Salams, I will , InshahAllah, try to post some Quran and Hadith that may be helpful to you, as this is what you have requested. As far as your personal, marital life, this is noone's business and for someone to ask about that or comments about that (since this is a public website, unfortunately that is what you are going to get) is inappropriate and shows bad Islamic manners and ethics. If you feel (or if your husband feels) that may be contributing to the situation, please discuss this private