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well the shadi season is up and goin and ive been thinkin lately bout what im lookin fo in my wife

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character

personality

patience

prudence

honesty

loyalty

looks

ive kept looks at the last of my list cuz i knw so many ppl that look very good on the outside but arnt mentally or emotionally attractive on the inside. Sometimes personality can also decieve a person, btw personality comes from the greek word "persona" which means "mask". What really does matter is charcter, which can only be known with the passage of time with respect to an individuals emotional intelligence. Some people in this topic have tried to make it sound very simple to choose a life partner and indeed it is but only for the wise and experienced.

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What is the matter with Lebanese women? One of my best friends in Lebanese and she is a good person...

I'm curious too now. I did hear something said about them once, but I'll keep it under my hat for now.

But I shall definately avoid them, thanks for the heads up.

EDIT; Asphyxiated, Persian women are very beautiful, and have attractive personalities, but you gotta be careful not to let that blind your judgement. Stuffs for life, not just for christmas. They tend to be heavy on superficial rubbish like fashion, they resist hijab and they socialise 24/7.

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^ I figured, Dirac, but sometimes you go on good impressions and what you've seen in your community. Although Muslim Iranians abroad tend to be secular, they're good people. I even knew an Iranian girl who started wearing hijab when she was 18, even though she came from a non-practising family. Besides, I realize that most cultures/societies/families don't like mixing with different nationalities or ethnic groups. It's unlikely that I'd marry an Iranian, or any non-Lebanese, for that matter. Some of us just have really bad luck.

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What I look for (in no particular order):

2. She's a brunette.

3. I'd love to marry a Persian, even though that's highly unlikely.

4. She's boring, like me, and doesn't expect too much excitement in her life (because God knows I can't give it to her).

9. She's quiet.

16. She's mature and doesn't make stupid, unrealistic demands.

well...u like to marry a persian and ur lookin for the above points in ur future wife?? :wacko: :!!!:

i think then,u still dont know wat a PERSIAN WOMAN means..lol :shaytan:

binsa7ak u stick to ur community girls coz mabi7ik jildak illa difrak..hehe :lol:

wassalamu 3alaykum wara7matullahi wabarakatuh.. :Hijabi: :yaali:

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well...u like to marry a persian and ur lookin for the above points in ur future wife?? :wacko: :!!!:

i think then,u still dont know wat a PERSIAN WOMAN means..lol :shaytan:

binsa7ak u stick to ur community girls coz mabi7ik jildak illa difrak..hehe :lol:

wassalamu 3alaykum wara7matullahi wabarakatuh.. :Hijabi: :yaali:

Yeah, I didn't say it was plausible, but perhaps my chances would be better going for a pro-Revolution Iranian. But that's why I said, "I'd love to..." I've had pretty good experiences.

Regardless, I can cope with differences, just as long as she's Muslim and not Lebanese.

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Whats so bad about Lebanese women? I though Arab man liked Lebanese women...

(wasalam)

Bump.

Can someone explain this to us? My understanding for years was that lebanese women are the most prized.

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Picture to illustrate my point. At AUB, I got the sense that this was the general look of the women:

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Granted I saw women who didn't fit the mold... But Beirut by far had the most beautiful women of the world. (Granted, we should want a wife for other reasons)

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Too much time dedicated to Desi Soaps. :P

Yes, many desi women LOVE watching those crazy dramas. where the women fall down 2 steps and die. and there is always a shooting in every movie, and i think every desi movie has to be a love story so all these 11-12 year olds want to walk around with tight clothing and act like romeo and juliet-bollywood style. full mind pollution.

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Sheesh, what is with this hate towards Lebanese women. I'm Lebanese and I'm pretty sure I'm not bad as some you are assuming we are. Thanks for generalizing :dry:

Ignore them, the Lebanese will forever be number one in the books of most people. You can't top the Lebanese culture and people. If I could live in Beirut, I would! (I was there when fighting broke out a few years ago, so I do understand what I'm saying)

post-52464-1238995562_thumb.jpg Ya libnan!!

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You guys are haters.

I love all women, Arab (Lebanese inclusive), Turkish, Persian, Paki, Latino.

Why discriminate? :P

Sheesh, what is with this hate towards Lebanese women. I'm Lebanese and I'm pretty sure I'm not bad as some you are assuming we are. Thanks for generalizing :dry:

You generalised right back!

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Picture to illustrate my point. At AUB, I got the sense that this was the general look of the women:

post-52464-1238967269.jpg

Granted I saw women who didn't fit the mold... But Beirut by far had the most beautiful women of the world. (Granted, we should want a wife for other reasons)

Yeah, you should want a wife for other reasons. Besides, there are attractive women in every part of the world. Lebanese culture is degenerative (in fact, there isn't much culture here). Outside of the Resistance, you're not going to find much. The women here are incredibly vain and out of touch with reality, kind of like the men. You should come live here. Just make sure to drive a really big car and dress like a celebrity. The "beauties" will be all over you.

Nevertheless, I've spent my whole life around Lebanese women of all sorts and take a look at how messed up I turned out.

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Yes, many desi women LOVE watching those crazy dramas. where the women fall down 2 steps and die. and there is always a shooting in every movie, and i think every desi movie has to be a love story so all these 11-12 year olds want to walk around with tight clothing and act like romeo and juliet-bollywood style. full mind pollution.

:lol:

Drama Queens on Tap. We should have a Desi Female thread.

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Picture to illustrate my point. At AUB, I got the sense that this was the general look of the women:

post-52464-1238967269.jpg

Granted I saw women who didn't fit the mold... But Beirut by far had the most beautiful women of the world. (Granted, we should want a wife for other reasons)

???? I dont see what is so special about this woman.....

You are looking at makeup - lots and lots of makeup. With that amount of makeup - she might even be a he...

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???? I dont see what is so special about this woman.....

You are looking at makeup - lots and lots of makeup. With that amount of makeup - she might even be a he...

lollll Maryaam that's an interesting thought. Also, I noticed that her hair isn't covered, which of course, enhances her beauty.

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^ that's the real challenge, any woman can try to enhance her "beauty" by revealing more of which she isn't supposed to reveal. those who wear proper hijab and have natural beauty are the ones that we should be after. too bad almost 98.5% of women want attention from the wrong places...and then you have the 98.5% of men who go searching for those same women which makes it a crazy mixture. hence, the guys here on shiachat posting these women w/out hijab and showing many times what their hearts are inclined toward.

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^ that's the real challenge, any woman can try to enhance her "beauty" by revealing more of which she isn't supposed to reveal. those who wear proper hijab and have natural beauty are the ones that we should be after. too bad almost 98.5% of women want attention from the wrong places...and then you have the 98.5% of men who go searching for those same women which makes it a crazy mixture. hence, the guys here on shiachat posting these women w/out hijab and showing many times what their hearts are inclined toward.

Not necessarily, at the end of the day, once you are married, she will reveal more of which she isn't suppose to reveal to her husband. So there is nothing wrong with a mans heart being inclined in that direction. That is just what he would prefer in his wife to be, nothing wrong with that.

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^ I figured, Dirac, but sometimes you go on good impressions and what you've seen in your community. Although Muslim Iranians abroad tend to be secular, they're good people. I even knew an Iranian girl who started wearing hijab when she was 18, even though she came from a non-practising family. Besides, I realize that most cultures/societies/families don't like mixing with different nationalities or ethnic groups. It's unlikely that I'd marry an Iranian, or any non-Lebanese, for that matter. Some of us just have really bad luck.

go for an Iraqi girl. I rate them highly. Trying to find a pretty one could be a bit tricky though. I reckon I'm better looking than 90% of Iraqi girls out there, so it's quite tough at the moment.

You have the additional barrier of not being Iraqi, but things are changing.

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OHHHHH okay, naw no one does that, why would u post ur wives pics.

(bismillah)

ok so i think we agree that people here shouldnt post pics of their own wives. so, what makes it ok to post another man's wife w/out hijab? ..and this way he may want to post our women pics without hijab as well, equating to a haraam web in my opinion.

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ok so i think we agree that people here shouldnt post pics of their own wives. so, what makes it ok to post another man's wife w/out hijab? ..and this way he may want to post our women pics without hijab as well, equating to a haraam web in my opinion.

Well I don't advocate postings of such pictures, however the girl in this instance wouldn't mind what so ever. That picture is from a movie, so she could care less, she would probably be over the moon after reading this thread, so would her husband. But I understand, if she was some random girl from the street, it would def be inappropiate on any forum, Islamic or not.

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go for an Iraqi girl. I rate them highly. Trying to find a pretty one could be a bit tricky though. I reckon I'm better looking than 90% of Iraqi girls out there, so it's quite tough at the moment.

You have the additional barrier of not being Iraqi, but things are changing.

:lol: They hijab-it-up pretty well, though. Problem is I have no access to the Iraqi community, or to the Iranian community, or any other Shi'a community outside the Lebanese. Even they've never shown any interest.

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:lol: They hijab-it-up pretty well, though. Problem is I have no access to the Iraqi community, or to the Iranian community, or any other Shi'a community outside the Lebanese. Even they've never shown any interest.

That is because Iraqi girls are interested in desi men homeboy, particularly Pakistani men.

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