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Marriage In The West

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As-salaam mulaikum. How does one find a women for marriage in the west, especially Christian women. Do we just go and talk to her right away about marriage. I have seen most women are not serious about marriage and those that are seem to be very few, so its hard to find and get to know them. What is the first step someone can take in order to ease this process. What are some problems one should be aware of and how can he/she counter them.

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as a precautionary measure contract :Mutah before anything.

it is the protection of the soul.

then proceed to discuss and interact with them.

western women are always fascinated by simplicity.

I find the 911 Porsche turbo parked outside very useful .

not because of it's prestigious and material worth it has in the west , but it's a fast getaway car when things go south .

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As-salaam mulaikum. How does one find a women for marriage in the west, especially Christian women. Do we just go and talk to her right away about marriage. I have seen most women are not serious about marriage and those that are seem to be very few, so its hard to find and get to know them. What is the first step someone can take in order to ease this process. What are some problems one should be aware of and how can he/she counter them.

 

Greetings race,

 

Most begin by just being friends... having things in common that you like to talk about, or do... like play tennis, or go jogging, study, have a cup of coffee or tea together... stuff like that.  You should be looking for things you have in common, which makes one wonder why a 'Christian woman'?  Anyway, contrary to what some may think, western women are not just looking to get sacked any more than muslim women are.  They are usually looking to form strong caring friendships, i.e., relationships that lead to wanting to spend more and more time together.  It's this desire to share, to be together that draws people of the opposite sex to go too far with one another... So to avoid this it is wise to do things in groups... with other friends or in family, or church/mosque settings, where you can see how you both interact with other people as well.

Wisdom tells us that when two people are walking towards God they are walking towards the same goal, which is good... they are being drawn in the same direction.  When two people focus on one another they are on a collision course.  Try to find someone who will walk by your side.

 

Salaam and blessings to you,

CLynn

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