Question About Janabat, Restrictions And Fasting.

[Likeaflower]

Okay what if I get into a state of Janabat and want to go do ghusl but my father has forbidden me to shower in the night and tells me to do it in the morning but by then Fajr will have passed and fasting time will have begun. What do I do in a situation like this?

[Zaynab McCabe]

Is your father Muslim? If so does he know to why you need a shower?

[Likeaflower]

Yes he is, but no he doesn't know.

[Zaynab McCabe]

Maybe you should tell him so that he will understand inshaAllah

[*Sayyeda*]

(salam)

^ That sounds like an awkward conversation.  

OP, why don't you address why you aren't allowed to shower at nights in the first place and try and convince him otherwise.  Or as suggested,  talk to your father.  If neither of them are viable options, do not let yourself to get into a state of Janabat as your fasting and fajr prayers are obligatory.

[Ibn al-Hussain]

(salam)

If wasting water or making a lot of noise is an issue, don't use the shower head. Try to use just a jug of water or two; it is possible to do ghusl with that amount and you will save a lot of water as well. Otherwise, I'm not sure what difference it makes to shower at night versus just a few hours later (in most countries the difference between "night" and "Fajr" isn't that long now a days).

 

Wassalam

[Jamal Al Hasan]

Tell your mother. She will tell your father. and yes, take a bath.

[ImAli]

 What do I do in a situation like this?

 

Just go take a shower, when you get out tell him you had to wash the blood off for fajr (don't tell him janabat)...............say it in a dead monotone voice as you are walking away and ignore his screaming or fit pitching that he might do......then give him the silent treatment.

Edited July 28, 2013 by ImAli

[lalala123]

I'm confused. Is the OP married and that is how she is getting into a state of janabat?  If so, and the dad is muslim, then surely he should understand the situation.  And if OP isn't married, how is she getting into janabat? 

 

Is OP a man or woman?

 

What is going on?

[Fatima NMA]

^^^^^^^ salam

it's the sister's forum so yes the op is a girl,and she might have got into janabat in a dream??(if not married)

 

peace...

[Zaynab McCabe]

Okay what if I get into a state of Janabat and want to go do ghusl but my father has forbidden me to shower in the night and tells me to do it in the morning but by then Fajr will have passed and fasting time will have begun. What do I do in a situation like this?

Sistani answeres:To: eanswers@najaf.orgSubject:  if I get into a state of Janabat and want to go do ghusl but my father hasforbidden me to shower in the night and tells me to do it in the morning butby then Fajr will have passed and fasting time will have begun. What do I doin a situation like this?In the Name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful Tayammum is required in stead of ghul then you can do your ghusl later on  Wassalamu Alaykum    

[Your-Best-Friend]

BTW, the OP seems to be man, not woman.