(bismillah) Back in college, i had a female teacher for whom i grew immense respect and liking. She was a Zaidi Syed Shia and had everything a guy would want in his wife: educated, beautiful, an excellent person, and the list goes on ... Approaching 30,she wasn't married as yet, and we were close enough for me to ask her why it was like that: her response, "there's no suitable Syed guy available!" Back then, not fully realising the importance of the point, on a lighter tone, i asked her if she