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Thoughts (2010-2016) [ARCHIVE]

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Why do most men act as if they are doing someone a heroic favor whenever they do what is their responsibility anyway?

A male relative was posting on Facebook that he is "babysitting" his own child so his wife can visit her family - and this man is one of the better dads I've known. I would have thought caring for your own child is bare minimum, not a favor to anyone, and certainly not a heroic deed.

Really depends, in my family it is not unusual to see a man watching tv with a child sleeping in his lap regardless even though the mother is around. They bath the kids, change their diapers , comb hair of small girls etc 

But ye gotta see them when they do the BBQ or cook any food for that matter, though they are good in cooking and we never complained lol but yeah they act heroic, something in their genes…most times i find it funny rather than annoying 

 

 

After three days of total loss of appetite , this was my medicine:

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What's up with girls and those hearts & flowers & wigglies on every time they get access to a pen and paper :)

It's all over, I've seen it in school, I've seen it on the birthday cards my sisters send me, I've seen it on the homework notebooks of my nieces and so on.

man I'm going to be honest here. You and a couple other guys on here are a bit fake . you're all like sisters this sisters that brothers should do this men have right to this or that. Then you post flirty little posts like this as tho its ok. Honestly it annoys me a little.

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(salam)

 

*Sayyeda*: I agree with you. When I think back on my college I can think of a few courses that I learned from and a couple good teachers, but most of it was a waste of my time and money.

(wasalam)

Even at the best schools and institutes, you end up teaching yourself.True but whilst time and money may have been wasted, knowledge is never a waste. At least you have learn some new things and nobody can put a value on that. 

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I feel so torn and lost. I'm not going anywhere in life. I'm not achieving the things I aimed to or worked towards. I wish I could relive that last 8 years of my life over again and do things so different and not be such a screw up.

 

This happens with a lot of people. Sometimes man regrets for the past and this regret you feel is good and should move you forward. But this feeling can also make you less motivated, so you should not be pay much attention to time which is already gone by. Do you know why? Because if you work hard enough, you can make up for that time.

 

Here is one narration from Imam Ali (a.s) "do not engage your heart with grief for the past because you will lose readiness for the future", or how about this one from the Prophet (s.a) "completion and continuation of a good deed is better and more important than commencing it"

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This happens with a lot of people. Sometimes man regrets for the past and this regret you feel is good and should move you forward. But this feeling can also make you less motivated, so you should not be pay much attention to time which is already gone by. Do you know why? Because if you work hard enough, you can make up for that time.

 

Here is one narration from Imam Ali (a.s) "do not engage your heart with grief for the past because you will lose readiness for the future", or how about this one from the Prophet (s.a) "completion and continuation of a good deed is better and more important than commencing it"

 

thank you for the reply. I wish i could work hard enough to make up for it. I do not know where I am to begin.

 

Peanut butter and almond butter taste great together.

 

Almond butter tastes awesome in general. Cashew butter too...  I could eat the whole jar no problems

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Today I experienced something which once more reaffirmed my belief and devotion on the importance of Hijab.

 

Only this time it happened differently... :no:

Subhan'Allah, I was going to cross the street to the bus transfer center, the light was at red, all cars were stopped(at least from the moment I started my way to the other side of the street). I continued walking, and it's a tendency of mine to walk with my head lowered, I was nearly approaching the other end and I raised my head. At that moment, from my peripheral vision I see something in motion, as I turn I realize a car is slowly accelerating (light still at RED).. the idiot has his head turned toward the other side, and I am staring at him, to try and catch his attention, to STOP...but his head is fixed in the opposite direction, I follow his gaze and find that he is staring at a girl. I could not believe it, nearly close to hitting me I wave both my hands up in the air frantically, an inch away from my leg he turned and I ran as fast as I could to dodge him.

Scariest moment of my life.. :cry: Alhamdellah for the Hijab of Fatima (as) and for the Hijab of Zainab (as). Really, it saves lives.

 

(salam)

 

Thanks God you are safe sister, Give some sadqa... and always recite Aytal kursi three times before u leave ur house....

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Holy c.rap this is the greatest thing ever.

 

They are Korean btw

 

 

Mhmh, she may say no now, but when it really happens.....yeah... Kids and their minds, you know.

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http://vimeo.com/90996853

 

 

Happy in Karachi  B)

On the Humans of Karachi page some lady was so angered by the fact at no women were in this video (unless you count the little girls) and she was like "ive captured so many working class women's pictures, you're just sexist blahblahblah"

And i was thinking that if some fella ever tried to make a video of me in karachi uski khair nahi hoti lol

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On the Humans of Karachi page some lady was so angered by the fact at no women were in this video (unless you count the little girls) and she was like "ive captured so many working class women's pictures, you're just sexist blahblahblah"

And i was thinking that if some fella ever tried to make a video of me in karachi uski khair nahi hoti lol

 

you can't run around with a video camera trying to film a lady in Pakistan. They(the movie makers) would've been beaten to a pulp if she didn't like it and screamed lol.

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you can't run around with a video camera trying to film a lady in Pakistan. They(the movie makers) would've been beaten to a pulp if she didn't like it and screamed lol.

Too bad for the movie makers.

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