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I been thinking of committing suicide. I have way to much stress and I feel like I have no future. 

I believe in god, I really do, but I can't do this anymore. I'm not wanted in this world, I know that people care about me. I'm just not happy. 

I tried being happy, I can't its impossible i been like this for a year now and its killing me. If I do end up committing suicide how badly will I be punished? Will god have any mercy on me. I have decided that its the best choice for me. I just need to know what will happen to me afterwards. 

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You will be sent straight to hell for punishment, the punishment there will make you envy a life in this world full of pain, that's how painful it is there, beyond imagine, it is where all of Allah's wrath is concentrated, an example punishment is burning, you will burn and your skin will roast then burn and then your skin will be renewed so you will feel the burn again and again and again for an indefinite amount of time.

 

Just take a look at this video of people burning, see how much pain there is in burning of this world, imagine the burn of Allah's wrath.

 

I can't post the video here, please go on youtube and search for "indian women burns herself"

Edited by hameedeh
Don't post videos like that!

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The fire of hell, is indeed horrible. Commiting suicide is very stupid and selfish.  You'll regret commiting suicide. 

 

However, there're other ways to deal with your problem. First of all, do you have a hard life? If yes, then you don't have to destroy your life by commiting suicide. Why not have patience and start pray etc. and you'll, if Allah (swt) wills, become one of the believers?

 

 

To Allah (swt) is the return.

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No offense intended, but happiness is not the point of life.

If you suffer from clinical depression, a doctor can help you. There is a bit of a cultural taboo against seeing a psychiatrist, but there shouldn't be. Mental disorders are as real as physical disorders. Go. Get help.

As for whether you will be forgiven for suicide, only God can say. We know that self harm is sin, but we don't know the limits of repentance nor Allah's mercy. As I understand it, one is only forgiven if one repents. If you know or expect that you would repent of suicide, why not just avoid it in the first place?

My duas for your strength and peace. I hope you are able to get help if you need it and feel better soon.

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LOVE8

 

oh my Gosh. Please do not consider that. You are honestly much more worth then taking that route and are very special!

 

Hell, I have read about it's intensities, it is so not worth it. Trust me. It really isn't. 

 

It Isn't like this world's fire, it is a billions times worse. 

 

feel free to pm me, maybe I can help you with a solution. 

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I been thinking of committing suicide. I have way to much stress and I feel like I have no future. 

I believe in god, I really do, but I can't do this anymore. I'm not wanted in this world, I know that people care about me. I'm just not happy. 

I tried being happy, I can't its impossible i been like this for a year now and its killing me. If I do end up committing suicide how badly will I be punished? Will god have any mercy on me. I have decided that its the best choice for me. I just need to know what will happen to me afterwards. 

 

You need to see a doctor.  There are professionals who specialise in helping like you get better.  You have no excuse for not trying to get help.

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I'm interested in the responses you'll receive.

 

Depression is a disease. Much like how bulimia can cause self harm, is it ever less of a sin, given that people's brains cause them to think that there is no way out other than suicide?

If the person is pre-programmed for self harm (ie, has a family history of alcoholism, bulimia, suicide, depression etc), how much of their fault can it be to cause this self harm?

For example, people with autism are known to chew their fingers off if not given the proper aversion techniques whens still young.

 

What is the permissibility of suicide, given that a person is depressed and isn't acting out of character for someone with depression?

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Salam

 

How bad can your life really be that you want to commit suicide and actually contemplate hell as a better alternative?

 

I don't know where you are from, but I am sure you must be aware there are places in this world where there is a great deal of oppression and suffering. There are people who most likely have it worse than you, but you don't see them committing suicide, do you?

 

Everything happens for a reason... what do you mean you are not wanted in this world? By whom? People? lol.........  you can't take people seriously and let them decide if you are wanted or not. Allah (swt) wanted your existence and that's all that matters... attaining His (swt) good pleasure. 

 

Abandon the idea of suicide.... It is nothing but the whispering of the accursed iblees who wants to see us fail and wind up in hell with him.

 

My prayers are with you... inshAllah you will get out of this test soon.

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I dont know what exactly has happened to you, or what you have done,  and what you are going through, or the culture you live in.

But I do know, what you are thinking about is not the solution to your problem. You may say, you guys have no idea, what my situation is, you are correct.

Tell us . May be some here had a similar situation and can suggest a way out.

If you don’t want to share, you need to listen to what everyone is saying see a doctor.

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Well i just wanna say that i am really sorry the way you feel.

I cant impossible understand your situation even if you tell me. I am actually like you, God forgive me.

I am not kidding, sometimes i am really struck hard and feel really down, i get feelings like God hates me and that my purpose in this life is to suffer and not to enjoy live with goodness.

Other days i feel better n thnks God for what i have.

But honestly i am thinking like you, if i commit suicide i will die and then its Gods decision wheter i go hell or not, but deep down i know that God dont want me to suffer and i dont wanna displease Him.

once again its impossible for me to understand ur situation, i wish you blessings and guidance n help.

Feel free to pm me back.

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(salam) sister.

 

Let me tell you something. If only you could see the things that some Afghan, Palestenian orphan kids go through, you'd say alhamdulillah for that state that you are in. I'm an Afghan myself, and I've seen situations that makes me cry and say wow! is this what life really is? But you know what? Those kids are so tuffened that they never forget the mercy of their lord. I swear, they are an inspiration.

 

Let me tell you the lowest level of hell, is that you'll be wearing slippers that are made up of burning fire. So hot, that your brain boils in your head. You'll be walking with those slippers. This is mentioned in the Quran. This is the lowest level of hell. Now suicide is a major sin. Imagine the punishment for that. I can't imagine it. 

 

Don't do it. You'll regret it so bad. It is the biggest mistake one can make. Rather, wait, be patient, this phase will go I swear. In the Quran Allah say: "Surely, after every hardship there is ease". Indeed, I swear after night, there is dawn. Have patience, seek help, you'll get out of this phase. You won't remain in it for ever.

 

Wish you luck. And my prayers are behind you sister. 

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(bismillah)

(salam)

 

How bad is hell you ask?

إِنَّ الَّذينَ كَفَروا بِآياتِنا سَوفَ نُصليهِم نارًا كُلَّما نَضِجَت جُلودُهُم بَدَّلناهُم جُلودًا غَيرَها لِيَذوقُوا العَذابَ ۗ إِنَّ اللَّـهَ كانَ عَزيزًا حَكيمًا

[4:56] Saheeh International
Indeed, those who disbelieve in Our verses - We will drive them into a Fire. Every time their skins are roasted through We will replace them with other skins so they may taste the punishment. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted in Might and Wise.
 
إِذا رَأَتهُم مِن مَكانٍ بَعيدٍ سَمِعوا لَها تَغَيُّظًا وَزَفيرًا ﴿١٢﴾ وَإِذا أُلقوا مِنها مَكانًا ضَيِّقًا مُقَرَّنينَ دَعَوا هُنالِكَ ثُبورًا ﴿١٣﴾ لا تَدعُوا اليَومَ ثُبورًا واحِدًا وَادعوا ثُبورًا كَثيرًا ﴿١٤﴾ قُل أَذٰلِكَ خَيرٌ أَم جَنَّةُ الخُلدِ الَّتي وُعِدَ المُتَّقونَ ۚ كانَت لَهُم جَزاءً وَمَصيرًا
[25:12] Saheeh International
When the Hellfire sees them from a distant place, they will hear its fury and roaring.
[25:13] Saheeh International
And when they are thrown into a narrow place therein bound in chains, they will cry out thereupon for destruction.
[25:14] Saheeh International
[They will be told], "Do not cry this Day for one destruction but cry for much destruction."
[25:15] Saheeh International
Say, "Is that better or the Garden of Eternity which is promised to the righteous? It will be for them a reward and destination.

Something to ask yourself... being tortured in hell in constant misery and suffering for suicide... is that better or heaven for waiting?  

 

There's ups and downs in life.  i bet nothing you're going through is as bad as what the Prophet (pbuh) suffered through.  His companions were tortured and killed, his wife starved to death, all of his sons died, he(pbuh) was kicked out of his homeland and humiliated when he sought shelter in Ta'if, in addition to having war waged against him(pbuh) and dodged assassination attempts on his (pbuh) life.  

Did he (pbuh) give up and commit suicide?  Absolutely not!  Rather, he increased his salat and dua and reliance on Allah(swt).  That is the behavior of a real Muslims, (pbuh).

 

My dear Sister, you may benefit from this video in which another hopeless person wanted to die to:

 

And look at your relationship with Allah(swt) and try to gain nearness to him :)

 

And if there's anything you need to talk about, privately, there's many trustworthy sisters here

 

was salam

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Honestly, the fact that you have access to the internet where as most kids in Asia and Africa don't is enough to prove that your life is better than most people.

 

I myself was 3 months old when we became refugees, I saw my father shot, wounded, arrested. Watched my mother get beaten. I became so ill that my skin was hanging off me like a cloth hangs off a rope, Went to bed hungry and crying some nights because of lack of food. This was when I was a child, when I was around 10 I would get beaten and bullied by baloch kids and adults in Pakistan, only 10 and I was covered with scars. 

 

Then we moved to UK, here my family all became depressed, my dad picked up mental issue, my mum tried to kill herself, My weight tripled, got bullied some more through out my whole education, I ran away and lived in Afghanistan for a year then I realised that my life can get worse, and I thanked Allah for giving me so much, now life is very easy and comfortable. And I am seeing things from a better perspective and living happily with family, and obeying my parents.

 

So I don't think you have had it any harder. You just need to change your view point.

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Bismillah.

 

Dear brother!

 

Salaamun Alaykum

 

As you know there are lots of problems and calamities all people are suffering from. For instance there are many difficulties in scientific affairs that the way for dealing with them is to be solved, not to be neglected. This is the same regarding your problem; you have to find the origin of your problem – by thinking a lot and consulting experts – and try to solve it by the best method; and this is exactly the goal of this life; Allah (s) says:

"لَقَدْ خَلَقْنَا الْإِنْسانَ في‏ كَبَد"

“Certainly We created man in travail” (the Qur’an 90:4)

 

Another important factor for everybody especially those who are suffering from such problems is to improve their spirituality and this is impossible unless by deepening your religious knowledge; so try to make a schedule for yourself for deepening your religious studies.

 

What I’ve mentioned is general solution but if I have access to more information about your situation, maybe I can help more.

 

Whit Duas.

 

Narsis.

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I been thinking of committing suicide. I have way to much stress and I feel like I have no future. 

I believe in god, I really do, but I can't do this anymore. I'm not wanted in this world, I know that people care about me. I'm just not happy. 

I tried being happy, I can't its impossible i been like this for a year now and its killing me. If I do end up committing suicide how badly will I be punished? Will god have any mercy on me. I have decided that its the best choice for me. I just need to know what will happen to me afterwards. 

 

(salam) sister

 

Your biggest mistake that you can do right now is committing suicide. Allah (SWT) Has chosen you to know Him, that's already so big mercy that it can't be described. We all go through difficulties and it is said that Allah (SWT) would never put the soul in trials except what it can bare. Who knows you better than yourself? Only Allah (SWT) indeed. Dear sister, don't think committing suicide. You have always chance to make your life much better than now, but you need to work on it and it is not going to be easy. You need to be patient, ask for help from Allah (SWT). Solve your problems one at a time. Don't let the shaytan to whisper on your ear and make things to be more difficult than you can bare.

 

Do you have any trustworthy friends that you can talk to?

 

Regarding your question about Hell, it is a place that doesn't have any kind of mercy. People might think that they can see light of Fire in Hell, but that's not true. Hell is going to be dark place with full of pain and torture. If you have read Holy Quran about those bad people who wish in the Day of Judgement to have one more opportunity to be good people in this world but Allah (SWT) won't allow it because they are just lyiers and they think they speak truth but they would doing same thing like they used to do before if Allah (SWT) would have granted them one more chance and Allah (SWT) knows everything best.

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(salam) sister.
 
Let me tell you something. If only you could see the things that some Afghan, Palestenian orphan kids go through, you'd say alhamdulillah for that state that you are in. I'm an Afghan myself, and I've seen situations that makes me cry and say wow! is this what life really is? But you know what? Those kids are so tuffened that they never forget the mercy of their lord. I swear, they are an inspiration.
 
Let me tell you the lowest level of hell, is that you'll be wearing slippers that are made up of burning fire. So hot, that your brain boils in your head. You'll be walking with those slippers. This is mentioned in the Quran. This is the lowest level of hell. Now suicide is a major sin. Imagine the punishment for that. I can't imagine it. 
 
Don't do it. You'll regret it so bad. It is the biggest mistake one can make. Rather, wait, be patient, this phase will go I swear. In the Quran Allah say: "Surely, after every hardship there is ease". Indeed, I swear after night, there is dawn. Have patience, seek help, you'll get out of this phase. You won't remain in it for ever.
 
Wish you luck. And my prayers are behind you sister. 

 

 

I myself am an afghan. I feel terrible, knowing what other people go through and I have a pretty decent life. I just believe that I deserve to go to hell and will go to hell even if I don't commit suicide. So wouldn't it be easier to just commit suicide right now?

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Honestly, the fact that you have access to the internet where as most kids in Asia and Africa don't is enough to prove that your life is better than most people.

 

I myself was 3 months old when we became refugees, I saw my father shot, wounded, arrested. Watched my mother get beaten. I became so ill that my skin was hanging off me like a cloth hangs off a rope, Went to bed hungry and crying some nights because of lack of food. This was when I was a child, when I was around 10 I would get beaten and bullied by baloch kids and adults in Pakistan, only 10 and I was covered with scars. 

 

Then we moved to UK, here my family all became depressed, my dad picked up mental issue, my mum tried to kill herself, My weight tripled, got bullied some more through out my whole education, I ran away and lived in Afghanistan for a year then I realised that my life can get worse, and I thanked Allah for giving me so much, now life is very easy and comfortable. And I am seeing things from a better perspective and living happily with family, and obeying my parents.

 

So I don't think you have had it any harder. You just need to change your view point.

No I don't have it harder. I'm very sorry. I feel terrible, this is the reason why i believe I desreve to go to hell

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I been thinking of committing suicide. I have way to much stress and I feel like I have no future. 

I believe in god, I really do, but I can't do this anymore. I'm not wanted in this world, I know that people care about me. I'm just not happy. 

I tried being happy, I can't its impossible i been like this for a year now and its killing me. If I do end up committing suicide how badly will I be punished? Will god have any mercy on me. I have decided that its the best choice for me. I just need to know what will happen to me afterwards. 

Salam,

For sure There would be worse for those are not invited by God, the Qur'an says;32/5 من قتل نفسا .... فکانما قتل الناس جمیعا also there are other relevant Ayahat re asure that one is not authorized not to harm himself let alone to kill himself through suicide or whatever, you lost your hope for you close you eyes on the others in a lower and worse condition but still they are living in a way thankful to God,do not deepen in the decorated by luxuries lives  of the upper class of people around  not to be deceived by just the appearance of what it seems, for it is empty of comfort and many good things we may not aware of and being poisoned. Surely suicide is the beginning of a the most miserable life one hopes "not to be born never ever! it's not the end of calamity rather the start,  you know Hell is suicide itself, be avoid of it, keep distance! rather try to think about good things that  you already have and others are deprived of, it brings hope, and this very fact that " the things might would have been even worse than current condition you are in, there always can the worst of worse!i am wondering why you're title is love then!it shows you are kidding yourself the one with any connection to love impossible is to think about such silly things! stay safe!

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I been thinking of committing suicide. I have way to much stress and I feel like I have no future. 

I believe in god, I really do, but I can't do this anymore. I'm not wanted in this world, I know that people care about me. I'm just not happy. 

I tried being happy, I can't its impossible i been like this for a year now and its killing me. If I do end up committing suicide how badly will I be punished? Will god have any mercy on me. I have decided that its the best choice for me. I just need to know what will happen to me afterwards.

Basmala

Salam

Love8, don't you see? You have been greatly blessed by God and His mercy. The angels are sounding their trumpets and congratulating you over this, and there is much excitement in heaven. You are indeed on the straight path and continuing down it would be wise.

You see, God has blessed you by showing you what sadness is. By His mercy you've been granted witness of it and when you become happy again (because you will) you'll have contrast between the two. And through this insight you'll understand what mercy truly is, and what suffering truly means. In this you will see the face of your creator; what a splendid sight!

So when come to again and feel happy be thankful for your blessing and show the people what mercy means.

Hang on there, you can PM me if you want. I'm always glad to help. You'll be in my prayers and I hope you feel better soon, inshallah.

YCM

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I always think of my lord Allah...I think that many thing he has given without my asking.For example air water,oxygen, without which I cannot survive for single minute...Think positively you will notice Allah has given with abundance..to human.The most importing thing he has given imaan to every Muslim this is the biggest wealth...Their are many human beings they live difficult and tough life which I had seen practically...Their are many blinds they live their life ..they do work or job they even are married and having healthy children...they face the life with courage...many person I had seen they are handicapped with leg disorder or hand they live the life...So you look to the khilkaat of Allah subhanahu..you will notice many thing This thought of suicide many times comes in my mind I always compare my life with the lesser in life..and do shukr prayer that Allah has awarded in abundance..

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Sometimes, deficiency of certain vitamins and minerals or hormonal imbalance can make us 'sad' - people with lower levels of iron or vitamin B3 feel depressed for no reason. Therefore like other members are telling you, it would be a really good idea to see a doctor or specialist. Also, most people don't see the point of living when they are living for their own sake, try to live for others' sake, go out of your way to make their lives better and you'll be motivated to live.

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