Behind Closed Doors With A Girl

[14ers]

Shaykh Hamid Waqar was asked about the permissibility of being alone with a non-relative member of the opposite gender (namahram). Here is his answer: 

[Mod Note: Link removed; no longer an Islamic site; now a spam website.]

Edited September 8, 2022 by Hameedeh
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[kim.tinkerbell]

Am gussing the answer is that your not allowed because the shaytan can fool you and you can do bad things...

I cant get into the website,thats why am guessing....

[14ers]

On 3/23/2014 at 6:12 PM, kim.tinkerbell said:

Am gussing the answer is that your not allowed because the shaytan can fool you and you can do bad things...

I cant get into the website,thats why am guessing....

Sorry for that. The link seems to be working now: [Mod Note: Link removed; no longer an Islamic site; now a spam website.]

Edited September 8, 2022 by Hameedeh
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[EthidiumIodide]

Wow! I have been told these things since I was a kid. Man, lust is such a scary thing that it seems that it is all we talk about.

[14ers]

Wow! I have been told these things since I was a kid. Man, lust is such a scary thing that it seems that it is all we talk about.

Sarcasm aside, it actually is. The majority of sins are committed because a person was unable to control his lust (in Islamic sciences lust is not limited to sexual desire, it also includes the desire for food and drink and so on).

[I'm Lost]

(Salam)

What I found interesting in the answer was that the Satan himself warns & tells them not to do such an act. Wow!

[narsis]

Bismillah.

 

Salaamun Alaykum.

 

It seems to me that this would be appropriate to quote some Ahādīth in this regard:

 

The Prophet of Islam (p) said:

 

"عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ص أَنَّهُ نَهَى عَنْ مُحَادَثَةِ النِّسَاءِ يَعْنِي غَيْرِ ذَوَاتِ الْمَحَارِمِ وَ قَالَ لَا يَخْلُوَنَّ رَجُلٌ بِامْرَأَةٍ فَمَا مِنْ رَجُلٍ خَلَا بِامْرَأَةٍ إِلَّا كَانَ الشَّيْطَانُ ثَالِثَهُمَا"

 

“It’s been narrated from the Prophet of Islam (p) which he prohibited of talking with women i.e. non-relatives and he said: a man must not to be alone with a woman, for, there no man alone with a woman except the third one is Satan”

 

(Da‘ā’im al-Islam, vol.2, p.214)

 

Imam al-Sadiq (p) said:

"حَدِيثُ النِّسَاءِ مِنْ مَصَائِدِ الشَّيْطَانِ‌"

 

“Chatting with (non-relative) women is one of the Satan’s hunting ground”

(Da‘ā’im al-Islam, vol.2, p.214)

 

And he (p) said:

"فَإِنَّ الرَّجُلَ وَ الْمَرْأَةَ إِذَا خُلِّيَا فِي بَيْتٍ كَانَ ثَالِثُهُمَا الشَّيْطَانَ‌"

 

“Verily when a man is alone with a woman in a house, the third party is Satan”

(Man lā Yahḍuruhu-l Faqih, vol.3, p.252)

With Duas.

 

Narsis.