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Muhammad Ibrahim

How Bad Is Oral Sex?

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I've heard many different views on this and wanted to get a straight answer to these questions:

- If you receive oral sex but do not have vaginal or anal sex, are you still a virgin?

- Is it permissible for a married couple to perform oral sex?

- Is oral sex performed on the anus worse/prohibited?

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I've heard many different views on this and wanted to get a straight answer to these questions:

- If you receive oral sex but do not have vaginal or anal sex, are you still a virgin?

- Is it permissible for a married couple to perform oral sex?

- Is oral sex performed on the anus worse/prohibited?

1. Techically, yes.

2. Yes, but it's not permissible for the woman to swallow the semen.

3. Not worse, not haram either, but very disgusting.

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I've heard many different views on this and wanted to get a straight answer to these questions:

- If you receive oral sex but do not have vaginal or anal sex, are you still a virgin?

- Is it permissible for a married couple to perform oral sex?

- Is oral sex performed on the anus worse/prohibited?

I'm no marja but I highly recommend probably staying away from that 3rd one. Assuming this hypothetical couple does it without any form of protection, you're screaming for some kind of throat or oral disease and the disease vice-versa can affect that the anus.

I was told in some sex education class that they use have a device called the "dental dam" for that 3rd option. I guess this would be the only excuse to make it permissible.

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does Islam not teaching about "disgusting"?

It doesn't. I guess this is to appease the needs of a variety of people with different tastes.

I guess what's attractive for some couples is disgusting for some and vice-versa.

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It doesn't. I guess this is to appease the needs of a variety of people with different tastes.

I guess what's attractive for some couples is disgusting for some and vice-versa.

it doesn't .=====> i dont believe this.

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does Islam not teaching about "disgusting"?

In Islam there are some things which are known as makrooh which I think means undesirable/detested

So there are certain acts which may be permissible, but undesirable/detested to do, here as an example from a fatwa of Ayatullah Sistani

2609. In certain Traditions, the following have been enumerated as Makrooh acts while slaughtering the animals:

(i) To slaughter an animal at a place where another animal of its own kind can see it.

(ii) To skin an animal before it has died.

(iii) To slaughter an animal on Friday night (i.e. the night preceding Friday), or on Friday before Zuhr. However, there is no harm in doing so in the case of necessity.

(iv) To slaughter an animal which someone has bred and reared himself.

Edited by Shia_Debater

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:sick: we call name of God with our mouth we pray and say holly words through it, I can't imagine how people do such a thing with their mouth. we need to respect our body.

I think these guys who ask for such a thing, just want to repeat porn movies which they have watched.

Edited by Parto

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I'm no marja but I highly recommend probably staying away from that 3rd one. Assuming this hypothetical couple does it without any form of protection, you're screaming for some kind of throat or oral disease and the disease vice-versa can affect that the anus.

I was told in some sex education class that they use have a device called the "dental dam" for that 3rd option. I guess this would be the only excuse to make it permissible.

lol I don't do that, I just wanted to know for educational reasons.

:sick: we call name of God with our mouth we pray and say holly words through it, I can't imagine how people do such a thing with their mouth. we need to respect our body.

I think these guys who ask for such a thing, just want to repeat porn movies which they have watched.

We also touch the Quran with our hands, touch the blessed shrines of our Imams with our hands, etc, so by your logic you should also not use our hands to sexually touch your wife/husband.

Edited by Muhammad Ibrahim

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We also touch the Quran with our hands, touch the blessed shrines of our Imams with our hands, etc, so by your logic you should also not use our hands to sexually touch your wife/husband.

wrong!

we don't do any Makrooh thing with our hands when we use it to sexually touch.

but oral sex is Makrooh. so many scholars have said that, you can check. and there is a reason behind it that I think it is not good place to talk abt that reason, you search it and you will understand.

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wrong!

we don't do any Makrooh thing with our hands when we use it to sexually touch.

but oral sex is Makrooh. so many scholars have said that, you can check. and there is a reason behind it that I think it is not good place to talk abt that reason, you search it and you will understand.

Oral sex is not makrooh. It's permissible as long as no liquid is swallowed.

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:sick: we call name of God with our mouth we pray and say holly words through it, I can't imagine how people do such a thing with their mouth. we need to respect our body.

I think these guys who ask for such a thing, just want to repeat porn movies which they have watched.

We also lie with our mouths and insult ourselves and others. Lots of disgusting and beautiful things with mouths.

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Oral sex is not makrooh. It's permissible as long as no liquid is swallowed.

well, no one can make sure that no liquid is swallowed or not that is why if it happens it is haram to swallow najir liquid.

Exactly, I don't know what Parto is smokin'.

don't get upset , you do what you like to do, I didn't say any Fatwa...

We also lie with our mouths and insult ourselves and others. Lots of disgusting and beautiful things with mouths.

if you lie with your mouth then you shouldn't do it because it is a sin.

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Something i just had to add about the 3.question:

Its more likely that u will get serious disease going on. E.coli bacteria is normally found in our lower intestine. Transmission orally will cause the diseases. Furthermore, not every type of this bacteria will cause it, but not recommended to take a chance.

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Makru does not mean forbidden. Permissible but not liked. You are making confusion.

You think I did not know this? Why don't you just look up the fatwa of your marja.

Sistani's site is down, but you can find his fatwa here

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don't get upset , you do what you like to do, I didn't say any Fatwa...

I'm not upset, nor do I practice that, what you're saying just doesn't make any sense.

these are some messed up questions especially number 3. A healthy mind cannot even think about something like this. Last i know dogs are known to smell each others anus, but what you asked is below animal stuff.

That's actually the exact reason I asked, because a dog's tongue is najis for licking its own ass, so why wouldn't it be the same for a human? You need to calm down though, seems as though you believe I asked to know if what I do is haraam, I just asked to learn. I also made a thread asking whether tattoos are haraam at the exact same time, but I do not plan on getting a tattoo.

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I also made a thread asking whether tattoos are haraam at the exact same time, but I do not plan on getting a tattoo.

There is nothing wrong with getting a tattoo. I got one (a fake one) on my arm of Zulfiqar. But what u asked is something unimaginable and that was a shock for me. I mean thats just ... just wrong. Humans dont do this stuff.

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There is nothing wrong with getting a tattoo. I got one (a fake one) on my arm of Zulfiqar. But what u asked is something unimaginable and that was a shock for me. I mean thats just ... just wrong. Humans dont do this stuff.

I mean, it's up to people what they want to do, what they're comfortable with. The third thing on the list does admittedly sound kind of gross, and I have no experience with such on either side of the coin, but from what I understand, if it's in the context of two committed disease free partners, and so long as the area is recently cleaned (like, fresh out of the shower), there isn't a health issue, and reportedly it is rather pleasant for the recipient. I'm not advocating, by any means, but just setting the facts straight.

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But what u asked is something unimaginable and that was a shock for me. I mean thats just ... just wrong. Humans dont do this stuff.

One day when you are a young man somebody will explain for you. It is part of life.

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On 8/26/2012 at 4:09 PM, Gypsy said:

Where do you get this info? Do you know for sure or are you just guessing?

I am not guessing, there are so many sources abt what i said

by the way, check in health websites abt infection and virus which is spread by oral sex and some of them even cause throat cancer.

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for this subject all i have to say is that lust with your wife CAN lead you to do some of the most weirdest and nastiest things that others might find hard to comprehend like some of those mention on this thread.

Edited by Jihadi

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On 8/27/2012 at 7:27 AM, Parto said:

I am not guessing, there are so many sources abt what i said

by the way, check in health websites abt infection and virus which is spread by oral sex and some of them even cause throat cancer.

For one, these cancers are very rare as it is, and the statistical effect on a woman who performs fellatio is to increase a risk from like 1 in a million to 2 in a million. Second, the risk is related to particular viruses. It's only if he has the virus. Third, for both this minor health concern and for the paranoia about accidentally swallowing fluid, there is a very simple solution to that known the world over - when it gets to the end, don't spill the fluid in the mouth.

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On 8/27/2012 at 7:27 AM, Parto said:

I am not guessing, there are so many sources abt what i said

by the way, check in health websites abt infection and virus which is spread by oral sex and some of them even cause throat cancer.

Where are those stats?

BTW, do you understand that the original poster might be asking about oral sex in the context of a marriage, where both partners are free from STDS and all those nasty diseases because they are completely faithful to each other.

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I think its better to put together ahadees related to this subject and let individuals look for themselves. And one person can volunteer replying boys and another for girls. Although what u guys are discussing is part of sharia but there should be hijaab between sexes in some issues.

Apply reason but in the limits of public decency.

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