Salam. I am a shia muslim from pakistan, eligible for marriage. I am not even seeking mutah. Anyway, long story short, i can't find a shia girl to get married to. They decline my proposals in real life as well as online site like Shiamatch. Shiamatch is the worst. I have sent requests to over 200 girls there. I have received about 190 rejections. 5-6 of which have accepted my proposal have exchanged pics and emails then no response. Why? I am getting desperate here. I am not even ugly or poor. I am upper middle class. Please, can someone explain why? Do these girls want to migrate to the west? Do they want rich men? Please approve this message mods. I need help from my shia brothers and sisters in this fine community.