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I'm of Pakistani/Persian Shia Twelver background, 20 years old so how do I get about getting in contact with Lebanese girls who are willing to to marry someone non Arabic speaking and of a different culture

I don't want to go on shia marriage .com either but something more realistic

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Cultural background should not be a barrier for you in getting married. However , there are some tradition oriented families thatl will find inter racial marriages problematic, thats just how society works. I would know, cause i am arab myself. It would be hard to find a lebanese family that doesent look at ethical background.But why lebanese?

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Salam. Some people know what they are looking for, i.e. Hizbullah. :D (noting that muslims there usually are among them)

I pray for you brother that Allah opens the best door for you.. And you have a blessed marriage and a family..

And inshaAllah I hope sisters here get a share in it through matchmaking you with one, be a Lebanese or not.. ma salam

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Cultural background should not be a barrier for you in getting married. However , there are some tradition oriented families thatl will find inter racial marriages problematic, thats just how society works. I would know, cause i am arab myself. It would be hard to find a lebanese family that doesent look at ethical background.But why lebanese?

That's true, I know many that are like that

Because Lebanese girls look the best bro

Also not just any Lebanese girl...but a girl with morals, virtues, and hijab

Salam. Some people know what they are looking for, i.e. Hizbullah. :D (noting that muslims there usually are among them)

I pray for you brother that Allah opens the best door for you.. And you have a blessed marriage and a family..

And inshaAllah I hope sisters here get a share in it through matchmaking you with one, be a Lebanese or not.. ma salam

I pray the exact same for you brother with blessings upon you and your family

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20 yrs and ready for problems?

Haha. I'm not an average joe man, I try to deal with things calmly and with a sound mind and resolve any small issue before it gets big

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This thread will be locked if it is interpreted as soliciting proposals for marriage. I think this is against site rules.

I haven't asked for marriage proposals, in face your post could be flagged as spamming as it's talking about something that is non existent! :D

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I don't know any Lebanese girls or family. I know some adult Lebanese guys who are not really in a position to get me connected. So this is not about me extending my arm out to anybody as a marriage proposal just what steps to take as I don't know any, and my parents are not big in the Lebanese community either.

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I haven't asked for marriage proposals, in face your post could be flagged as spamming as it's talking about something that is non existent! :D

 

I see what you mean. That is fine by me. That's why I chose my words carefully. I said if this thread is "interpreted as...".

 

It's moderators' prerogative to interpret threads. Though one can disagree with their assessment, one cannot challenge them.

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said by who??

 

if you mean most fashionable and flirtatious then yes lebanese women are 'mostly' like that,but if you mean real beauty and attraction then it's found in persian women more than any other women..that is a fact -_-

when I said they look the best I was really just talking about Arabs. In the Arab world they are most attractive to me

To be honest I can't can't really call it between Persian and Lebanese but I'm part Persian so I feel like it's something not so foreign to me. I would definitely marry a Iranian girl as well who is a good woman over a Lebanese who is a not so good woman

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yeah i see..u want something new..new looks new kinda beauty..not wrong,i have some lebanese single friends but all are above 20 sorry lol

 

good luck

I don't got a problem with an older girl but thanks though!!

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I agree, persians are beautiful, but thats besides the point, you should marry someone based on their inner beauty, not their external beauty, because looks come and go, but its the character that stays. Lets assume that you did find a beautiful lebanese girl, but her character is not as good, would you still marry her? Don't get me wrong, im not saying that the girl shouldnt be beautiful. She should, looks matter in a marriage, they enchance happiness between the spouses. Yet, when you prioritize the looks over the character, things can get problematic. Inshallah, I hope that you find a wife thats good in both character as well as looks.

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I agree, persians are beautiful, but thats besides the point, you should marry someone based on their inner beauty, not their external beauty, because looks come and go, but its the character that stays. Lets assume that you did find a beautiful lebanese girl, but her character is not as good, would you still marry her? Don't get me wrong, im not saying that the girl shouldnt be beautiful. She should, looks matter in a marriage, they enchance happiness between the spouses. Yet, when you prioritize the looks over the character, things can get problematic. Inshallah, I hope that you find a wife thats good in both character as well as looks.

"Also not just any Lebanese girl...but a girl with morals, virtues, and hijab "

I said that earlier! :p

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I agree, persians are beautiful, but thats besides the point, you should marry someone based on their inner beauty, not their external beauty, because looks come and go, but its the character that stays. Lets assume that you did find a beautiful lebanese girl, but her character is not as good, would you still marry her? Don't get me wrong, im not saying that the girl shouldnt be beautiful. She should, looks matter in a marriage, they enchance happiness between the spouses. Yet, when you prioritize the looks over the character, things can get problematic. Inshallah, I hope that you find a wife thats good in both character as well as looks.

 

Beauty and character are not either/or choices. Even if they don't concede it, guys want both, bundled into a single package. Nothing less suffices.

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