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Health Issues & Marriage?

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Salam,

I saw this thread bout sti/hiv/aids & (1) was wondering hw do SISTERS feel about being asked to do tests before anything happens?

(2) What if a brother you were dying for him to propose insists on testing for both of you & results came that He is infected & you r fine, what would you do then?

Tis questions toward sisters about marriage in health & fitness forum cause tis a Health issue.

& while on that, (3)would you propose marriage to a brother as a sister???

ws

ps 'I am humbly sorry should there be offense on anyone, anyhow'

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Salam,

I saw this thread bout sti/hiv/aids & (1) was wondering hw do SISTERS feel about being asked to do tests before anything happens?

(2) What if a brother you were dying for him to propose insists on testing for both of you & results came that He is infected & you r fine, what would you do then?

Tis questions toward sisters about marriage in health & fitness forum cause tis a Health issue.

& while on that, (3)would you propose marriage to a brother as a sister???

ws

ps 'I am humbly sorry should there be offense on anyone, anyhow'

 

1) I dont mind.

2) If there is a chance that whatever disease he has will affect our future children then no way. 

3) I wouldnt do it directly, but I would hint it to him indirectly.

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Wsalam,

A. I would be a bit offended because I know am clean,but it's good to have prove and it will keep his mind at peace if he see's evidence.

B. I will end it...

C. Will never ask for no guys hand. If woman started to ask for a man's hand,what's left for the guy to do...

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My neighbor got married when she had cancer. She even got pregnant with him. The baby wasn't gonna live, but at least she got to experience some kind of motherhood before she died. Yes they were both muslim. 

 

I don't think we could honestly say we would or would not do such a thing. If we were really put in the situation, the reaction and outcome would be different out of hand. 

 

I personally can't answer that question. I know I'll probably different and react different as well.

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My neighbor got married when she had cancer. She even got pregnant with him. The baby wasn't gonna live, but at least she got to experience some kind of motherhood before she died. Yes they were both muslim. 

 

I don't think we could honestly say we would or would not do such a thing. If we were really put in the situation, the reaction and outcome would be different out of hand. 

 

I personally can't answer that question. I know I'll probably different and react different as well.

would be going off topic but I am really surprised she decided to have a baby when she was knew she wasn't going to live......and the baby died too, how sad... 

I don't know if or why they planned to have but if it was just so she could experience some motherhood then seems pretty selfish to me.... and  the stress of pregnancy probably deteriorated her health further.......It is our duty from Allah  to take care of our mental and physical health.

 

but , like you said... we can't really say unless we are in that situation...

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