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Looks Doesn't Really Matter :d

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On 10/14/2013 at 12:18 AM, Asad_127 said:

Nice post mA. It is amazing how the nose and ears get bigger as a person gets older.   :)

I guess the guys on the forum who were saying they want a wife that only "looks good" should kinda rethink their criteria, because after 10-20 years its gonna be the akhlaaq that really stays. Same goes in reverse for females :)

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On 10/13/2013 at 10:33 PM, yazahra313 said:

Hello Yazahra,

That's cool! Wow! :)

That reminds me of what God told Samuel:

“Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” - http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Samuel+16&version=NIV

Still, it is ok to take care of oneself by eating healthy and working out, as well as moisturizing our skin!

Peace and God bless you

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Some of them were beautiful both young and old.  Some were not beautiful young. 

Looks do matter - a person should look healthy and dress themselves with a pleasant expression. Nothing is more unattractive than a frown. It is the biological nature of humans to look for a certain body shape, glossy hair, clear skin, that indicate health and reproductive capability. Fashion and cultural bias are poor reasons to choose a spouse.

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Physical looks matter a lot to guys, men are very visual and "start" falling in love visually.  Other important things guys get attracted to immediately are compassion, feminine behaviors and other motherly qualities.    

For girls, a guy's physical attractiveness is not really that big a deal.  In fact it means nothing if he doesn't possess strong masculine qualities such as leadership, drive, control, decisiveness, and certitude..ect..

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Looks matter to begin with, that is if you want to find a woman on your own without your parents arranging anything. However, looks will become detritus once the personalities come out. No matter how pretty/handsome you are it does not mean you are beautiful. Beauty comes after the personality of a person shapes them.

If you were to compare an extremely attractive woman with an incredibly hideous personality and an average looking woman with a personality that fits your criteria, then you would pick the latter. And this is not just blowing off steam, this is not coming from a junkyard, this is the immaculate truth. I doubt anyone would be able to live with an abusive husband/wife, even if they were incredibly attractive.

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If you were to compare an extremely attractive woman with an incredibly hideous personality and an average looking woman with a personality that fits your criteria

Instead of "average looking woman" you should say...

" ...and a woman with an incredibly hideous appearance that fits your criteria"

If one had to choose between those two then I would recommend fasting.

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On 10/25/2013 at 12:26 AM, eThErEaL said:

Instead of "average looking woman" you should say...

" ...and a woman with an incredibly hideous appearance that fits your criteria"

If one had to choose between those two then I would recommend fasting.

I'm pretty sure there exists an average looking woman/man with a great personality. It isn't usually the case of deciding between Amazing and intolerable.

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