mean to ask them why they behave in that way with you, but to pay attention to who are the ones who do it, sometimes it's just a matter of racism and in other cases could be something much more darker, but I won't tell you that here.

Edited June 20, 2016 by Nataly
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