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(salam)
 
*As a disclaimer, I would humbly request that sisters not comment on this thread. It is kindly appreciated.
 
As we know, Internet Porn has became a menace in the lives of many brothers who are struggling with this highly self-destructive addiction. As we all know masturbation is haram, but it seems the reason why it has become such a huge problem today (not only in our community but all over the world) is due to the availability of Internet Pornography.
 
I highly recommend you watch this video:
 
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Some of the symptoms porn addicts experience:

  • copulatory impotence (can get it up for porn, but not partners)
  • growing erectile dysfunction, even with extreme porn.
  • frequent masturbation, little satisfaction ("feeling like a lust-ball all day")
  • morphing porn tastes that don't match sexual orientation (HOCD)
  • severe, worsening social anxiety
  • fatigue, irritability
  • lack of motivation, depression, anxiety,
  • inability to concentrate, brain fog
  • distress about escalation to more extreme porn

As you can see more and more is coming out about how destructive this disease has become among young men.
I highly recommend the site of the person in the video above who not only helps people understand the science behind this addiction but also gives incredible tips and advice on how to stop it: http://yourbrainonporn.com
Some of the things you can start immediately (as said in the video): 
 
1. Quit. And I mean QUIT as in Cold Turkey QUIT. Meaning don't touch yourself, don't watch porn, nothing! If you are having trouble doing this, fast for a few days. Often while you fast you know you can't simply masturbate as this would break it. It's a wonderful tool to keep you discipline. After opening your fast occupy yourself. Do not touch your computer unless you need to for school or work (only if you MUST, otherwise stay away).
 
2. Socialize with other people. I would recommend people who are a positive influence in your life and are observant muslims as well (since they won't be speaking of sex as much). If you are a loner go make friends even if you are nervous about it, Alhamdullilah it's not gay for Muslim men to exchange numbers and hang out! Get a few guys you may know from your masjid do activities together.
 
3. Exercise. Doesn't mean you have to do bodybuilding. It could be as simple as going out for jogs or talking walks everyday. What this does is helps you get a positive release of dopamine. It makes you feel good but with good consequences instead of bad. 
 
4. Meditation. Now my guess is he is talking about meditation where you sit down, empty your mind and do breathing exercises with your eyes closed. This has been said to do wonders for many people and helps you clear your mind, stay focused and disciplined.
 
5. Stay away from the computer (when you don't need it for work or school). Lets face it, in this day in age the Internet is everywhere. So is access to the DIRT we are trying to stay away from. If you don't need to use your computer DO NOT USE IT. Stay away from Facebook, Twitter or whatever the hell is popular nowadays. Those tools aren't good either because they can become bad addictions as well. And we all have seen the pictures some of the girls put on (ladies, yes men are clicking on you so be careful of the type of pictures you post up or give access to). Interact with people in REAL LIFE. DELETE Facebook. If you have it because you need to stay in touch from time to time then do so but only rarely. And by rarely I mean maybe once or twice a month for maybe 10 minutes at a time. Only use it while at work or school. If you have homework do it in front of your family/friends. DO NOT take your computer into privacy of your bedroom. Also remember the sites you visit can probably be seen by "others". The Internet is not a private place anymore so remember there are people who PROBABLY can find out what sites you're visiting. You don't want to give Agent Smith a reason to blackmail you because you clicked on "Midget MILF's in Space" that one time (no don't Google that dummy).
 
If you are addicted, it will take time. You WILL go through withdrawal symptoms just like a crack addict. It may very well take a few months. DO NOT QUIT. You will be normal again! The younger you are the longer it might take, but the rewards are even greater due to your much raging hormones. Zeus will tremble before your might.
 
Your mind craves the dopamine release from Porn and Masturbation, it has become a spoiled child. Don't give it what it want's because like a spoiled child it will make you do things for it till you go broke. 
 
While the above site mostly speak about Porn addiction, remember masturbation goes hand in hand (no pun intended) with it. Even if you are sober for a few months the urge to release will come from time to time. STAY AWAY. Not only is masturbation haram, it will make you relapse because now the brain will seek more of that dopamine it used to get from porn. Your brain will play mind games with you because it is a jerk. It will try to trick you into watching porn again, it's like the really bad friend you once (still?) had who thought running in front of cars at night is fun.
  
Yes, I also understand men NEED release. And Alhamdullilah nature has a way of doing this. It's called nocturnal emissions. Some of you might experience this once in a while, others might get it every other day. Sometimes this may feel embarrassing if you don't have as much privacy on the way from the bed to the bathroom. Worried others might see it and wonder? Screw them. Be a G. Show the world what a manly man you are. Your parents will be proud they made such stud.
 
And last but not least, inshAllah by the end you will be a testosterone-fueled chest beating caveman. You'll be more confident and eager to speak to the opposite sex because your body now knows what it wanted all this time. You'll be doing stuff away from your computer, actually doing things that matter. Maybe you'll write that epic novel. Maybe you'll be a hulking natural bodybuilder/MMA badass. Maybe you'll be so productive you actually discover the cure for cancer/AIDS/Richard Simmons. Whatever your interests are, you will be a much more productive and happy individual.

 

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The Hulk was a scrawny addict who stayed in his mom's basement until he stopped.

 

Now quit and make God, yourself and dozens of beautiful supermodel mutah-wives proud (or marry a good religious girl you really like). InshAllah may Allah help rid our community and the dunya of habits that destroy us as individuals.

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This really is a big big problem for the Muslim world. With the idea of inter-sex mingling out of question, and with early marriages/mutah a taboo, the youth sadly turn to this in an attempt to find shores for their desires. What they get instead is a never ending stream of crave-fulfillment and a growing rather than diminishing sense of desire.

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I blame the system. It has made sure that most if not all of the literate girls having access to television to exploit their partners / husbands with sex as the carrot on the stick. Then these women proceed to use their husbands to deny rights to their sisters, brothers, their children or whatever they want. They get a idiot wrapped around their finger because he's a good man who would rather not fornicate and see another woman, or rub it out and be done with it if he's into that kind of a thing.

 

And no I'm not talking about non-Muslims. This rot is destroying the fabric of society as "Muslim" wives exploit and torture their husbands to pit brother against brother, son against mother, man against God. I don't think this thing and so many others set in motion by the modern system is reversible by mankind alone without the reappearance.

 

This is why 99% males won't find mutah partners and those who do find but the (semi) professional females who don't really do it for God. It is because all the normal ones are taught that their flesh is that one big bargain chip, their future, their everything, and it has become that. While the males are taught that their studies and servitude to the system with the utmost devotion and efficiency will yield them that new beautiful god, money.

 

Sadly its all materialistic. There is no faith or love involved in any relationships anymore. Unless lust can be mistaken as love or can become a reason to care for your partner. If you're not of the younger generations and were lucky to find a good partner before everything went to hell without you knowing then be thankful.

 

Last but not least, there is always the looming little apocalypse of child birth. Some people can wipe the slate and not care, and call themselves Muslim after having destroyed the image God was about to create, the child. And damned you are if that child is born, an outcast of this society, an icon of shame, and in any case, a beast of burden who will have to bear the expenses of raising a child and the consequences, always knowing its future that it will also be sacrificed upon the altar of this system and will be indoctrinated and raised to be another enemy of God.

 

I'm not trying to justify masturbation. Or may be I am. But those facts remain. Of course it is easily possible to become a nun and simply remain chaste of everything if you can control yourself. The only other way out is to to take injections that take away a man's lust. These injections are given to army cadets. I invite everyone with such a difficulty to shoot one up and feel the difference!~

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(salam)

 

Brothers, I truly understand what you guys are through and all of you have valid points. But I will give it to you straight because the best medicine is usually bitter:

 

Modern society, your communities, and women DO NOT care. They will NEVER care. 

 

They do not care what problems you're having or what you're going through. And guess what, it is only destructive to you, both in the short and long term (especially the long). You must do away with the blame game because even though it's valid, it won't do anything but hurt yourselves. Sex will still be bombarded on you by the media, your communities will still dig their heads in the sand and women will still reject you or play mind games. Blaming the causes will only hurt you! Don't even blame yourselves because yes, we are men, we have needs and we're biologically programmed to get those needs. The simple fact of the matter is we were born in this time and era, and though it is worse time than any previous generations of men had, the rewards for us will be FAR greater mentally and spiritually.

 

One thing is for sure, and more and more men are coming out about this, is that stopping pornography and masturbation has truly made the quality of life so much better for thousands of men who stopped. Of course you will falter, but the key is to not give up and make it happen. You will be a stronger, more confident, more productive versions of yourselves. True, marriage won't get any easier BUT you will have a better personality and "aura" about you that will attract women.

 

The goal is not simply to get married by the end BUT to be the person you were meant to be. To no longer be a slave to the destructive forces that are trying to rob you of your soul. Plus your testosterone will be skyrocketing and you will be much more eager to meet REAL women. You will still get rejections but you will get yes's and numbers simply because you don't give up. Your biology will be kicked into over drive and you will want the real thing. I guarantee nothing compares to the real thing!

 

My suggestions to the brothers is this. If you are in the west, stop (porn and masturbation) for months and see the changes in yourself. Then start talking to girls in your college campus. Personally I know this will be a normal course of action because you'll want to yourselves. You would be surprised how many liberal christian and muslim girls would be open to Mutah. Personally I wouldn't suggest doing mutah with religious muslim women. Do mutah with the liberal ones because you would be surprised how many of them are open to the idea. If you aren't in college then start doing activities outside. This is part of the "Be Social" point I put up. Being social not only deters you from porn, it raises your dopamine levels and opens up new windows of opportunities. Helps you build a network of people and might even you find a girl to do mutah with or marry. Heck join something like meetup.com for example to see what activities you can do in your area with other people.

 

If brothers are in the east, then yes it will be a bit tougher but when there is a way there's a will. I know in Pakistan for example many young people have become a lot more liberal. I know guys and girls hang out with each other all the time and I suggest you become part of such social groups because they will help you meet women. By liberal I don't mean the types who drink and party but the more moderate liberal ones. Start getting females in your social circle. This will open up opportunities for marriage/or mutah inshAllah (non-marital sex happens in the east too you know). Yes money is an even bigger issue in the east because you are in a cultural hell hole. But if you heal your addiction you will be a much more productive human being both in work and life. And if you have a larger number of women in your social network, the better the chances of finding someone you like whose parents might let you marry her despite your income. Remember, for men it's not just about love it's a "numbers" game. This may seem cynical but it's the truth. Plus you won't be stuck in a desperate position where women can manipulate you (since they know you can get anyone else).

 

Keep yourselves open to sunni women as well. Of course don't marry someone who hates Ahlul Bayt (as) but look for someone who respects them and is open to learning about Shia'ism. There are many sunni women who became shia after meeting good shia men and ended up marrying them.

 

In the end, don't blame society for your own sake's. This only closes you in a mental box. Yes, the world is a harsh and cruel place. The only way to make it better is to make your own lives and experiences here better. And before anyone who is addicted to porn or masturbation EVEN attempts to go for women, my suggestion is don't. The first step is to HEAL. Going after women right away has the potential to bring you back. As difficult as it is you have to stop caring about women for a few months. Yes you will think about them but this is why you must keep yourselves occupied and find other outlets. I highly suggest bookmarking and visiting this site often: http://yourbrainonporn.com/. Thousands of men were able to save themselves (and with some suicidal men, their lives) with the advice given on this site.

 

If you overcome this you will have the strength of character others only wished they had. There is a prayer/quote by a man named Reinhold Niebuhr as follows:

 

"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

The courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference."

 

With Duas,

(salam) 

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I blame the system. It has made sure that most if not all of the literate girls having access to television to exploit their partners / husbands with sex as the carrot on the stick. Then these women proceed to use their husbands to deny rights to their sisters, brothers, their children or whatever they want. They get a idiot wrapped around their finger because he's a good man who would rather not fornicate and see another woman, or rub it out and be done with it if he's into that kind of a thing.

 

And no I'm not talking about non-Muslims. This rot is destroying the fabric of society as "Muslim" wives exploit and torture their husbands to pit brother against brother, son against mother, man against God. I don't think this thing and so many others set in motion by the modern system is reversible by mankind alone without the reappearance.

 

This is why 99% males won't find mutah partners and those who do find but the (semi) professional females who don't really do it for God. It is because all the normal ones are taught that their flesh is that one big bargain chip, their future, their everything, and it has become that. While the males are taught that their studies and servitude to the system with the utmost devotion and efficiency will yield them that new beautiful god, money.

 

Sadly its all materialistic. There is no faith or love involved in any relationships anymore. Unless lust can be mistaken as love or can become a reason to care for your partner. If you're not of the younger generations and were lucky to find a good partner before everything went to hell without you knowing then be thankful.

 

Last but not least, there is always the looming little apocalypse of child birth. Some people can wipe the slate and not care, and call themselves Muslim after having destroyed the image God was about to create, the child. And damned you are if that child is born, an outcast of this society, an icon of shame, and in any case, a beast of burden who will have to bear the expenses of raising a child and the consequences, always knowing its future that it will also be sacrificed upon the altar of this system and will be indoctrinated and raised to be another enemy of God.

 

I'm not trying to justify masturbation. Or may be I am. But those facts remain. Of course it is easily possible to become a nun and simply remain chaste of everything if you can control yourself. The only other way out is to to take injections that take away a man's lust. These injections are given to army cadets. I invite everyone with such a difficulty to shoot one up and feel the difference!~

 

Another outside the box thinking post by you bro -

 

Whatever you say is true for 99% of the women, but the blame rests on 100% of the men.

 

Men - YOU - yes I'm talking to you -

 

MAKE "Hub Fillah" and "Bughz Fillah" as the core motivator for all your relations, specially with your wife and you will, in an instance transform yourself, from this wimpy male slave into this liberating man who eats, sleeps, fasts, live, work for God and only for God and for no other man or woman.  For you as a man, your only and final love should be for God and in God. Change your perspective and live FREE.

 

Still love your wife, love your offspring, love your wealth, but keep them where they belong, and don't make them your God.

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Another outside the box thinking post by you bro -

 

Whatever you say is true for 99% of the women, but the blame rests on 100% of the men.

 

Men - YOU - yes I'm talking to you -

 

MAKE "Hub Fillah" and "Bughz Fillah" as the core motivator for all your relations, specially with your wife and you will, in an instance transform yourself, from this wimpy male slave into this liberating man who eats, sleeps, fasts, live, work for God and only for God and for no other man or woman.  For you as a man, your only and final love should be for God and in God. Change your perspective and live FREE.

 

Still love your wife, love your offspring, love your wealth, but keep them where they belong, and don't make them your God.

 

woho brilliant post.....I agree 200% with you.

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Another outside the box thinking post by you bro -

 

Whatever you say is true for 99% of the women, but the blame rests on 100% of the men.

 

Men - YOU - yes I'm talking to you -

 

MAKE "Hub Fillah" and "Bughz Fillah" as the core motivator for all your relations, specially with your wife and you will, in an instance transform yourself, get divorced / remain a bachelor forever.

Fixed. :p

There are no generic remedies to be quite honest.

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I dont think we can find women for mutah in Pakistan, you are basically just friends which goes against the Islamic rulings.

 

better than spending your nights before the computer screen...

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better than spending your nights before the computer screen...

eh not really, id rather work on my fajr. But my point is that you cant actually think of getting temporary married here in Pakistan, majority are sunni plus the wahabi ideology has affected many of them.

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I think that the intense natural sexual affinity in a man is the biggest inconvenience in his post childhood life these days.

 

As a solution, religion offers marriage(s), which has abominated into something else, life-time but arbitrary contracts and not an eternal sacred covenant between a man and wife as God intended. You must study, wait and get a job because thats norm and logical. Not to mention parents' and siblings' and society's constant interference that has become routine and accepted and ruins it. Its purpose we have lost and fail to understand like much of the religion itself. It has become all but secular, a union of families, or a means to power, to financial gain, a tradition, one of those duty or things we just have to go through without knowing because everyone else is. There is little left in it that is done for God's sake either like other things in life.

 

And then, in this day and age, people talk of that ancient, forbidden and abandoned thing called mutah, which is actually impossible except with prostitutes. Wow. It is certainly halal and all, a gift, a relief, a loophole, it is real no doubt, but so is the fact that society will crucify you and burn you on a pyre for being different. Even a second marriage makes you an outcast (and bankrupt).

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I never wanted to get married. I was forced by my mother and siblings into it. They scared me with so many things. I knew better. I always knew better. I wanted to avoid sin but instead ended up in a mental hell with a mental wife and her mental family with throngs of hellspawn unnatural responsibilities. I was already swimming in a world of problematic and selfish relatives. Relatives, you don't get to choose them. And my mother always made the worst possible decisions and forced them onto me. And then our religion tells us to obey the parents. What could I do? My father chose my field of studies, civil engineering, something as innovative as agriculture -- dead. My mother decided that I should study close to her, where I got introduced to nasibiism by the most esteemed professors in the most esteemed engineering university of Pakistan, as I got mistreated with neglect and kept back and down for having a Shia name and a Shia father who they all knew. Mistake after mistakes, but not my decisions I sure hope it will help me avoid the fire in the afterlife because here I have been shoved headfirst into never ending ordeals worse than a fire.

 

So this is life, and religion. Religion and this life are enemies of each other. Its only real benefit is in the afterlife. And for that you have to live a hellish life. Perhaps this is why Jesus said that it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter heaven. There is indeed something to that effect in reality. God chooses afterlife for a believer, and this life for everyone else so they have no share or claim over there. The hadith of Sulaym ibn Qays is 100% real. Since the dawn of man, the evil tyrants, those who are munafiq and sinful are granted rule over the believers who accept a messenger's message happily, and these evil ones oppress and murder the good people through which God purifies these believers and gives them an afterlife.

 

But seriously, if I could choose again I would disobey my parents every time and ask for forgiveness later. :D Except for a chance to please God and salvage my afterlife there is no use of marriage. It does not complete my deen rather it has only crippled it and my plans. I'm still open to sins I thought would be taken care of afterwards. One wife is not enough. Two are suicide. And masturbation is too damned ugly and retarded an act for a people with no self esteem or dignity.

 

Someone hand me a handkerchief.

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Here in the USA, mutah is a big no no, forget sunni influence, its has become a big social no no if a brother is found to have engaged in a mutah relationship.  Its frowned upon in the shia muslim community...Dont they understand they are only insulting the prophet and the religion of Allah?

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The youth of today are a Disaster! compared to back in the 19th/18th Century, Where Such virtual Adultery did not exist, where the youth use to spend more time outside with sports or In Libraries reading and not at home under the blanket Destroying ones self.

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http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/pro-tips

On 8/9/2013 at 3:43 AM, Just Saying said:

(salam)
 
*As a disclaimer, I would humbly request that sisters not comment on this thread. It is kindly appreciated.
 
As we know, Internet Porn has became a menace in the lives of many brothers who are struggling with this highly self-destructive addiction. As we all know masturbation is haram, but it seems the reason why it has become such a huge problem today (not only in our community but all over the world) is due to the availability of Internet Pornography.
 
I highly recommend you watch this video:
 
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Some of the symptoms porn addicts experience:

  • copulatory impotence (can get it up for porn, but not partners)
  • growing erectile dysfunction, even with extreme porn.
  • frequent masturbation, little satisfaction ("feeling like a lust-ball all day")
  • morphing porn tastes that don't match sexual orientation (HOCD)
  • severe, worsening social anxiety
  • fatigue, irritability
  • lack of motivation, depression, anxiety,
  • inability to concentrate, brain fog
  • distress about escalation to more extreme porn

As you can see more and more is coming out about how destructive this disease has become among young men.
I highly recommend the site of the person in the video above who not only helps people understand the science behind this addiction but also gives incredible tips and advice on how to stop it: http://yourbrainonporn.com
Some of the things you can start immediately (as said in the video): 
 
1. Quit. And I mean QUIT as in Cold Turkey QUIT. Meaning don't touch yourself, don't watch porn, nothing! If you are having trouble doing this, fast for a few days. Often while you fast you know you can't simply masturbate as this would break it. It's a wonderful tool to keep you discipline. After opening your fast occupy yourself. Do not touch your computer unless you need to for school or work (only if you MUST, otherwise stay away).
 
2. Socialize with other people. I would recommend people who are a positive influence in your life and are observant muslims as well (since they won't be speaking of sex as much). If you are a loner go make friends even if you are nervous about it, Alhamdullilah it's not gay for Muslim men to exchange numbers and hang out! Get a few guys you may know from your masjid do activities together.
 
3. Exercise. Doesn't mean you have to do bodybuilding. It could be as simple as going out for jogs or talking walks everyday. What this does is helps you get a positive release of dopamine. It makes you feel good but with good consequences instead of bad. 
 
4. Meditation. Now my guess is he is talking about meditation where you sit down, empty your mind and do breathing exercises with your eyes closed. This has been said to do wonders for many people and helps you clear your mind, stay focused and disciplined.
 
5. Stay away from the computer (when you don't need it for work or school). Lets face it, in this day in age the Internet is everywhere. So is access to the DIRT we are trying to stay away from. If you don't need to use your computer DO NOT USE IT. Stay away from Facebook, Twitter or whatever the hell is popular nowadays. Those tools aren't good either because they can become bad addictions as well. And we all have seen the pictures some of the girls put on (ladies, yes men are clicking on you so be careful of the type of pictures you post up or give access to). Interact with people in REAL LIFE. DELETE Facebook. If you have it because you need to stay in touch from time to time then do so but only rarely. And by rarely I mean maybe once or twice a month for maybe 10 minutes at a time. Only use it while at work or school. If you have homework do it in front of your family/friends. DO NOT take your computer into privacy of your bedroom. Also remember the sites you visit can probably be seen by "others". The Internet is not a private place anymore so remember there are people who PROBABLY can find out what sites you're visiting. You don't want to give Agent Smith a reason to blackmail you because you clicked on "Midget MILF's in Space" that one time (no don't Google that dummy).
 
If you are addicted, it will take time. You WILL go through withdrawal symptoms just like a crack addict. It may very well take a few months. DO NOT QUIT. You will be normal again! The younger you are the longer it might take, but the rewards are even greater due to your much raging hormones. Zeus will tremble before your might.
 
Your mind craves the dopamine release from Porn and Masturbation, it has become a spoiled child. Don't give it what it want's because like a spoiled child it will make you do things for it till you go broke. 
 
While the above site mostly speak about Porn addiction, remember masturbation goes hand in hand (no pun intended) with it. Even if you are sober for a few months the urge to release will come from time to time. STAY AWAY. Not only is masturbation haram, it will make you relapse because now the brain will seek more of that dopamine it used to get from porn. Your brain will play mind games with you because it is a jerk. It will try to trick you into watching porn again, it's like the really bad friend you once (still?) had who thought running in front of cars at night is fun.
  
Yes, I also understand men NEED release. And Alhamdullilah nature has a way of doing this. It's called nocturnal emissions. Some of you might experience this once in a while, others might get it every other day. Sometimes this may feel embarrassing if you don't have as much privacy on the way from the bed to the bathroom. Worried others might see it and wonder? Screw them. Be a G. Show the world what a manly man you are. Your parents will be proud they made such stud.
 
And last but not least, inshAllah by the end you will be a testosterone-fueled chest beating caveman. You'll be more confident and eager to speak to the opposite sex because your body now knows what it wanted all this time. You'll be doing stuff away from your computer, actually doing things that matter. Maybe you'll write that epic novel. Maybe you'll be a hulking natural bodybuilder/MMA badass. Maybe you'll be so productive you actually discover the cure for cancer/AIDS/Richard Simmons. Whatever your interests are, you will be a much more productive and happy individual.

 

425.the.incredible.hulk.033108.jpg

The Hulk was a scrawny addict who stayed in his mom's basement until he stopped.

 

Now quit and make God, yourself and dozens of beautiful supermodel mutah-wives proud (or marry a good religious girl you really like). InshAllah may Allah help rid our community and the dunya of habits that destroy us as individuals.

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/pro-tips

more tips for people to recover the super model mutah wives was hilarious!! XD

These are recovery forums for people who want support from other people recovering from this addiction.

http://nofap.com/

http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/forum/

http://www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?wwwRedirect

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9 hours ago, Al Hadi said:

the super model mutah wives

But isn't that also simply a better form of masturbation involving release of dopamine and addiction? Just a thought.

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I was rather referring to the soulless one night mutah stand (or one week or whatever) based on beauty and not love or emotions or spiritual connection. They must feel the same as masturbation.

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15 hours ago, Darth Vader said:

I was rather referring to the soulless one night mutah stand (or one week or whatever) based on beauty and not love or emotions or spiritual connection. They must feel the same as masturbation.

I can assure you that mutuh is much better lol when you act the way Allah swt intended you act it is always much more satisfying both physically and mentally.

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On 11/28/2016 at 6:16 PM, Darth Vader said:

I was rather referring to the soulless one night mutah stand (or one week or whatever) based on beauty and not love or emotions or spiritual connection. They must feel the same as masturbation.

Porn is the big problem not masterbation necessarily.

still one should avoid masterbation cause it's haram and isn't needed ignore all the hype about it it's all false. But if someone does it it's not as harmful as a porn addiction. If you read my above post carefully you will see why. Plus it's not as satisfying as sex. masterbation to orgasm only releases 1/4 the proclatin of sexual orgasm which means your 1/4 less satisfied with the sexual release then with a partner. 

The big problem though is Porn and masterbation is like the cherry on top almost. 

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