Hijab Fetish :)

[Waiting for HIM]

Salam, the topic is little racy.

But really brothers, do you have this Hijab facination that you would never marry a girl who is non hijabi and whenever you see a girl in hijab, you feel naturally attracted to her even thou she may be not so extraordinarily beautiful etc.

Sisters do you do hijab just so you look attractive go momin men?

[titumir]

Look, since men naturally feel attracted to women, and since MOST women in Islamic societies wear hijab, it is only natural that men in Islamic societies will associate "hijab" with "attraction". And thus feel hijab as being, forgive me for using this word, "sexy".

[Gypsy]

Sisters do you do hijab just so you look attractive go momin men?

Your question is not very appropriate because it trivialize Islamic obligation.

And the title is bad.

[Mo.]

Haha, in that case dont' wear hijab because now its officially making women more attractive.

[DayStrike312]

Your question is not very appropriate because it trivialize Islamic obligation.

And the title is bad.

Salams Zareen!

Change the title then!

Oh wait, you bailed. :cry:

You were the second best Admin man!!!

[Waiting for HIM]

Sister Zareen, I've known some girls who did hijab precisely to look attractive for marriage proposals. The place where I live, it is a trend among young ladies to do hijab and some of them admitting it that they are doing hijab because most of young guys are looking to marry only the hijab girls.

So I guess my comment is anti thesis of hijab but in reality some girls do it for precisely to increase their chances of marriage proposals.

[Mo.]

Anti thesis?

Was the whole point of the hijab to reduce a woman's chances of getting married? :lol:

[Waiting for HIM]

Now as far as my "bad topic", I have known men visiting ME for business making comments how se-- Moslem women looked in their silky expensive looking hijab.

A friend of mine who travelled with me to UAE, I had to quit going out with him becuase he was such a big oggler of abaya girls that I was concerned of my impression with ppl.

Again sorry about the Title, if you feel it inappropriate, please do change it. I also do not want to make it so people get wrong impressionn and sisters feel it demeaning.

Edited September 9, 2011 by Waiting for HIM

[Mo.]

"Concerned for my safety" ???

Lol , arent you a naughty one.. I can conclude you're

Now all the forum knows. :P

[Waiting for HIM]

"Concerned for my safety" ???

Lol , arent you a naughty one.. I can conclude you're

Now all the forum knows. :P

Your comments did not make sense. Could you elaborate?.?

[Mo.]

Come on man

Concerned for your safety? Oh I see, you edited your post. :lol:

Nobody makes a fetish topic unless he has one. ;)

[Waiting for HIM]

Not that all we discuss that we belive in it. For example I have posts after posts defending muta but have not done yet. I ardently follow all furu of deen but have not done smaller jihad. I think there is nothing wrong in doing zanjeer matam but have never done so and more likely may not ever do it.

Again it is juvinile to think that whatever some one discusses, one also has a soft corner for it.

But yes, I'm for one attracted to hijab girls and hijab is one of the requirements for me....

Edited September 9, 2011 by Waiting for HIM

[Çåá ÇáÈíÊ]

lol this topic is funny.

Honestly, i think that psychologically you may be attracted to Hijabi girls but it's actually the facial features which probably attract you the most. No one is attracted to someone ugly, just because she has a material covering her head. The thing is, you look at things through a purely islamic lense, so you feel and think that Hijabi girls are, in a sense, better than non-hijabi girls so when this bias develops, you naturally get inclined to having a thing for Hijabis.

I don't judge women by how well they wear their hijab. Whether they wear it or not, it personally doesn't make a difference to me since it really isn't a criteria for judgement. There are alot of wonderful ladies who don't wear the scarf. Of course, i'm not against Hijab. Just don't see it as the 'only' means to attaining chastity and modesty.

[El Cid]

Well, I would never marry a hijabi. I also read from somewhere that Women don't neccesarily(sp) have to cover themselves up, it's a choice??

[Mustafa]

Guys.

There are two types of things ... purity/beauty.

1. Physical (visible)

2. Emotional (unvisible)

I myself have some sense of attraction to hijab girls which does not mean that I don't get turned on when I see a great looking babe. I get turned on, but my respect for her is not big and I would not want a child with her since I can predict the future with that woman.

PEACE

[Mustafa]

EditAdd: I talked to my father and he said that; "but it is important to not base the affinity between us only on 'hijab', and it is not nice if a girl unveiled her hijab for me and I find out that she has a scar/burn or something ugly. Then our affinity would be based on 'poor person' instead of 'actually liking'" ...

peace

[El Cid]

Guys.

There are two types of things ... purity/beauty.

1. Physical (visible)

2. Emotional (unvisible)

I myself have some sense of attraction to hijab girls which does not mean that I don't get turned on when I see a great looking babe. I get turned on, but my respect for her is not big and I would not want a child with her since I can predict the future with that woman.

PEACE

and I would not want a child with her since I can predict the future with that woman. ---> I bet women feel the same when they look at you :dry:

[kulsoum]

HIJAB IS A CONCEPT OF MIND...And not just about Covering up.. For both Men and Women.. Wearing Scarves n Caps and watching porn is hypocrisy...

its true none wears the black cloak to avert attention in dis generation., Its either to look religious,(warna log kya kahenge), or to avoid suntan (me for exampl) or too lazy to wash n press different pair of clothes everyday.. :) i have come across many hijabs soo jazzy n glittering they definitely turn heads!

Ask those women in so called designer hijabs whose feet criss cross n hips start swaying automatically getting conscious suddenly wen de pass a gang of guys...

Keeping our gaze low, on our path and keeping our thoughts busy in Zikr is the best form of Hijab.. And such people will automatically dress and look modest..

[ImAli]

HIJAB IS A CONCEPT OF MIND...And not just about Covering up.. For both Men and Women.. Wearing Scarves n Caps and watching porn is hypocrisy...

its true none wears the black cloak to avert attention in dis generation., Its either to look religious,(warna log kya kahenge), or to avoid suntan (me for exampl) or too lazy to wash n press different pair of clothes everyday.. :) i have come across many hijabs soo jazzy n glittering they definitely turn heads!

Ask those women in so called designer hijabs whose feet criss cross n hips start swaying automatically getting conscious suddenly wen de pass a gang of guys...

Keeping our gaze low, on our path and keeping our thoughts busy in Zikr is the best form of Hijab.. And such people will automatically dress and look modest..

Wow who said anything about porn..... I guess I didn't read the entire thread LOOL.

[Kamranistan]

I don't think it's a 'fetish', It's perfectly normal in my opinion. When I see hijab it just reminds me of purity man.. How can you not be attracted to that more so than a girl without a hijab.

MashaAllah to those girls who wear Hijab, respectttttt.

[Liggel]

I know a person who is so much dazzled by hijabs and abayas that he asks his wife to wear abaya in front of him. For him, abaya is like the most sexually attractive dress for a woman and he believes his wife looks the prettiest when she covered from head to toe in black stylish abaya. It is something which turns him on much more than anything else. He lowers his gaze but says that he finds it much more harder to be in countries where women were abayas and hijabs than in the west where many women are scantily dressed. Strangely, his wife does not wear abaya when she goes out, but she wears it at home in front of him, whenever he says. So, I think hijab can be a fetish for some men!

Edited September 9, 2011 by Liggel

[Waiting for HIM]

HIJAB IS A CONCEPT OF MIND...And not just about Covering up.. For both Men and Women.. Wearing Scarves n Caps and watching porn is hypocrisy...

its true none wears the black cloak to avert attention in dis generation., Its either to look religious,(warna log kya kahenge), or to avoid suntan (me for exampl) or too lazy to wash n press different pair of clothes everyday.. :) i have come across many hijabs soo jazzy n glittering they definitely turn heads!

Ask those women in so called designer hijabs whose feet criss cross n hips start swaying automatically getting conscious suddenly wen de pass a gang of guys...

Keeping our gaze low, on our path and keeping our thoughts busy in Zikr is the best form of Hijab.. And such people will automatically dress and look modest..

I used to think girls do not like porn. Oh well, it seems some do based on your observation. Anyways, my post was about this hijab fascination since I know hordes and hordes of Shia men who would love to get married with a hijabi girl. And no matter how great a non hijabi girl is, they would not look at her with the intent of marriage.

[Ya Aba 3abdillah]

If females dressed in hijab really aroused lust in men, they would have put covered up females in those dirty magazines. However it's pretty obvious that such magazines wouldn't sell like the nude magazines do. So whoever thinks that it's possible to equate hijab to non-hijab, think again. Hijab will always put up that barrier against lust.

[Waiting for HIM]

I know a person who is so much dazzled by hijabs and abayas that he asks his wife to wear abaya in front of him. For him, abaya is like the most sexually attractive dress for a woman and he believes his wife looks the prettiest when she covered from head to toe in black stylish abaya. He finds it much more harder to be in countries where women were abayas and hijabs than in the west where many women are scantily dressed. So, I think hijab can be a fetish for some men!

Salam, I know some men <from other forums> who would like their wives to wear abaya in bed... <you know what I mean> Anyways, this was not my intention to start this thread to revolve around sexual fantasies. Its more that men DO like women in hijab and some women DO hijab for other reasons that just the modesty.

I like sister Kulsum's recommendations of zikr and modesty.

[ImAli]

Come on man

Concerned for your safety? Oh I see, you edited your post. :lol:

Nobody makes a fetish topic unless he has one. ;)

Oh common give the guy a break....he has a fetish for modest women....at least he doesn't have weird animal fetishes or something.

[Waiting for HIM]

Oh common give the guy a break....he has a fetish for modest women....at least he doesn't have weird animal fetishes or something.

Didn't know some sickos have animal fetish. But thank you for your support.

I would not call it Hijab Fetish, as much. I have more of an appreciation for hijab women. Most of all because they are brave enough in a society which emphasizes so much on women's exploitation based on her bare skin. It's just a plain simple respect sort of every human has for those who stand for their principals not matter what the consequences are.

[Marbles]

Salam, the topic is little racy.

But really brothers, do you have this Hijab facination that you would never marry a girl who is non hijabi and whenever you see a girl in hijab, you feel naturally attracted to her even thou she may be not so extraordinarily beautiful etc.

I am not fascinated at all, and headscarf or the lack of it isn't high on my checklist.

I have nothing against it, however. And I also think it is prudent to wear headscarf or like in some situations and surroundings.

I know some men extend their religiosity even into their romantic (or sexual) expressions, which I don't quite relate to. But like with any other romantic expression, it is based on perception rather than on reality.

Edited September 9, 2011 by Marbles

[BabyBeaverIsAKit]

I wear hijab to attract men, and it works so well for me (sarcasm).

[Praetorius]

(salam)

I think the OP got off on the wrong foot, especially after choosing such a ridiculous title. Anyway, I would like to add my two cents.

Just as someone said before me, there are many kinds of Hijab in Islam. There is a lecture on Ammar Nakshawani's website (can't remember which one it was) which talks splendidly about these kinds, including but not limited to the physical and social hijab. To me, those who observe physical hijab easily trump those who don't do so, because I see them as blessed with Allah's everlasting Grace and Mercy. So I prefer to go for someone who wears Hijab, because that is a major sign of humility and modesty in women, at least at first glance.

Edited September 10, 2011 by Legio Invicta

[Waiting for HIM]

I wear hijab to attract men, and it works so well for me (sarcasm).

Being sarcastic is also another way of driving men away :). Are you sure it was not your hijab but may be your wit which made them not so attracted to you.

With the current wave of Islamic following, I can not fathom why hijabi girls woukd have any trouble marrying.

[ireallywannaknow]

Being sarcastic is also another way of driving men away :). Are you sure it was not your hijab but may be your wit which made them not so attracted to you.

With the current wave of Islamic following, I can not fathom why hijabi girls woukd have any trouble marrying.

It's hard when she lives in America and good Shia men, let alone good Shia communities, are few and far between. And the numbers are dwindling.

And sure I wear hijab to please Allah and to hopefully attract a man I'd like to marry one day who appreciates a woman who does what Allah commands her and is modest both physically and socially.

[Waiting for HIM]

Then she better show herself in shia meetings like umaa and muslim congress, attend shia events and summer camps, show up in masajid regularly, get herself registered in shia match, talk to molana of shia centers around, open herself for other shia nationalities, quit worrying about syed- non syed etc. and insAllah she will find one good guy.... ;)

Edited September 10, 2011 by Waiting for HIM

[Praetorius]

It's hard when she lives in America and good Shia men, let alone good Shia communities, are few and far between. And the numbers are dwindling.

And sure I wear hijab to please Allah and to hopefully attract a man I'd like to marry one day who appreciates a woman who does what Allah commands her and is modest both physically and socially.

+100000. A man like me appreciates that more than anything else. A woman who doesn't have any wealth, nor too high an education, but imbued with the best Islamic principles, I'll marry her over other women anytime, any day. Inshallah I hope you find the man who will truly acknowledge you for what you say.

Edited September 10, 2011 by Legio Invicta

[BabyBeaverIsAKit]

Then she better show herself in shia meetings like umaa and muslim congress, attend shia events and summer camps, show up in masajid regularly, get herself registered in shia match, talk to molana of shia centers around, open herself for other shia nationalities, quit worrying about syed- non syed etc. and insAllah she will find one good guy.... ;)

UMAA and MC-- check

Shia events and masjid-- check

Shiamatch-- check

Maulanas-- some of them, check

Open to other nationalities-- check

Don't worry about Syed vs non-Syed-- check (I hate it when people worry about this stuff, I've posted about it on Shiachat here, just searchfor my posts.)

A woman who doesn't have any wealth, nor too high an education, but imbued with the best Islamic principles, I'll marry her over other women anytime, any day. Inshallah I hope you find the man who will truly acknowledge you for what you say.

Dislike. I'm pro-education for both men and women. (This is a topic for another thread, so won't go into this here.)

Being sarcastic is also another way of driving men away :). Are you sure it was not your hijab but may be your wit which made them not so attracted to you.

I'll let this slide because I know this stems from us having been on opposite sides on some threads.

[Praetorius]

Dislike. I'm pro-education for both men and women. (This is a topic for another thread, so won't go into this here.)

How did you get the impression that I'm anti-education? My post was meant to convey that I do not REQUIRE a woman who has a sound background in education, nonetheless if there is a good deal of education there, it is highly appreciated and welcomed with open arms. So yeah, dislike to you too for misunderstanding me...

Edited September 10, 2011 by Legio Invicta