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Aslamun Alaiykum brothers and sisters I am wondering what is happening to the shias these days, especially in India. The weddings are full of haram. All rules are being relaxed. No one caring about hijab, music playing, extravagance. Our weddings are also full of hindu inspired customs (like shoe stealing etc. ). On top of this the parents force us to attend such gatherings. And if you try to protest you are dragged into fruitless arguments. Concept of na mehram has dissappeared. Mixed interactions in name of 'family'. High expenditures are a norm. The only Islamic thing left about weddings is the haditn e kisa, nikah and a few mankabat. If you try to follow rules , you are seen as extremist 'mullah' . WLot of food is being wasted while there are so many starving Muslims in the world. I don't know where we are going. At this rate we would end up becoming like christians and jews . I am feeling very guilty of being involved in such sinful activities. Any thoughts about this?

I cant but notice the hate and takfiri acts , different sects have for one another . . I don't understand why all that hate for , don't we all believe in one Allah , prophat Mohammed is out nabi , quran is our book of revelation .. why and why do you ignore all the common stuff and jump on each other throats for the differences . if prophat Mohammed s.a.w come to us today and wanted to enter the majid to meet his people , what you gonna tell him , no this is shia masjids come here don't go to those sufis or sunnis they non muslims , if prophat Mohammed asked why don't they believe in me , what would you say , that you heard some hadiths from you that say they kafirs ? because of the different sects and the fights among them , I almost turned to atheism because of your useless fights that end up in wars and many blood was spill and shaded in name of false jihad and takfir of one another . I don't feel safe even among other muslims , I am afraid .. when I am with shia I act as shia , when I am with sunni I act as sunni , but when I am by myself I know all those sects are nonsense , only the quran is the true way and path toward the truth . this what I believe but even this I can't out it because I am scared of people around me ... muslims should stop this , but seems no one is ready to listen , they just ready to pick fight with one another and end up saying I am the true muslim and you are kafir etc etc . and salafits/wahabi take it to another level and chop your head off