AoA,
my elder daughter is 3 and half years Alhamdulillah. For past few days she has developed this illogical attitude of saying NO to everything. Weeping extensively and becoming too sensitive ,for instance if an aeroplane crosses above from the sky. She is unable to coup up against her younger sister who is hardly a year old on matters like sitting on the same chair etc.
Surprisingly, she shouts and rebukes back if told not to do something-starts weeping.
So neither can you shout nor teach her in a polite way which implies a hurdle to me in maintaining her emotional intelligence.
I am very concerned about her emotional intelligence and seek blessings from Allah and some worthy advice from the members. Important to mention here that i have allowed her watch cartoons like cocomelon etc which she recalls and mimic at times in a day. It will be difficult to completely abstain her from cartoons.
Lastly, what mandatory qualities and skills do you believe a kid of this age must possess??