Salams, Lol, am not sure how this thing works,my first thread... People meet up with people they dont know well and some make a quick decision that he/she is the one and some regrat that decision and some are happy. My question here is what type of questions do you ask to find out that person is what he/she claimes to be. Yes, open questions but dont you think that most people will give you the answer you want to hear? Specially, the first time you talk. Due to the fact that the person your dealing with is a non muhram to you, there are restrictions to the way you ask the questions and how you behave. I want to know the methods you use to idenify the person and what questions you asked that made you thing his/she is the one. And if its possible what questions you ask and why you asked them,what did they determine. Oh, can the people with not so good marriages, state what they missed out in the time where they where getting to know eachother. Lol, if they had two faces then I guess theirs no answer for that. Islam says that you should accpete a relgious person with good alqak. How did you find out a person is really relgious? Surely a good person will be soft hearted and will be patient. It's best to ask for their opinions on story that have happened and what their views are on it, insided of just asking obvious questions. The only reason I did this read is so people become more aware of the person and to inspire people to ask things they may not have thought off.