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Do You Have To Be Financially Stable?

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Quick question, sorry for my ignorance:

Does the husband - in a permanent marriage - have to be financially independent to where he himself can take care of his wife? Or can his parents continue to support him during the marriage until then?

 

If not then I'm gonna have to wait another 6 years :/

And no, I will never consider Mutah - Please don't advise me to contract a temporary marriage. 

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S.A.

 

It would depend on your parents, wouldn't it?

If they are able to support you, then they should, especially, if it has become wajib for you (to save you from sins by getting married).

It is a part of their responsibilities. 

 

On a practical level, your parents will find it hard to get good matches for a child not currently earning. Parents dont want their girls to marry future earners. Everyone wants results, not promises. Hard cash is costlier than IOUs.

 

Also, let me tell you, girls dont expect to be married to non-earners.

 

The chances that a wife, belonging to the 21st century, will be understanding to such an extent are extremely less. ie. Unless you are extremely lucky, you can expect a lot of nagging and subsequent depression and a tendency towards divorce.

 

It will be 6 years of hell, unless your parents are rich and generous and can fund your family's expenses. You have been warned.

 

Alternatively, you can marry a girl from a really poor family. 

 

 

My personal story has been very simple. I started working full-time by 20 and continued my studies part-time. This is how I could marry earlier than what most people in my situation would be able to.

Edited by alisayyed

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And no, I will never consider Mutah - Please don't advise me to contract a temporary marriage. 

 

LOL as if any women would agree to a mutah ...

or as if you don't need to be financially stable for that... lol

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