Annoying Things About Other People

[Rawshni]

People who create sites in flash that take till doomsday to load

People who come to request a favour, waste two hours in a preamble, and state their need when taking leave

People who arrive for work habitually late, yet leave punctually

People who create power point presentations asif they were creating box office spectaculars

People who do not clear their tables before they sign out

People who dress in a sloppy manner and call it fashion

[Bonafide Hustler]

...:lol: I laughed so hard i nearly fell off my chair! you know, i thought i wouldnt have anything to write in this topic, but now that i read all of your answers, i'm thinking 'i find all these things annoying...'

but truly, the above ....LOL... absolutely hilarious (and true!)

kudha hafiz,

from a mo'minah....

hahahahahah I know, im expecially tired of my uncles demaning my grades when my parents dont even ask

[Bonafide Hustler]

People who create sites in flash that take till doomsday to load

People who come to request a favour, waste two hours in a preamble, and state their need when taking leave

People who arrive for work habitually late, yet leave punctually

People who create power point presentations asif they were creating box office spectaculars

People who do not clear their tables before they sign out

People who dress in a sloppy manner and call it fashion

I agree those flash sites are anoyin, most flash sites are anoying.

[Syeda 82]

(salam)

Well, I am annoyed by many many things, for now I will mention what I remember.

The obsession of desis with the profession of medicine, "You don't like your job? Well you wouldn't have to do it if you had become a doctor"

"you don't like your boss, well you wouldn't have to work for someone if you were a doctor"

"You are still not married, well this wouldn't have happened if you were a doctor, your parents wouldn't have to worry about proposals and stuff"

"why are you saying, I want this and I want that, You have no choice since you didn't become a doctor, you should say yes to the first proposal you get".

"People feeling sorry for parents who worked so hard all their life and all their hard work has gone to waste since none of their children became a doctor (it doesn't matter how successful their kids are in their professions)".

"People who have one kid studying medicine and they are constantly comparing that kid with others saying to them, why are you not like him/her.......... not once in a while, they do this EVERYDAY".

People thinking Doctor = good person, or academic success = good (muttaqi, pious) person.

Daisi women living in America, saying that American culture gives too much freedom to women, they don't deserve such freedom, they need a man's whip, going on and on about how great a joint family system is and saying "I wish I could live in a joint family system" and always saying that I just want to live in America because of my kids' education. Liars, You love living in America because of this very freedom you get and because you don't have to live in a joint family system.

Daisi men living in America, saying that America is shaitan, there is something bad in the air and water which corrupts people, and basically there are no muslims in America because of the water people drink and the air they breathe in, and for these reasons they want to go back home, when The real reason they want to go back home is because they miss all the power they had back home which they don't have in America.

Also, people praising their kids and saying they are perfect in everything.

Relatives, when they meet after a long time, and my parents are exaggerating about my achievements, and I am traumatized, thinking my parents are not proud of me, my achievements are not enough and they have to lie for me, and then they ask "so how is she at housework" or some other thing, and I am looking at the person thinking " I should have all those achievements AND I should be perfect in housework also, what do you think I am related to Superman? and then when they start talking about their kids, you feel like they are really related to Superman.

People telling me that

"women should not argue with their husbands because men cannot control their anger, it's against their nature"

"women should apologize even when their husbands are at fault, because men cannot apologize, it's not in their nature"

When men get home from work, they are treated like they are back from war zone, and they deserve best food, complete rest and complete silence and all those things that can make them happy. But when women get home from work, they are told "okay your party time is over, now get to work".

"women should put up with their husbands no matter what, because a life of a divorced woman in our culture is always worse than the life of a married woman. So what if your husband doesn't respect you, you get respect from all other people like your relatives and neighbours because of your husband, if you leave your husband, all these people will stop respecting you". Sure, that justifies all injustices against women by their husbands and in-laws.

- Girls going on and on about how they are so different from ordinary girls, they don't think about marriage at all, they don't want to get married, and yet their only topic for conversation is how many proposals they got this month. Everywhere they go, there is a filmi scene, some guy just dying to get their attention, and they ignoring him, then they think it's very funny, they laugh hesterically and you have to force yourself to laugh thinking what was the funny part? why do I always miss the funny part? and then they ask you, I don't think I am that beautiful, I don't understand why all guys and their mothers always go crazy after seeing me, I think there are girls more beautiful than me, then why do they always fall in love with me, you tell me".

- Women working full time and cooking two/ three perfect dishes everyday and keeping their houses spotless, I don't know how they do it, may be they have hyperactive disorder and they don't sleep, but they set really high standards for other women.

I guess that's enough. I will stop now.

In one word, all the pretentious people. and yes, indian movies and dramas, and all the values they project.

Khuda Hafiz.

Edited April 2, 2007 by Syeda 82

[Rawshni]

People who come around to visit unannounced.

People who have head lice

People in doctor's receptions who insiist upon sharing their own and their entire clan's medical history with one.

Couiriers who crib about the weight of the packets they have to deliver.

Women who ask me "what do you do for your hair" [i do nothing.]

Women who insist upon asking newlywed women "any developmen"?

Women who keep going on and on and on and on about how bad, etc thier husbands are

Women who keep going on and on and on about how expensive and busy their beauty salon is

Wedding receptions which start 3 and a half hours behind schedule

Edited April 2, 2007 by Rawshni

[Guest Elwiya]

oooo ... thought of some more.

People who, just because you didn't specifically tell them not to tell anyone, think it's ok to spread what you tell them to the whole world.

People who think they're special, and think they have to make sure everybody else knows that (right with you on that one syeda 82!)

People who only take, and never give.

People who call and hang up without saying anything, only to surprise-visit you 30 min later

[Rawshni]

People who honk behind you as you slow down seeing the traffic light turning amber from green.

[Fairly_Odd_Girl]

People who honk behind you as you slow down seeing the traffic light turning amber from green.

Maybe there's another reason behind the honk

Men who pick their nose whilst stood at traffic lights.

Women who B***h

["HaZeL"]

i get annnoyed by people who r

Artificial.....

compulsive LIARs .....

Complexed .....

people who stink HIGH n MIGHTy n walk around as if nothing is wrong...:dry:

cheaters.....

when ur buying a suite another woman wants to buy the same print the same colour....:dry"

arrogance.....

egoistic......

for now thts enuff i think....

Edited April 4, 2007 by "HaZeL"

[Labbayk_Hezbollah]

Slow drivers

People who think its ok to burp loudly

People who lie

People who are two-faced

People who show off

["HaZeL"]

another thing i hate

people who have DOUBLE STANDARDS.....

[Rawshni]

Women who go on and on about their tailors not delievering as per their [the tailor's] promises

[repenter-gone4awhile]

People who put ketchup on EVERYTHING!!!

People who cant play playstation or other gaming consoles without waving their hands allover the place(doesn't go for Nintendo wii)

People who make them god damn yogurt/butter boxes with the aluminum foil on top of it, which i can never get of as one piece. Instead it rips up from the middle and you have to stick your fingers in there.

[Rehana.Razavi]

Prying questions

[Flower_from_Fadak]

I hate it when people don't cover their mouth when they cough. I also hate it when people sneeze- Instead of saying bless you or alhamdolilah I say eww!!

[Rawshni]

People who suddenly fly away while talking to one, materialize a week later, and begin with "Sorry about that other day . . ."

[b7ibak ya libnen]

1-ppl who bite aluminum foil and use it as grills

2- people who show off

3-people who lie

4- ppl who pick their nails

5-when my brother shoots things all over the place, thinking he's in a b-ball court :P

6- people screaming right next to your ear

7-people who breath really loud

8- when uncles start talking about politics and screaming and yelling @ eachother

9-people who chew with their mouth open

10-people who think they are gangster, ughh that bugs me!

11- when people ignore me on purpose

12-ppl who talk about me for no reason

13- ppl who stare at your body and then stare back at their to see whos fatter

thats all i can think of right now.. :)

[Syeda 82]

1. People who are hyperactive, always moving. Even when they are sitting, it feels like they are moving, I just want to say to them, RELAX. The funny thing is such people are always saying to me, "Why are you so sluggish? why are you always so sleepy, it's annoying". My sentiments exactly.

2. People who are clean freaks but they don't want to do the cleaning themselves. They are always telling other people, this place is messy why don't you do something about it. "Well, If it's bothering you so much, why don't YOU DO SOMETHING about it?"

3. Characters like Asghari and Naik Perveen and girls who try too hard to become like Asghari or Naik Perveen.

Edited April 12, 2007 by Syeda 82

[strawberry]

I hate it when people don't cover their mouth when they cough. I also hate it when people sneeze- Instead of saying bless you or alhamdolilah I say eww!!

But sis, everyone sneezes-even yourself. You wouldn't like it if somebody was disgusted from your sneeze, would you?

[Bonafide Hustler]

1. People who are hyperactive, always moving. Even when they are sitting, it feels like they are moving, I just want to say to them, RELAX. The funny thing is such people are always saying to me, "Why are you so sluggish? why are you always so sleepy, it's annoying". My sentiments exactly.

2. People who are clean freaks but they don't want to do the cleaning themselves. They are always telling other people, this place is messy why don't you do something about it. "Well, If it's bothering you so much, why don't YOU DO SOMETHING about it?"

3. Characters like Asghari and Naik Perveen and girls who try too hard to become like Asghari or Naik Perveen.

im one of these hyper moving poeple

infact when talking to u, id be shooting jumpshots in the air without a ball in my hand

[Aly]

same..im very hyperactive..even fidgety..i just cant sit still..didnt know peole find it annoying.. ^_^

[Aly]

But sis, everyone sneezes-even yourself. You wouldn't like it if somebody was disgusted from your sneeze, would you?

i think she meant that she hates it people dnt cover their mouth, or use a tissue when sneezing...at least i think so..

coz its impossible not to sneeze.

[Bonafide Hustler]

i think she meant that she hates it people dnt cover their mouth, or use a tissue when sneezing...at least i think so..

coz its impossible not to sneeze.

it is possible not to sneeze, its pretty esay to control it

but its dangerous

[strawberry]

i think she meant that she hates it people dnt cover their mouth, or use a tissue when sneezing...at least i think so..

coz its impossible not to sneeze.

Oh, alright ^_^ My apologies

[sakz]

People who put ketchup on EVERYTHING!!

^ :blush:

Umm..

1. People who think they're really big.

2. People who have no manners.

3. People who say that they're ugly just so you can tell them they are pretty. (Fishing for compliments)

4. People who act innocent in front of certain people but are rude and disrespectful in front of others. (Two-faced)

5. People who are nice to you but then go chat [Edited Out] about you too other people (Back-biting)

[Guest DjibrilCisse]

This shouldn't be in the Sisters forum!

Good thread:

-People who will start repeating hadith in a very loud voice in a crowd

-People who misuse (and overuse) the term "wallah" (and non-arabs who say "wallahi" all the time)

-People who pray extra-loud when they have guests

-People who talk about their sins and shortcomings like it was a good thing

-People who gauge senior ulema as if they were more knowledgeable ("that aalim was alright", "he needs to study")

-People who talk about how religious their friend/son/brother/cousin etc.. is ("he is so religious", "he is so knowledgeable")

-People who think praying 5 times a day is religious

-People who label religious people as "fanatics" and "extremists" ("she doesn't meet non mahram people any more", "he's become an extremist, he doesn't talk to women any more")

-People who celebrate non-Islamic festivals on a larger scale than religious festivals

-People who cover up their shortcomings by twisting Islamic law rather than admitting they're wrong

-Misuse and abuse of the verse "la ikraha fid-deen" (There is no compulsion in religion)

-People who publicize their acts of worship ("I recite Salatul-layl every night!")

-Non-Arabs who think every Arab can teach you Islam because they say a hadith in Arabic

-Arabs who assume that Non-Arabs don't know much about religion

-People who imitate the lifestyles of the non-Muslim societies they live in

-People who religiously follow soap operas (especially Western ones that seem to be full of moral corruption, not that non Western ones appear to be much better)

[Flower_from_Fadak]

i think she meant that she hates it people dnt cover their mouth, or use a tissue when sneezing...at least i think so..

coz its impossible not to sneeze.

Yeh I did mean that!!

[guest123]

^^ right on bro djibrilcisse , couldnt agree more with you!

[phoenix]

Salaam

-Hypocrisy

-People wanting to know how you are without actually meaning it (this is actually a sub-section of the above)

-Halitosis and body odour

-People who won't bother with a phone call when they cannot make it, after they have informed you of their plans to pay a visit and you have made time for them, setting aside some of your own (important) work; so also for majaalis and maHaafil

-Women and girls who give you a "hug" on 15th Sha`ban because it is the done thing, and it is anything but a hug (go learn how to do it properly from the Iranians :wub: )

-People who keep going endlessly about how you should stuff yourself, when it's clearly a case of them suffering from a complex seeing you (just say you are jealous, we will appreciate it better)

-People who will start to pass comments because they can detect your jeans from beneath your jilbaab and then have the nerve to ask if you are wearing short, sleeveless tops inside :wacko: (not everyone can relate to this, I can only speak about Indians- Mumbaiites and UPites to be specific)

-Females wearing short-sleeved shirts or less than ankle-length skirts or jeans or capris while simultaneously mile-length hair on exposed areas is proudly on display

-Ditto for guys with hairy legs

-females who will laugh out loud whenever some bloke passes them by while there was nothing funny there

-Men who think breaking wind is cool :sick:

-Parents who will point out their rights while conveniently overlooking their children's

-Siblings (read sisters) who will always be ready with unsought advice regarding what you should wear, despite having been told a hundred times that their generosity in this regard is not welcome- thank you

-People who will not give a straight reply to your questions or doubts

-MEN who will make indirect proposals and seek information about you from people who you supposedly know very well

-Spoilt, over-pampered kids and their parents who believe and want you to believe that their behaviour is cute

-People who say "Allah Hafiz" :mellow:

--

Zahraa

[(amafhh) mu'mina]

(salam)

-loud chewing.

-someone coming in and waving the word DIOR infront of your face

-someone picking out every mistake in your clothes and acting like its totally normal

-old woman constantly talking about your marraige from the day you were born.

-backbiting

:angel:

wasalam

[CheesedOff]

Salaam

-Hypocrisy

-People wanting to know how you are without actually meaning it (this is actually a sub-section of the above)

-Halitosis and body odour

-People who won't bother with a phone call when they cannot make it, after they have informed you of their plans to pay a visit and you have made time for them, setting aside some of your own (important) work; so also for majaalis and maHaafil

-Women and girls who give you a "hug" on 15th Sha`ban because it is the done thing, and it is anything but a hug (go learn how to do it properly from the Iranians :wub: )

-People who keep going endlessly about how you should stuff yourself, when it's clearly a case of them suffering from a complex seeing you (just say you are jealous, we will appreciate it better)

-People who will start to pass comments because they can detect your jeans from beneath your jilbaab and then have the nerve to ask if you are wearing short, sleeveless tops inside :wacko: (not everyone can relate to this, I can only speak about Indians- Mumbaiites and UPites to be specific)

-Females wearing short-sleeved shirts or less than ankle-length skirts or jeans or capris while simultaneously mile-length hair on exposed areas is proudly on display

-Ditto for guys with hairy legs

-females who will laugh out loud whenever some bloke passes them by while there was nothing funny there

-Men who think breaking wind is cool :sick:

-Parents who will point out their rights while conveniently overlooking their children's

-Siblings (read sisters) who will always be ready with unsought advice regarding what you should wear, despite having been told a hundred times that their generosity in this regard is not welcome- thank you

-People who will not give a straight reply to your questions or doubts

-MEN who will make indirect proposals and seek information about you from people who you supposedly know very well

-Spoilt, over-pampered kids and their parents who believe and want you to believe that their behaviour is cute

-People who say "Allah Hafiz" :mellow:

--

Zahraa

Why

[Rawshni]

Salaam

-Hypocrisy

-People wanting to know how you are without actually meaning it (this is actually a sub-section of the above)

-Halitosis and body odour

-People who won't bother with a phone call when they cannot make it, after they have informed you of their plans to pay a visit and you have made time for them, setting aside some of your own (important) work; so also for majaalis and maHaafil

-Women and girls who give you a "hug" on 15th Sha`ban because it is the done thing, and it is anything but a hug (go learn how to do it properly from the Iranians :wub: )

-People who keep going endlessly about how you should stuff yourself, when it's clearly a case of them suffering from a complex seeing you (just say you are jealous, we will appreciate it better)

-People who will start to pass comments because they can detect your jeans from beneath your jilbaab and then have the nerve to ask if you are wearing short, sleeveless tops inside :wacko: (not everyone can relate to this, I can only speak about Indians- Mumbaiites and UPites to be specific)

-Females wearing short-sleeved shirts or less than ankle-length skirts or jeans or capris while simultaneously mile-length hair on exposed areas is proudly on display

-Ditto for guys with hairy legs

-females who will laugh out loud whenever some bloke passes them by while there was nothing funny there

-Men who think breaking wind is cool :sick:

-Parents who will point out their rights while conveniently overlooking their children's

-Siblings (read sisters) who will always be ready with unsought advice regarding what you should wear, despite having been told a hundred times that their generosity in this regard is not welcome- thank you

-People who will not give a straight reply to your questions or doubts

-MEN who will make indirect proposals and seek information about you from people who you supposedly know very well

-Spoilt, over-pampered kids and their parents who believe and want you to believe that their behaviour is cute

-People who say "Allah Hafiz" :mellow:

--

Zahraa

(salam)

Very exhaustive listing.

Just to be more 110 per cent sure I will add one.

People who ask you to practice what they preach

Wassalaam

Edited April 14, 2007 by Rawshni

[phoenix]

-People who say "Allah Hafiz" :mellow:

Why

The movement to popularise the term and replace the "Khoda" in Khoda Hafiz (which was the term in vogue amongst many of the Urdu and Persian speaking populace - Hafez amongst the Iranians, though there were/are other terms like "ba amn e Khoda", "Khoda negahdaar" etcetera) with "Allah" was led by the nasibi wahhabis, on the absurd pretext that since Khoda was not a word from the Qur'an, it could not be used for 'the God'. As if!

Their attempt was successful too to quite an extent among the non-Shi`i people, and to some among the Shi`ahs too.

Although there's nothing wrong with the term as such, it reminds me of the history behind it, hence gets me a little irritated.

Very exhaustive listing.

Exhaustive? But I am not exhausted yet. Just thought up a few more. Plus, now that I have a lot of time on my hands (exams), I guess I will come to this thread regularly and spam my heart away :D Though I'll need to remind myself from time-to-time that they are exams which I am attempting, not my wedding :dry:

Just to be more 110 per cent sure I will add one.

Sure? About what?

People who ask you to practice what they preach

It might be annoying, but not so much to me. After all, if it is to my gain, who is bothered about what they lose? ^_^

More things that annoy:

-Slurping noises while sipping hot beverages

-Females giving you dripping-wet kisses

-People who get all panicky and lose presence of mind in stressful or new situations

-People finicky about tidiness and neatness, about themselves and surroundings

-Men who won’t cry because ostensibly displaying this emotion means your manliness is lacking (wherever this notion came from)

-Group-ism during latmiyyat; heaven forbid if a female from another group starts to recite an elegy; nobody would join in. Astaghfirullah!

-People who will sit at home and listen to online majaalis while there are lectures being held in their very area or nearby (forget travelling to distant places) - `azadari is a protest, a movement, an excellent mode of da`wah; please show your support and do your bit; don’t just sit behind your computer screens and spout “intelligent” replies

-People who regard with disdain those who kiss the `alam, taboot, DareeH, etc

-Certain khoja females who will refuse to let girls in Hijab carry the `alam and tabarrukaat during the mehndi

-Indecisive people

-People who post unnecessarily and also those who go haha haha when there’s nothing funny

-Seemingly extremely polite and ‘at the acme of piety’ folks

-Seniors who think you are being extremely lenient towards your students :cry: - methinks they are just jealous ‘cause their classes aren’t as much fun :Hijabi:

-Those who say they don’t have time to read the Qur’an daily :angry:

-The know-it-alls – they upset us who do -_-

-Those who gauge your measure of grief based on your participation in the “degenerated” forms of beating of chest/head while they wouldn’t have shed a drop of tear during the maSaaeb or been busy chattering away when the lecture was on

-People who think they are the only ones to have undergone the worst tortures and troubles that could afflict anyone

-People who spit, throw waste on the streets, inside trains, on railway stations, everywhere other than in the dustbins (especially those who carry their patriotism on their sleeve)

was salaam

[Playing-with-fire]

The MOST anoying things people tend to do...that drive me crazy include:

*Coming up with lame jokes-expecting others to laugh at them

*Runnig around acting like bimbos-thinking its cool (girls in partciular)

*blowing your nose in the middle of class-disrupting everyone-how bloody annoying

*people thinking they know brands, e.g Pronouncing Gucci "GHUSHU"-for heavens sake!! :dry:

5. People who are nice to you but then go chat [Edited Out] about you too other people (Back-biting)

Yeah and that...... :angry:

Edited April 19, 2007 by Playing-with-fire

[Anonimo]

Hmmmmmmmmm where do I start

1. fakeness

2. Vaguness

3. Sneaky people

4. people that touch me or try to touch me

5. People that are tooooooo quiet

6. People that can't tell you something to your face, but can tell everyone aboout it BUT YOU

7. Being ingored

8. People that end a conversation abruptly

9. people that point out another's faults infront of other people, but phrase it in a form of a question to seem all innoncent? OH but didn't YOU... Or Do try to make people feel bad infrotn of others! OH So YOUR HUSBAND LEFT YOU ?Awww

10. People that are mean

11. People that are rude

12. People that disrgarde other people's property

13. People that are late

14. Biggots

15. People that are always complaimneting themselves

16. COCKYNESS espcailly lil girls

17. People that act like there are sooooo busy, but htey just labeeek themselves, and act like htey have a million things to do

18. People that they think that if their problems are the worest things in the world

19. People that are stuck up (calm down your not that important)

20. People that act like their culture is supior

21. People that can't tell the differnce between Islamic law and cultural tradtion

22. Feet

23. People that Swear that this and that is Haram, when they know nothing about the subject

24. People that get to close to me (physically)

25. People that don't answer ALL my questions ( I don't care if I have a lot)

26. OMG Girls that think they have really soft vocies (but are really faking it)

27. Mahajjabin that wear short skirts and long boots

28. The Sunnis that tie their scarfback and have their nack and ears show

29. The girls that stick their earing/ears out of their scarf!! I mean serisouyl who doesthat

30. Oh girls that stick thiercell phones in their scarf (handfree SOOO ANNNOYING)

31. Peopale that fake relgiousity

32. guys that don't know how to talk, or stick up for themselves

33. People that talk about relgion like they are a scholar

34. People who are quick to judge others

35. People that Think I am their Maid! ( I amnot I have No job)

36. People that cuss

37. People that try to compete with you in the studiest things

38. People that are too secrtive

looooooooooooooooool WOW I am sure havea huge list!!!!! WOW THAT FELT GOOOD VENTING!!!!!!!