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  1. Asalamualaikum, It takes a lot of me to write this so please don’t judge me. In July this year, a problem happened in my domestically violent family (mostly my dad). Ever since a child, when such things happen we are NOT allowed to inform any relatives or family friends because this will ruin our perfect family image and it is wrong to have outsiders interfere. My family all accused me of something I didn’t do. I defended myself, they beat me up, I ran to my room, they tried to open the door blah blah blah fml blah blah. I was so broken and hurt of their accusation I was crying to god to help me end this. These violent times make me so much terrified every time. Then I heard whispering and I crept to listen to find that it was all an act. This hurt so much I decided to end my life. Other things happened that led me to this decision and it wasn’t the idea of giving up, but freeing myself that led me to suicide. I overdosed on pills and went to sleep. I was ready to die. I didn’t care if I went to hell. I thought that I could negotiate and have my say with god more than I could with my family. He created me and he’s merciful. They’re not. They’re abusive. But...I woke up the next morning. Disappointed. They did something else that made me want to kill myself so I overdosed on another bottle of pills. I went to read Quran to distract myself of my aching stomach and to not vomit because bile kept rising. Then, I read Surah Al Haj and on Ayah 11. I decided to not die. This Ayah changed my life. It’s a long story on how but it did. I purged it all out and NEVER told my family or anyone about these two attempts. If I do, they will say that God is punishing me for being a bad person. I know it is haram to commit suicide but I still did try to. And why should I repent when I don’t feel sorry for trying to, but only saddened because I even had to consider and act on it? What should I do? I tried helplines and lifelines but they tell me my family isn’t safe to live with and I should report them, but I don’t want to do that. so, is what I did haram? Will I go to hell? What should I do?
  2. AOA brothers and sisters, I am in a very difficult situation in life. Something I did 10 years ago, (when I had freshly become a teenager) is still haunting me till this day. It gets better when I pray and have a positive outlook on things, but there are certain people who can never let it go. There is one person from the past who is still haunting me. People who are close to me know my story. Even though I have repented and Islamically speaking I did not do anything worth a 100 lashes wrong, but if the things I did get out, I know for a fact they will be exaggerated. I wouldn't have a happy married life. I will probably get divorced because of him and the mischief he will cause for me (I mean its been around 10 years and he still hasn't let it go then what do you expect from him?) I don't want to give my kids a broken home. My parents will be humiliated. I will not be able to live with myself. No matter who i meet or talk to will never let it go. They will (and some of them do) laugh at my back. Please don't tell me to be strong because i have tried to be strong for the past 10 years. And please don't say that those who really care about you wouldn't care at all. Because I have come to a conclusion that such people don't exist. People who you thought were close to you at one point in your life became just an acquaintance and the ones laughing behind your back. Whenever he finds out I am happy, he just cannot bear it. HE WILL DO ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING TO DESTROY MY MARRIED LIFE JUST AS WHAT HE IS DOING NOW WHEN I AM NOT EVEN MARRIED. Now I was wondering is suicide allowed? 2 nights ago I was at my rooftop ready to jump, but there was an Alam in front of me which was blowing with wind and something inside me told me I should wait. Or maybe i'm not strong enough to do it? When i think of the after life, I don't want to miss out on my chance of going to heaven. But when i think about this life, I see no light at all. Everything in my life is a mess. I don't sleep at all at night. I catch up on my sleep in the morning where i have to deal with as much less people as possible. My mother is worried sick. She's always crying for me. I wish I could undo the past. And each time I try to move on people see me happy, they bring up my past. I want to have a happy simple life. I want to have a family, I want to have kids so that I can teach them what my parents have taught me, the knowledge and the love for 14 Masoomeen A.S. I want to be there for my kids with their father( whoever he is). Please tell me if there is a way out of this? I need help, for the Love of Allah and 14 Masoomeen (A.S) guide me.
  3. My mother was talking on the phone with my Aunt, who lives in Kabul. In the middle of the conversation, my mom heard the explosion from her end. She heard the live explosion, and 80 people died in that instant. It's crazy how this stuff happens, and we never really talk about it as much as terror attacks in the west. My Aunts' neighbors are waiting for their dead children at the moment, they were standing guard in the area. It's really sad. If you haven't read into it, or want to read more, here you go. http://abcnews.go.com/International/90-killed-bomb-rips-central-kabul/story?id=47739486 Crazy part is, THE TALIBAN CONDEMNED THE ATTACK.
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    What happens after Suicide...

    Asslam o Alaikum...Ya Ali علیہ اسلام madad.My question is based on Suicide...Really want to know what happens after suicide? (According to Shia islam please.) I've heard that if a person commits suicide soul wanders.Is this true? Imam pak's farameen about this what Quran majeed says about all this
  5. This is going to sound stupid but Is suicide allowed under specific circumstances? I know it is haram but maybe under dire circumstances? Is it mentioned anywhere in islam that it is allowed like what if the only way to avoid some sin or unpleasant act which you are being forced into which you can do nothing else about, is to die- will it be justified? Just wondering
  6. salam, i saw this article on CNN and i was thinking about a number of occasions in which a new member comes here seeking help. http://edition.cnn.com/2015/09/01/asia/japan-teen-suicides/index.html?sr=cnnifb These sort of help cannot be acquired from Ayatollah websites or any religious website for that matter. So i am wondering if this community is ready to deal with such scenarios, would we ignore it? Troll it? Do we have something constructive to say regarding this? Please, if you have positive thoughts share them. If you don't, keep your opinion to yourself as prophet said "whoever fears Allah and the hereafter then let him say good things or keep silent"
  7. I been thinking of committing suicide. I have way to much stress and I feel like I have no future. I believe in god, I really do, but I can't do this anymore. I'm not wanted in this world, I know that people care about me. I'm just not happy. I tried being happy, I can't its impossible i been like this for a year now and its killing me. If I do end up committing suicide how badly will I be punished? Will god have any mercy on me. I have decided that its the best choice for me. I just need to know what will happen to me afterwards.
  8. http://www.facesofsuicide.com/ According to the World Health Organization, almost one million (1,000,000) people die from suicide each year. In the last 45 years, suicide rates have increased 60% worldwide. In the United States, there is an average of one suicide every 15 minutes. This site was created to help us remember some of the names and faces of people from all over the world whose deaths were self-inflicted. Click on a picture to view more information about the person, and for links to their memorial pages. We hope to show visitors that suicide is a tragic end to lives that once had great potential. Most of all, however, we hope to plant seeds of compassion in the hearts of those who view these faces: seeds that may develop into a commitment to understanding suicide and finding solutions. This site is dedicated to the parents, family members and friends left behind. It was originally created on September 8, 2007, and rebuilt after a server crash in February 2011. New faces are submitted daily.
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