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Just Saying

About High-Speed Internet Porn Addiction

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I never wanted to get married. I was forced by my mother and siblings into it. They scared me with so many things. I knew better. I always knew better. I wanted to avoid sin but instead ended up in a mental hell with a mental wife and her mental family with throngs of hellspawn unnatural responsibilities. I was already swimming in a world of problematic and selfish relatives. Relatives, you don't get to choose them. And my mother always made the worst possible decisions and forced them onto me. And then our religion tells us to obey the parents. What could I do? My father chose my field of studies, civil engineering, something as innovative as agriculture -- dead. My mother decided that I should study close to her, where I got introduced to nasibiism by the most esteemed professors in the most esteemed engineering university of Pakistan, as I got mistreated with neglect and kept back and down for having a Shia name and a Shia father who they all knew. Mistake after mistakes, but not my decisions I sure hope it will help me avoid the fire in the afterlife because here I have been shoved headfirst into never ending ordeals worse than a fire.

 

So this is life, and religion. Religion and this life are enemies of each other. Its only real benefit is in the afterlife. And for that you have to live a hellish life. Perhaps this is why Jesus said that it is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter heaven. There is indeed something to that effect in reality. God chooses afterlife for a believer, and this life for everyone else so they have no share or claim over there. The hadith of Sulaym ibn Qays is 100% real. Since the dawn of man, the evil tyrants, those who are munafiq and sinful are granted rule over the believers who accept a messenger's message happily, and these evil ones oppress and murder the good people through which God purifies these believers and gives them an afterlife.

 

But seriously, if I could choose again I would disobey my parents every time and ask for forgiveness later. :D Except for a chance to please God and salvage my afterlife there is no use of marriage. It does not complete my deen rather it has only crippled it and my plans. I'm still open to sins I thought would be taken care of afterwards. One wife is not enough. Two are suicide. And masturbation is too damned ugly and retarded an act for a people with no self esteem or dignity.

 

Someone hand me a handkerchief.

Edited by Darth Vader

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Here in the USA, mutah is a big no no, forget sunni influence, its has become a big social no no if a brother is found to have engaged in a mutah relationship.  Its frowned upon in the shia muslim community...Dont they understand they are only insulting the prophet and the religion of Allah?

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The youth of today are a Disaster! compared to back in the 19th/18th Century, Where Such virtual Adultery did not exist, where the youth use to spend more time outside with sports or In Libraries reading and not at home under the blanket Destroying ones self.

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http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/pro-tips

On 8/9/2013 at 3:43 AM, Just Saying said:

(salam)
 
*As a disclaimer, I would humbly request that sisters not comment on this thread. It is kindly appreciated.
 
As we know, Internet Porn has became a menace in the lives of many brothers who are struggling with this highly self-destructive addiction. As we all know masturbation is haram, but it seems the reason why it has become such a huge problem today (not only in our community but all over the world) is due to the availability of Internet Pornography.
 
I highly recommend you watch this video:
 
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Some of the symptoms porn addicts experience:

  • copulatory impotence (can get it up for porn, but not partners)
  • growing erectile dysfunction, even with extreme porn.
  • frequent masturbation, little satisfaction ("feeling like a lust-ball all day")
  • morphing porn tastes that don't match sexual orientation (HOCD)
  • severe, worsening social anxiety
  • fatigue, irritability
  • lack of motivation, depression, anxiety,
  • inability to concentrate, brain fog
  • distress about escalation to more extreme porn

As you can see more and more is coming out about how destructive this disease has become among young men.
I highly recommend the site of the person in the video above who not only helps people understand the science behind this addiction but also gives incredible tips and advice on how to stop it: http://yourbrainonporn.com
Some of the things you can start immediately (as said in the video): 
 
1. Quit. And I mean QUIT as in Cold Turkey QUIT. Meaning don't touch yourself, don't watch porn, nothing! If you are having trouble doing this, fast for a few days. Often while you fast you know you can't simply masturbate as this would break it. It's a wonderful tool to keep you discipline. After opening your fast occupy yourself. Do not touch your computer unless you need to for school or work (only if you MUST, otherwise stay away).
 
2. Socialize with other people. I would recommend people who are a positive influence in your life and are observant muslims as well (since they won't be speaking of sex as much). If you are a loner go make friends even if you are nervous about it, Alhamdullilah it's not gay for Muslim men to exchange numbers and hang out! Get a few guys you may know from your masjid do activities together.
 
3. Exercise. Doesn't mean you have to do bodybuilding. It could be as simple as going out for jogs or talking walks everyday. What this does is helps you get a positive release of dopamine. It makes you feel good but with good consequences instead of bad. 
 
4. Meditation. Now my guess is he is talking about meditation where you sit down, empty your mind and do breathing exercises with your eyes closed. This has been said to do wonders for many people and helps you clear your mind, stay focused and disciplined.
 
5. Stay away from the computer (when you don't need it for work or school). Lets face it, in this day in age the Internet is everywhere. So is access to the DIRT we are trying to stay away from. If you don't need to use your computer DO NOT USE IT. Stay away from Facebook, Twitter or whatever the hell is popular nowadays. Those tools aren't good either because they can become bad addictions as well. And we all have seen the pictures some of the girls put on (ladies, yes men are clicking on you so be careful of the type of pictures you post up or give access to). Interact with people in REAL LIFE. DELETE Facebook. If you have it because you need to stay in touch from time to time then do so but only rarely. And by rarely I mean maybe once or twice a month for maybe 10 minutes at a time. Only use it while at work or school. If you have homework do it in front of your family/friends. DO NOT take your computer into privacy of your bedroom. Also remember the sites you visit can probably be seen by "others". The Internet is not a private place anymore so remember there are people who PROBABLY can find out what sites you're visiting. You don't want to give Agent Smith a reason to blackmail you because you clicked on "Midget MILF's in Space" that one time (no don't Google that dummy).
 
If you are addicted, it will take time. You WILL go through withdrawal symptoms just like a crack addict. It may very well take a few months. DO NOT QUIT. You will be normal again! The younger you are the longer it might take, but the rewards are even greater due to your much raging hormones. Zeus will tremble before your might.
 
Your mind craves the dopamine release from Porn and Masturbation, it has become a spoiled child. Don't give it what it want's because like a spoiled child it will make you do things for it till you go broke. 
 
While the above site mostly speak about Porn addiction, remember masturbation goes hand in hand (no pun intended) with it. Even if you are sober for a few months the urge to release will come from time to time. STAY AWAY. Not only is masturbation haram, it will make you relapse because now the brain will seek more of that dopamine it used to get from porn. Your brain will play mind games with you because it is a jerk. It will try to trick you into watching porn again, it's like the really bad friend you once (still?) had who thought running in front of cars at night is fun.
  
Yes, I also understand men NEED release. And Alhamdullilah nature has a way of doing this. It's called nocturnal emissions. Some of you might experience this once in a while, others might get it every other day. Sometimes this may feel embarrassing if you don't have as much privacy on the way from the bed to the bathroom. Worried others might see it and wonder? Screw them. Be a G. Show the world what a manly man you are. Your parents will be proud they made such stud.
 
And last but not least, inshAllah by the end you will be a testosterone-fueled chest beating caveman. You'll be more confident and eager to speak to the opposite sex because your body now knows what it wanted all this time. You'll be doing stuff away from your computer, actually doing things that matter. Maybe you'll write that epic novel. Maybe you'll be a hulking natural bodybuilder/MMA badass. Maybe you'll be so productive you actually discover the cure for cancer/AIDS/Richard Simmons. Whatever your interests are, you will be a much more productive and happy individual.

 

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The Hulk was a scrawny addict who stayed in his mom's basement until he stopped.

 

Now quit and make God, yourself and dozens of beautiful supermodel mutah-wives proud (or marry a good religious girl you really like). InshAllah may Allah help rid our community and the dunya of habits that destroy us as individuals.

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/pro-tips

more tips for people to recover the super model mutah wives was hilarious!! XD

These are recovery forums for people who want support from other people recovering from this addiction.

http://nofap.com/

http://www.yourbrainrebalanced.com/forum/

http://www.rebootnation.org/forum/index.php?wwwRedirect

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15 hours ago, Darth Vader said:

I was rather referring to the soulless one night mutah stand (or one week or whatever) based on beauty and not love or emotions or spiritual connection. They must feel the same as masturbation.

I can assure you that mutuh is much better lol when you act the way Allah swt intended you act it is always much more satisfying both physically and mentally.

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On 11/28/2016 at 6:16 PM, Darth Vader said:

I was rather referring to the soulless one night mutah stand (or one week or whatever) based on beauty and not love or emotions or spiritual connection. They must feel the same as masturbation.

Porn is the big problem not masterbation necessarily.

still one should avoid masterbation cause it's haram and isn't needed ignore all the hype about it it's all false. But if someone does it it's not as harmful as a porn addiction. If you read my above post carefully you will see why. Plus it's not as satisfying as sex. masterbation to orgasm only releases 1/4 the proclatin of sexual orgasm which means your 1/4 less satisfied with the sexual release then with a partner. 

The big problem though is Porn and masterbation is like the cherry on top almost. 

Edited by Al Hadi

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